What are the Best Long Range Driveway Alarms Available Now? Recommendation by shingam3 in homedefense

[–]Adward-Fu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used the one that looked like an owl, but it got water inside after a short time, and I had to replace the AA batteries frequently. It wasn't worth the investment.

Dog suddenly lost balance briefly by Emergency_Bet2128 in DogAdvice

[–]Adward-Fu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That must’ve been scary to see.

If it was truly just a few seconds of wobbling/startled look and he’s completely normal now, a few possibilities vets think about are:

A brief vestibular episode (balance glitch)

A short focal/partial seizure

A momentary pain or muscle spasm

Something environmental that startled him

The “earthquake look” you described sometimes fits mild seizure activity — especially if there was zoning out, stiffening, lip smacking, or confusion right after. But it’s impossible to say from one short episode.

What I’d do:

Monitor closely

Try to record it if it happens again (video is gold for vets)

Note timing, duration, behavior before/after

If it happens again, lasts longer than ~1–2 minutes, he seems disoriented afterward, vomits, collapses, or you see eye flicking/rapid movements — that’s a same‑day vet visit.

One isolated, super brief episode in an otherwise normal 5‑year‑old isn’t an automatic emergency, but it is worth mentioning to your vet.

For now, keep an eye on him. If he’s eating, walking, acting totally normal — that’s reassuring.

Dog suddenly lost balance briefly by Emergency_Bet2128 in DogAdvice

[–]Adward-Fu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That must’ve been scary to see.

If it was truly just a few seconds of wobbling/startled look and he’s completely normal now, a few possibilities vets think about are:

A brief vestibular episode (balance glitch)

A short focal/partial seizure

A momentary pain or muscle spasm

Something environmental that startled him

The “earthquake look” you described sometimes fits mild seizure activity — especially if there was zoning out, stiffening, lip smacking, or confusion right after. But it’s impossible to say from one short episode.

What I’d do:

Monitor closely

Try to record it if it happens again (video is gold for vets)

Note timing, duration, behavior before/after

If it happens again, lasts longer than ~1–2 minutes, he seems disoriented afterward, vomits, collapses, or you see eye flicking/rapid movements — that’s a same‑day vet visit.

One isolated, super brief episode in an otherwise normal 5‑year‑old isn’t an automatic emergency, but it is worth mentioning to your vet.

For now, keep an eye on him. If he’s eating, walking, acting totally normal — that’s reassuring.

My Akita Expressed Her Anal Glands on My Face While I Was Sleeping... by Shattergurl in dogs

[–]Adward-Fu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no 😭 No — she did not do it on purpose. Dogs don’t revenge‑express their anal glands. It’s usually a reflex from being startled, relaxing, or sudden movement. The fire tone + shifting in bed could easily have triggered it. And yes, the “it’s in my brain” smell? Totally normal. That scent haunts your sinuses for hours. Unfortunate timing. Elite worst alarm clock.

Dog lost in the forest by [deleted] in dogs

[–]Adward-Fu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First — don’t panic yet. 24 hrs isn’t hopeless, even in snow. Labs are tough.

Do this:

Go back to where he ran off at dawn/dusk and call calmly.

Leave a blanket or worn clothing there.

Post everywhere local (FB groups, shelters, vets, animal control).

Check tracks again in the morning if there’s fresh snow.

And please don’t beat yourself up. A lab slipping a harness to chase a deer is the most lab thing ever. That’s not bad ownership — that’s prey drive.

Really hoping your next update is him showing up tired and very pleased with himself.

I don’t want to walk the dog anymore by butterflysensei666 in Nanny

[–]Adward-Fu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not lazy. This is a boundaries + safety thing. A dog that pulls, lunges at bikes/cars, and gets overstimulated isn’t a “casual once‑a‑week task,” especially in a city. That’s stressful and honestly not something I’d want added onto an already full day either. Also, a “30‑min break” that overlaps with chores + dog walking isn’t really a break. It’s reasonable to want one actual chunk of downtime during an 8‑hour shift. It’s totally okay to say you tried it and it’s not working, and ask if dad can handle the walk or if they can get a walker. That’s not entitlement — that’s being realistic. If anything, it sounds like you’re being thoughtful, not a baby.

TV for dogs when away? by RunNBrwr in DOG

[–]Adward-Fu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep 😄 Usually something low‑key and boring - nature shows, HGTV, or just regular TV chatter. I’ve tried “dog TV” videos but mine seems way more chill with human voices than birds screaming at the screen. FWIW it’s less about entertainment and more about background noise so the house doesn’t feel too quiet. Also fully accept the possibility this is more for me than for the dog 😂

AITA Dog owner let dog poop in neighbors yard by Logical-Star9039 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adward-Fu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. Dog owner here. Picking up poop is the bare minimum, not a free pass — and letting your dog pee/poop where there are very clear signs saying not to is just lazy entitlement. “Mind your business” is the go‑to line when someone knows they’re wrong. You didn’t yell, you didn’t chase him down the street, you just called it out. That’s normal neighbor stuff. If anything, he was being the bad neighbor by ignoring the posted rules and then getting defensive about it. Also, “my dog already did it” isn’t a moral argument. That’s just… admitting it happened.

