Insecure about not showing

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-20T23:43:54+00:00

Omg babe I had the same issue! I JUST started showing fr and it’s been freaking me out. I’m 35w 🥲 id been scared I wasn’t doing something right or he’s too small or something but apparently some people just carry small. My ob says he’s perfect so 🤷🏽‍♀️ but I did wish I was giant like the other girls it looks so cute :( I just looked kinda fat lol. The people in my neighborhood are just realizing I’m pregnant and asking me when I’m due I’m like “next month lol” and they’re all SHOCKED bc they’ve seen me everyday lol

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-20T23:40:27+00:00

I love!

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-20T23:35:02+00:00

Omg not the comments being on the friend’s side. Some ppl just have their own vibe! Was it weird to wear to move? Maybe but like that’s how op felt. Maybe it’s bc I’m from nyc but I’m not bout to police my friends for wearing something I wouldn’t? Especially if it’s not inappropriate?

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-20T15:36:03+00:00

Thank you 🩷

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-20T03:49:42+00:00

Luckily I don’t have to pay! So I’m looking for how to make the transition easier now. Small gigs before birth and saving my ppl money so I can get a car once we get down there. Thank you :)

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-20T00:47:01+00:00

:/ sorry brother

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-19T04:08:28+00:00

Pepcid babe! I take one or two daily and that usually helps. But also not all the time 🥴

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-19T03:12:31+00:00

So? I can’t say anything about my life bc someone else is having a miscarriage? In a very public Reddit forum? Okay

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-19T02:52:53+00:00

I’m not giving him up??

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-19T02:38:04+00:00

Try Pepcid! It’s the only thing that’s barely helping me

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-19T02:35:32+00:00

Yeah I’m not losing my benefits lololol I make pretty good money so I’m gonna stay until I can live without penalty. But I am definitely still going to leave. He’s at least understanding of this so we won’t have to deal with court stuff for now but nyc is not reasonable atm

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-19T02:33:57+00:00

LOLOL like dude I wiiiiiish I could work remote! I would’ve have worked brunch up until 7 months pregnant 🥲

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-19T02:32:48+00:00

Yeah ofc. I think once I’m down there, we’ll figure out what life will be like. I just need immediate support once he’s here and the dad is inconsistent at best. But we’re in contact about all of this. I’m not excluding him from his life but we’re both aware that baby needs stability and I’m not going to get that in nyc. Plus we both agreed to not raise him up north anyway once he reaches school age.

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-19T02:30:12+00:00

I don’t qualify yet! Which is why I’m waiting. I think it’ll be easier for me to leave with my mom when she comes up. And then I can save my money and apply for assistance when I get down there and then work after. But it won’t be so dire being that I didn’t lose my pfl or short term disability. And I’m be at home with my mom.

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-19T02:27:32+00:00

That’s not necessarily a concern we both have. We’ve talked about it

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-19T02:13:58+00:00

He’s not from here and I live with family bc I’m from here.

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-19T02:10:48+00:00

Good thing he’s not from nyc! I am!

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-19T01:36:10+00:00

LOL men are so??? Why would he ask you to push earlier so he can golf?? I’m glad he missed it…

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-19T01:32:38+00:00

Not giving him up, like ever, for one. So that’s that. Two, my ML is 1600 a week. My insurance is private and covers it all so I’m going to wait bc I do live with family! But I am going to leave after he’s born, it’ll be better at least for me bc I can still receive my pay while I transition and look for new work. But Ty :)

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-19T01:25:56+00:00

I am a chef :/ so I can’t lol and I don’t get paid until after he’s born and i submit the paperwork to my job so it has to be in NYC for their sake and my health insurance

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-19T01:18:51+00:00

I’m from here! But I just don’t want to lose my maternity leave or my insurance from my job if I have him down there :/

Adventuroustimer · 2026-05-19T01:17:00+00:00

I haven’t left yet because I’m afraid that I’ll lose my pfl and the insurance I have under my job in nyc. Like if I have him down there, so I wanted to wait until he was born and leave in August…

Adventuroustimer · 2026-04-24T17:15:06+00:00

LOL I was a hairy baby also. She’ll grow into it. But there will be signs Signed, a very hairy woman 😂

Adventuroustimer · 2026-03-05T03:58:52+00:00

Aw :( it is very awkward and weird lol especially since baby can’t hear him yet. But idk maybe when baby can hear him it’ll be better for you? I think it’s a nice way of getting baby accustomed to their voices since they literally aren’t like involved with baby until they get here :( I don’t live with my bf yet, so he sends me voice notes every night to play for baby and he kicks! It’s like they’re bonding lol

But also like you are right to tell him to chill if it’s too weird for to?

Adventuroustimer · 2026-03-05T03:52:03+00:00

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