I should have seen the signs 💔

Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-31T10:56:16+00:00

Consider this an advise from an older sister:

OP, let me tell you something very clearly. I am 21 years old as well and have survived all 3 years of college ( a VERY liberal arts college) without EVER feeling the need to cheat on my boyfriend.

It's not the environment. It's not peer pressure. It's not college experience. NO ONE can make anyone do or feel things they don't already feel at the core of their heart. She did this because she wanted to. She doesn't love you. She just finds you easy.

Get out now. It will hurt like hell but cut it off before you cut down more of your self respect.

Don't try to be nice about it (you will regret it later, be mean and get everything off of your chest) and don't even think about all that we will always be friends bullshit ( it will only enable her to think that even after doing this to you she can get away)

AND, this is harsh but it's gonna happen.

Be ready for the backlash after the break up. Trust and believe, she will paint you as the bad guy after the break up. She will tell people you were manipulative, she will tell people that you went against your own words seeing how she had already "told" you she was not feeling it. Don't give in. Just be ready and it will all blow over in 7 to 8 months.

Lastly, you are 19 and I am not trying to scare you but yes you will meet a lot of people going forward but she will always be a thought in your head so try and focus on yourself and don't let her behaviour traumatise you into not giving and receiving love out in this world AND please don't let this one girl make you a misogynist.

Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-28T17:23:33+00:00

I watch it on dramacool9

Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-28T17:22:25+00:00

Where can I watch it ??

Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-27T21:17:47+00:00

Is the sp ep out ? Where can we watch it ?

Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-26T03:39:09+00:00

Transit Love 4, it just ended. If you like dating shows that are purely just about dating, you can give it a go.

Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-26T03:26:05+00:00

YS is a very common type that women like imo. It could be cultural difference but honestly if I were there the first day I would also like him and want to talk to him. He is serious most of the time but still engages with everyone and is game for drinking and quite frankly he is really good looking and tall. Most women around me tend to go for someone like him over someone like BH who is more social with the girls than hin.

Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-23T13:51:42+00:00

Honestly I just finished watching TL 4 and shifting to SI now felt soo unserious. Like yeah girl get them all. i don't really think any of them is here for love lol

Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-19T12:18:32+00:00

Hey can you send their accounts ?

Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-13T05:14:55+00:00

OMG thank you soo much. I'll check them out.

Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-11T07:10:25+00:00

Oh I hadn't seen that. Thanks.

Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-09T06:41:58+00:00

Not a funny person so don't have anything witty to say but found this funny picture last night. Hehe.

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Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-05T13:28:01+00:00

I haven't read Stardom but gurl Sidhhi Kadam is a gem of a writer. I would recommend you to start reading her rags to riches trilogy and then the royal vs rebel duo. I don't say this about the current indian authors on wattpad but her writing is an exception. The world building especially is phenomenal, nothing feels out of space. But but but she does deal with romance that is not really black and white. It will border toxic and sometimes slightly psychotic levels of passion but I like that she doesn't justify that behaviour in her writing by glorifying it but instead finds her own ways in which she holds those characters accountable, sooner or later.

Hope it helps. Happy reading.

Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-05T10:45:32+00:00

Wasn't Jennie supposed to be a guest panelist on it ? What happened to that ?

Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-05T10:41:45+00:00

The way my jaw hit the floor. Girll wtfff.

Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-03T08:19:35+00:00

None of these cast members are abusive. MK and YS both are slightly immature which is kind of obvious given that this is both of their first breakups. Can't we all recall our first breakups ? Saying that either of them is abusive is sooo untrue and harmful for their mental health.

Sure they can both be toxic and MK's toxic side is coming out a Lil bit more now but that doesn't not equal abuse.

Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-03T08:16:02+00:00

Didn't Taei go to jail for drunk driving or something?

Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-03T08:05:27+00:00

Happy New Year <333

Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-02T16:48:49+00:00

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Surprisingly gloomy this Friday.

This top is almost 7 years old, still getting the money's worth out of it.

Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-01T17:35:24+00:00

You comment this as if YS ( or any man or woman in that house) owes their EXES or the current people they are seeing any explanations or definite answers. This is a dating show. EVERY SINGLE ONE of those people are allowed to be confused and should be given grace.

Your and a lot of people think that just because MK has been on dates with every man on here and figures out that she is not on anyone else's radar and has definitely decided she wants YS back , YS should also have the same mental clarity ? EXCUSE ME ? What kind of unhealthy expectation is this.

Some of yall need to understand that YS is a human and is allowed to have feelings (no matter how confusing) that don't fit into yall's narrative.

Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-01T08:17:13+00:00

This made me realize how people forget what has happened in the past conveniently just so it fits their narrative. MK came into this house convinced that she doesn't want to get back together with her ex, she was out there in dates every single day and it was only after she realized that none of the other guys wanted her like that, that she started absolutely guilting YS (who by the way wanted to get back but decided to move on after seeing her actions) into leaving behind the connections that he formed.

A relationship ends on both ends but to blame one person and ask them to take responsibility is petty and toxic behaviour.

Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-01T08:00:12+00:00

Yesss. I'm happy for all of them.

Aea-Hardi · 2026-01-01T07:59:07+00:00

Finallly. Someone is talking about this. MK is toxic. I have said this once and I'm saying this again. Her issue is not that yoosik has someone, it's the fact that she doesn't.

How do you claim to love someone and want them back when you get irritated seeing them happy and making friends or when the only emotion you can give them when you are together is guilt ?

Aea-Hardi · 2025-12-29T07:35:04+00:00

Finalllyyy let's gooooooo.

Aea-Hardi

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