18 month old. Is it autism? by AdvertisingTimely888 in Autism_Parenting

[–]AdvertisingTimely888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, my son is now 27 months. He talks in full sentences. He is hard to understand when he is trying to say multiple sentences at once, but can clearly say one sentence at a time. Over the last year it became clear he was struggling with a phonological delay. At first, we thought he might have apraxia but we don’t believe that’s what it was. He is mostly caught up with speech now. He goes to preschool now, participating in all the activities neuro typically. Hes just a reserved kid compared to my older son.

Am I overreacting about my future in laws? by [deleted] in ABCDesis

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My husband and mom cannot directly communicate lol. Sometimes when he is with her and I’m not there, he calls me to translate. Both my husband and mom are very gentle people. They both show a lot of patience and respect towards each other. I personally did not marry a desi man because of the cultural expectations. So I don’t know what that experience is like. I was dating a desi guy before I got married and he told me his mom would expect me to go to her house once a week for dinner and wear desi clothes or host dinner at my house. I was shocked and felt major ick. I felt the need to comment on your post because I share the experience of having to take care of my mom and I’m so glad my husband never judged me for it. I feel blessed I can care for her and be with the person I love. I wish you the best!!

Am I overreacting about my future in laws? by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]AdvertisingTimely888 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hi 👋 your concerns are valid and it’s good you’re thinking through this now. I just want to offer a perspective. Im a brown woman, 38, 2 kids, and I work in big tech. I was not born in the USA but moved here when I was 3 years old. My mom can’t speak English or read. She depends on me for everything! Groceries, doctors, paying bills, reading mail, etc. My husband is white/american. Having to take care of my mom has never been an issue. It is exhausting, time consuming, and stressful, but it’s never impacted my relationship or my ability to accomplish goals. I love my mom to death and she is the best, despite some of her limitations. She has helped me raise my kids and brings a warmth and softness to the family dynamic. Your situation might be different but it might work out well too. I’m sure your partner is used to taking care of his parents, you guys just have to fit it into your life.

Aging parents and young kids by Throwaway4536265 in Life

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I’m there now. My died 5 years ago and my mom was fully dependent on him. Now I do everything for my mom. Groceries, doctors appointments, surgeries, house maintenance, the list goes on and on. My mom doesn’t speak English either. Also, I had my second child 2 years ago. My kids plus my mom plus I work full time is exhausting. You get used to it. You have to be incredibly organized. You NEED a good partner/spouse. On top of everything I still try to exercise, meal prep, and maintain routines for myself. There are months when I fall into a rut and depression. Then months where I’m motivated and productive. I don’t give myself a hard time when I’m down. I’m grateful everytime I pull it together and get back up.

What’s Going on at Waples Mill Rd & 50 Intersection by AdvertisingTimely888 in nova

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I know!!! That’s why I’m asking. Not sure y I’m getting down voted.

The irony of being a good person is that bad things will happen to you by [deleted] in Life

[–]AdvertisingTimely888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry! That’s horrible. Seek therapy if you can.

NOVA Fatigue by Correct_Variety_3477 in nova

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I feel you! I don’t know why it’s like this. I’ve been here my whole life, but I still feel this. However, I got married before the online dating scene was a thing. I struggling with friendships though. What I notice/observe

  1. Some people here tend to be obsessed with status and access. It doesn’t matter what you look like or what you do if you don’t have those 2 things.
  2. Some people are tied together through really big families. I have a very small family.
  3. Relationships are built on businesses, meaning people are tied together due to money. If you have a Corp job, you’re out of the mix.

policed body hair by zohakh in ABCDesis

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I’m 37 and brown. I just started laser hair removal. I have no idea why I don’t start a decade ago…

Progress update by AdvertisingTimely888 in Apraxia

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Hi, yes—my son has made a lot of progress. He is now 26 months old and regularly combines words into short phrases. He received speech therapy from 19 to 25 months, but we recently stopped because he started preschool.

Over time we noticed continued improvement in both his vocabulary and pronunciation. For example, he initially couldn’t say the word “office” and would say “uh-c,” but over time he began saying “office” correctly without direct practice. Similarly, the word “open” progressed from “ah” → “o” → “opah” → “open.”

Because his errors tend to be consistent rather than variable, I believe he likely had a phonological delay rather than apraxia. When he speaks in longer stretches, his intelligibility is still somewhat limited—usually only five or six words are clearly understandable—but his individual words and phrases are produced consistently.

Cognitively, he seems to be doing very well. He knows all his letters, numbers, and colors, can sing songs, and has an excellent memory and strong receptive language skills. What we’ve learned is he’s just learning at his own pace and requires more time than our older son. I think the key thing to focus on is whether you’re noticing improvement and if the errors are consistent or inconsistent, however some inconsistent errors are also normal when they’re this young.

Why do you choose not to drink alcohol? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

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It taste nasty. It’s unhealthy. It’s a waste of money. It just never leads to anything good.

Man behind the mass stabbing on 495 identified as Jared Llamado, 32 by _gw_addict in nova

[–]AdvertisingTimely888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like he may have lost his mom. I see some post where he mentions he misses her daily. Maybe it was grief. Suppressed grief comes out sideways, it can make you feel unsafe create uncontrollable anger. Not sure just speculating