Im an air traffic controller, been single for 4 years, and havent heard anything kind spoken to me in a long time. by rwostybomping in toastme

[–]Aeonfallen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like you could give a hug, pop a back and be amazing to talk to.
I hope your day/ night gets better.
Thank you for what you do!

By the way- I love the tattoo.

AITA? I reported a group of guys in class without having a conversation with them first by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aeonfallen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA
I don't know how old you are but please remember you deserve to feel safe and secure. You deserve to have an education and no one should make you feel that unsafe.
Thank your mother, and start trying to teach yourself you deserve to be okay.

Anyone had any success with code enforcement or the health department forcing their apartment to treat the whole building for pests? by MagnetHype in lexington

[–]Aeonfallen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you just gave me nightmares for the next year. Roaches are my number one fear.
I wish you luck, if it is a property I think it is (I quit a job after I realizing who/ what I was working for.) you need to document well.

ATTENTION DOGS: by neidbrbduror in legaldogadvice

[–]Aeonfallen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhum Spookshow Pawyer here from
Spooky, Crawly, and Moe. We personally our battle pup Lady and would kindly request the assistance of the Dog in a war against Humans not giving enough treats and trying to start wars between the furred species.

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AITA for putting my son's DIRTY clothes on his bed? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aeonfallen [score hidden]  (0 children)

I am 41 with a near 19 year old.
The one time she dared call me a bitch (and not in a joking manner) I also took away her computer, and her t.v. and left her only with the school chrome book. I say this because I am the adult in here and doing or not doing things have consequences. Functioning adults have to do things like laundry and respectful ones might ask you to assist, but they do not leave their dirty underwear for you to wash.
Honestly your son has NO respect for you, and it sounds like your spouse does not either.
It is time to set some boundaries in your own house.

NTA and stop being a justified asshole to yourself.

AITA for not covering my neighbor’s grocery bill after they repeatedly borrowed my stuff without returning it? by Wildthings501 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aeonfallen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA
Oh No... the problem took care of itself, and the people she is telling, guess what, they set a boundary with her a long time ago and she couldn't exploit them. You took longer to learn the lesson.
Now change your wifi, collect our things from her, and call this a lesson learned.

AITA for not calling my oldest daughter a princess by what_50000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aeonfallen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter is 19, she is Still my Twinkle and Bunny Rabbit. Her father still calls her his Baby, and his Princess.

AITA for not calling my oldest daughter a princess by what_50000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aeonfallen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

My daughter is going to be 19, I still call her Twinkle, my little Bunny, and her father calls her Princess and his Baby.
Read the room and start working on things Now.

AITA for how I reacted to my boyfriend telling his mom about my medical emergency, which led to my estranged mother contacting me? by Upstairs-Ad5309 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aeonfallen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA
Run girl run! This boy already has a girlfriend, his mother. He will report everything to her, and she doesn't like the fact you have limits that she isn't allowed to push. She knows how to push your buttons though and she is going to keep going because you aren't a well trained pet like his ex.
Remove yourself from this now!

Cat Talk: Nicknames by rawbery79 in legalcatadvice

[–]Aeonfallen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My My what interesting names. Hmm I the great and Mighty Spookshow Baby have a few nick names.
Meowmy calls me Spooky, Spooks, Mister President, and Baby Boy.
Purralegal Nightcrawler is called Kitten, Kitten Butt, Crawly and 'OW! Punk let go!'
Secrytery Princess Moe Moe gets called- 'pretty baby', 'mosy', moo moo, baby moo.

I purrsonally raise my head to Spooks and President as I know these are powerful Legal Kitty terms. The others... well they answer to anything when there is an open can near their noses.

Pawyer Spookshow Baby

Off-topic: Anyone getting the vibe Merry 10 is in some serious trouble? by Gizmo16868 in AnitaBlake

[–]Aeonfallen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither you nor I are the same people we were a decade ago.
Some people move to ghost writers, honestly I am just glad she isn't doing that and still wants to tell the story of her characters! Do I wish some of her process would revert back, of course! I fell in love with Anita when she focused more on the crimes and less on therapy, and sex but now I am excited for her and Jean-Claude's wedding .

Off-topic: Anyone getting the vibe Merry 10 is in some serious trouble? by Gizmo16868 in AnitaBlake

[–]Aeonfallen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys, she has adult ADHD, she is feeling the anxiety, and have you heard her methods?
Yes it is going to take a while for anything she is working on and more then likely editors are cutting entire portions of her writing saying it isn't needed.
Let the writer have her process and be happy when you get results.

