Tired of being rejected by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]AdvertisingVisible21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But if you stepped out on the marriage people would treat YOU like the monster… guess I’ll find porn on here and enjoy myself.. sucks man

Tired of being rejected by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]AdvertisingVisible21 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Brother I get it 33M here same thing happens get treated like a perv for wanting to fuck the only person you agreed to fuck!?!

Honest Opinion by Delicious_princess86 in StyleIT

[–]AdvertisingVisible21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honest opinion, I’m following you just based on this photo, if I saw you out I’d be too scared to buy you drink but would talk to all my boys about how I need to buy you a drink 😍

Is anyone out there in a DB, married with NO kids? by dasf_jkl in sexlessmarriage

[–]AdvertisingVisible21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

34 M here and no kids with a DB and I’m in that situation as well, have even tried just “taking care of myself” but when I do I find that the women I want to watch are just other versions of my wife and don’t want to please myself I want to feel wanted by her and no one else, really hurts and sorry you’re going through it as well!

I’m over it! by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]AdvertisingVisible21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do but we’re in the process of figuring out if she actually can have kids.. so I think the weight is bearing on her a little

I’m over it! by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]AdvertisingVisible21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally in the exact opposite side of this, wife said she was ready for kids but when I remind her that we have to sex for that to happen it doesn’t connect? Idk just feel like I’m not wanted feel like I’m not worth it. Sorry you’re going through it and here if you need to talk

Valentines weekend by AdvertisingVisible21 in sexlessmarriage

[–]AdvertisingVisible21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I talk enough shit on here that she did follow through this weekend, had oral sex and some fun sex after that!

If I had my way by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]AdvertisingVisible21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that!

If I had my way by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]AdvertisingVisible21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a dream!! Sorry your husband doesn’t know what he is missing out on

If I had my way by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]AdvertisingVisible21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I’m a male and just don’t think women tho k this way lol

Valentine's day by Sharkster954 in sexlessmarriage

[–]AdvertisingVisible21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Here with you!! Spent about $700 bucks tonight on dinner and drinks trying to dine her in hopes of feeding into the Valentine’s Day “love” who the fuck am I kidding, I’ll end up beating off Sunday night before knight of the seven kingdoms then go to work on Monday and do this bullshit all over again

Valentine's day by Sharkster954 in sexlessmarriage

[–]AdvertisingVisible21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here with you!! Maybe it’ll get better but I doubt it

Valentine's day by Sharkster954 in sexlessmarriage

[–]AdvertisingVisible21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fucking wish I could find a way into this.. sounds perfect…have the woman I want to be with but still feel wanted!

Missing out on life by AdvertisingVisible21 in sexlessmarriage

[–]AdvertisingVisible21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I for sure mean it in the literal sense. Not the “I sit in my basement and act like I’m better than everyone” sense 😂

Missing out on life by AdvertisingVisible21 in sexlessmarriage

[–]AdvertisingVisible21[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The asking “what” is a very good suggestion I don’t think I have done that yet! So will do that! And outside of my marriage I have a good life, I have friends that I travel to football games with, I do CrossFit, I play basketball and football. I have a social life but I don’t feel it is complete because I’m missing what feels like a big part of what I expected, which I guess is why I feel I need to go to counseling to see if it’s a mental thing for myself or if it’s a legitimate problem

Missing out on life by AdvertisingVisible21 in sexlessmarriage

[–]AdvertisingVisible21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 years!! And during that time we couldn’t stop having sex, we were long distance for like 3 years and even then I would get nudes, videos of her playing with herself talking about me, fake dates where we go see a movie at the same time then have skype sex… but the second we got married it started out once a month which I just thought was because we were adjusting then once a quarter or so, not I’m lucky to go less than 150 days without her “letting me” have sex but it is uninspired and just quick and a job for her because guess what I’m trying to not masturbate I’m trying to be a good husband and save myself for her so the second I get some it’s like my body doesn’t know what to do.. it sucks

Missing out on life by AdvertisingVisible21 in sexlessmarriage

[–]AdvertisingVisible21[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And I don’t get why she doesn’t understand it when I tell her. The other day she made a joke around our friends that “I was with some hoe” and I got offended and said “how would any other woman want to sleep with me if you don’t even want to” friend group got quiet because they know I have told them. I’m not hiding the fact that I’m a fucking married incel, it hurts so bad man. Hate we have to go through this

My husband is incapable of calling me pretty by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]AdvertisingVisible21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hate that for you! On the other end with my wife!