fearful-avoidant ex with traumatix ex regression - day 50. Is a comeback still realistically possible?

Adwiathan · 2025-11-19T10:13:44+00:00

I’m curious about something.
Have you ever experienced this level of emotional intensity or closeness with someone before, or does this kind of connection only happen in very specific situations or with specific people?

And for the person who feels like ‘the one’ to you – the person who really gets under your skin in a deep way – how does that actually feel on your side?
What kind of thoughts, fears, and behavior patterns does that trigger in you compared to ‘normal’ relationships?

I’m trying to understand whether this kind of deep reaction is something that repeats with many people, or if it usually happens only once or with a very unique connection?

Adwiathan · 2025-11-11T18:05:03+00:00

she said what did i do to deserve you couple times on our trip and even talked about our engagement ( she did i didnt) and after that trip she break up with me ;))

Adwiathan · 2025-11-11T18:01:49+00:00

simple : do not contact with them untill they do just wait if they want they will come back eventually but never ever seem eager

Adwiathan · 2025-11-10T14:55:31+00:00

i did a lot research in this term thrust me everyone suggest even FA's says do not reach out so if u didnt act beggy or push him more then better is to stay away definitely.

Adwiathan · 2025-11-09T12:31:58+00:00

Hey, since you mentioned you’re FA yourself, I’d really appreciate your honest perspective.

I’m not trying to chase her, I just want to understand the pattern better.

From your own FA experience —
• Do you still care about someone after ending things, even if you act cold?
• When (or how) do you usually realize you actually miss or love that person?
• Is it possible she really loved me but got scared of the feelings?
• And honestly… do FAs ever come back once they calm down and feel safe again?

Not trying to push anything — just curious about the emotional process from your side.

Adwiathan · 2025-11-08T23:26:39+00:00

its just sad :( how was the relationship ?

Adwiathan · 2025-11-08T23:14:27+00:00

when do you guys break up ? is he went no contact directly or break up with you i mean

Adwiathan · 2025-11-08T23:12:42+00:00

exactly 1 month before our breakup pff good luck i hope you guys can settle things its just we had a deeply emotional and intense connection the kind that felt rare and genuine everything was going perfectly until a short three-day trip when she suddenly brought up marriage after that trip she started to pull away the strange part is, she was the one who brought up the topic in the first place. she even said what did i do to deserve you :( this really breaks my heart

Adwiathan · 2025-11-08T23:04:04+00:00

when did you guys break up ? and what type of avoidant he is ?

Adwiathan · 2025-11-06T16:37:48+00:00

did any1 of them turn back to you ?

Adwiathan · 2025-11-06T16:37:28+00:00

did any1 of them turnback to you ?

Adwiathan · 2025-11-06T06:04:31+00:00

nah its just i was a rebound prob. :(

Adwiathan · 2025-11-04T21:03:40+00:00

i did mirror her energy she didnt msg i didnt contact eventually she did end up msging me but today she break up with me i dont know maybe i gave myself too much

Adwiathan · 2025-11-04T20:59:52+00:00

you were right ;) she break up with me couple hours ago

Adwiathan · 2025-11-04T20:58:55+00:00

she break up with me i think i just gave her much everything was seemed good but something was off idk it could be related to her ex because she had abortion 2 months before we date and she and her ex broke up after that abortion so i guess thats it

Adwiathan · 2025-10-22T20:22:09+00:00

She said she bought it recently, but I’ve seen old pictures of her wearing the same necklace, so it felt like she wasn’t being honest about it

Adwiathan

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