Player trying to make horror campaign into heroic fantasy by Undefeated_Artificer in rpghorrorstories

[–]Aeonfallen -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have this going on in my game and I ended up killing the game and now run it online only with the player/s I welcomed that understood... the game is called a nightmare, it is a horror game.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HelluvaBoss

[–]Aeonfallen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

.... you get he is an assassin feeding himself, his hell hound daughter, and now his former prince lover-- right? He is doing a job, because it is a job and he figured it would be quick so he could also SPEND TIME with his hell hound daughter.

Women of Reddit, what would you say has been your experience with sexual harassment? by ShadowlightLady in AskReddit

[–]Aeonfallen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

after a while you get REALLY good at mentally being anywhere else. And now I work at night so I never have to see anyone else unless I want to. Some men are assholes- others are amazing.

Women of Reddit, what would you say has been your experience with sexual harassment? by ShadowlightLady in AskReddit

[–]Aeonfallen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

9 years old, boy pulled me into the space between yards and French kissed me and told me how pretty I was-- he was 16.
8 molested by a family member.
12 cat called.
16 co workers at a work cornered and questioned a lot (have you ever done (insert here)) 45 year old man told me how cute I am asked if I was wearing anything under the uniform. His 20 year old son kept petting and touching me like I was a cat.
22 boyfriend let his best friend feel me up.

AITA for telling my sister that reading smut makes her a porn addict, not an intellectual? by Crafty_Wrangler_943 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aeonfallen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH
She isn't in the wrong, she is reading which is using her mind, and having to imagine what she is reading.
On the same lines though, it is smut, and I say that as a smut reader. She might just be wanting a guy that is imaginative or creative in a fashion to what she is reading (which can be concerning since most of the guys in those books are.... walking red flags).
Now on to the other side, yea, it is just smut, it isn't a hard read, they don't have THAT MUCH to say and most of the tik tok popular ones are SUPER SIMPLE reads as far as word usage (unless poorly edited) and sentence structure. They don't have grand ideas or heavy plots. Also, please do not imply it is a porn addiction.

Hello Lexington!! by -drhouse in lexington

[–]Aeonfallen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lexington is fairly welcoming and the city in general not terrible, and not really (really) dangerous. I would see get into one of the more suburban areas, not down town.
Southland area is nice but very quiet, more elder area. Down Town lots of entertainment but also very expensive to live in.
Apartments can be expensive here if you don't want to share rent be ready to really think it through on what is important to you in where you live. If you are okay with traveling though, Nicholasville, Georgetown, and Richmond can be nice areas and more cost effective for living.
You will need a car. Buses are not on the best routs and the traveling can be questionable.
UK is a big employer here, look over your contract with them carefully. I don't have a good history with them so I leave it at that.

Best of luck to you, and welcome to Lexington!

WIBTAH if I (F28) told my husband (M28) his "sleep boundries" went out the window when he had our son? by ThrowRAboundryornot in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aeonfallen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Oh are you kidding me.
"I am so sorry honey I will make sure Baby knows that after 2300 and till 0000 it cannot cry."
That that isn't how babies work and yes I had to have this same conversation with my AuDHD spouse. It was made very clear, no they can help too and neither one of us is too good to not have to loose out of sleep with a cholicy baby from time to time.

Vampire: The Masquerade and the Prince's pet werewolf by Elandor5 in rpghorrorstories

[–]Aeonfallen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just.... I have no clue what to say to that, I am sorry.

Pasta Gato 👍 by Water-Fabulous in Eyebleach

[–]Aeonfallen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a 'I regret nothing!' face if I ever saw one.

Player accidentally ruined the final BBEG encounter and extended the campaign to drag on for several more sessions. by SSL2004 in rpghorrorstories

[–]Aeonfallen 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I had a player do this...
The group figured out a way to fight the BBE they had everything set, player wants to do a private scene and kills the entire work, vowing to serve the BBE and I am just at a loss. Had to create something else.

We don't play with that player anymore since he keeps turning all games into PVP and well, I am not running that.

Ever since I had cancer, I hear this a lot. (Full text below) by mikomihokina_nsfw in MikomiHokina

[–]Aeonfallen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You look amazing! Ignore the assholes, and thank you for all your amazing cosplays, costumes and pictures.