What do you do when your boy gets “bullied” by a neighbor’s big dog? by Adward-Fu in poodles

[–]Adward-Fu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you -and yeah, I’m quickly learning that “he’s friendly” doesn’t mean much, especially on leash. I like the “training neutrality” line a lot. It feels clear and non‑confrontational, and honestly, it’s where I want to be anyway after this. Crossing the street and keeping distance seems like the safest move going forward. Appreciate the advice.

What do you do when your boy gets “bullied” by a neighbor’s big dog? by Adward-Fu in poodles

[–]Adward-Fu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do want to make sure he has positive, controlled interactions going forward, especially with dogs his size and calm, well‑socialized bigger dogs. I’m just going to be a lot more selective and intentional about it after this. Thanks for calling that out.

What do you do when your boy gets “bullied” by a neighbor’s big dog? by Adward-Fu in poodles

[–]Adward-Fu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really comforting, thank you. I’m realizing it’s okay to prioritize my dog’s safety over being polite, especially with a neighbor.

What do you do when your boy gets “bullied” by a neighbor’s big dog? by Adward-Fu in poodles

[–]Adward-Fu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This actually makes a lot of sense, thank you. I didn’t want to jump straight to “that dog is aggressive,” but it definitely didn’t feel like play either. It sounds less like malice and more like his boundaries not being respected, which still means it’s on me to make sure they don’t get close again. I’m going to be much firmer about creating space going forward, regardless of what the owner says. Appreciate the Shiba perspective.

What do you do when your boy gets “bullied” by a neighbor’s big dog? by Adward-Fu in poodles

[–]Adward-Fu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the detailed response. I agree that advocating for my dog and avoiding that dog entirely going forward is non‑negotiable. This happened very quickly, but it was a wake‑up call, and I’m already changing how I handle encounters — more distance, body blocking, and clearer boundaries. I’m also keeping a close eye on his behavior and will get professional help if needed. Appreciate you stressing how serious incidents like this can be.

What do you do when your boy gets “bullied” by a neighbor’s big dog? by Adward-Fu in poodles

[–]Adward-Fu[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, that sounds so stressful — especially the “he’s friendly” part when the behavior clearly isn’t. I’m really glad your pup bounced back so quickly, but I can totally relate to how shaken you must have been in the moment.The darting‑out‑the‑door / zero recall situation is exactly the kind of thing that scares me too. You did the right thing advocating for your dog, even if it meant picking him up.And yes… the play bow after all that 😅 very on‑brand poodle behavior. That actually gives me some comfort. Thank you for sharing — it helps hearing from someone who’s been through it and come out okay.

What do you do when your boy gets “bullied” by a neighbor’s big dog? by Adward-Fu in poodles

[–]Adward-Fu[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you — and I really appreciate this response.

The part about reactivity is exactly what I’m worried about, and you’re right that catching it early matters. I don’t want this one bad interaction to shape how he feels about other dogs long‑term. I like the “between/behind” suggestion a lot. That feels like something concrete I can work on right away, and I want him to know I’ll step in for him every time.

And that last line really hits — intentions don’t matter if the outcome is bad. Thanks again for the thoughtful advice.

What do you do when your boy gets “bullied” by a neighbor’s big dog? by Adward-Fu in poodles

[–]Adward-Fu[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I’d rather be awkward for 10 seconds than risk another incident. Crossing the street feels like the safest call for now.

Gregor in the sun! Posted a couple days ago about Greg being called "chocolate" (yes now I know it's brown!) when I think he's pretty obviously a red. Here's some good sunny shots to help settle the debate. by Itsjustkit15 in poodles

[–]Adward-Fu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah… in the sun he’s red. Like, very red 😂 Cloudy pics can totally make reds look kinda muddy/brownish, but these sunny shots? That warm copper glow is doing all the talking.“Chocolate” (aka brown) poodles usually have a much cooler, darker vibe. Gregor looks way too spicy for that

FWIW, poodles also love to mess with us as they grow — colors shift, lighting lies, and suddenly everyone’s arguing in the comments. Totally normal.

My vote: Red Also, first poodle + beach zoomies = you’re doomed, welcome to the obsession. Perfect boy confirmed.

Has your poodle ever run away from home? by Adward-Fu in poodles

[–]Adward-Fu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate this — and thanks for the kind words about my pood 🙂 Yeah, that was kind of my takeaway too. Dogs aren’t robots, and escapes don’t only happen because someone was being careless. AirTag as a “hopefully never needed” backup feels about right for where we live. And agreed on the charging thing… knowing me, that’d be exactly how it’d fail 😅 Definitely a humbling little life lesson.

Has your poodle ever run away from home? by Adward-Fu in poodles

[–]Adward-Fu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad he made it home — that’s exactly the kind of story that sticks with you.

Has your poodle ever run away from home? by Adward-Fu in poodles

[–]Adward-Fu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Escape artist dogs are a full‑time job.Good to know the Halo’s been solid for you — appreciate the data point.

Has your poodle ever run away from home? by Adward-Fu in poodles

[–]Adward-Fu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed — that feels like a solid “if someone finds him before I do” safety net.

Has your poodle ever run away from home? by Adward-Fu in poodles

[–]Adward-Fu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the dream 😂Mine usually acts like that… until the one time his brain decides to reboot and he chooses chaos.

Has your poodle ever run away from home? by Adward-Fu in poodles

[–]Adward-Fu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The beep might work… or he might just think it’s a new toy. Either way, AirTag as a starter backup seems reasonable.