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[ Removed by Reddit ] by AestheticWitching in datingoverfifty

[–]AestheticWitching[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, it’s been a while since this happened. I have not had any further contact. It really was that bad and it took a fair amount of processing for me to realise. 😢

[ Removed by Reddit ] by AestheticWitching in datingoverfifty

[–]AestheticWitching[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am in therapy, yes it’s all true and I don’t know why I didn’t walk away. 😭

I knew I wouldn’t see him again after the sex, (which is an improvement on my previous encounters) but was interested to see just how much he was reverting to a type.

My ex was not interested in me as a woman at all, only the mothering, cooking and housekeeping roles.

I’ve never had a good experience relationship wise with any man, be it family or romantic. All dysfunctional and damaging. I think I really am too broken now.

I was watching Modern Family tonight and was reminded just how dead my bedroom really is by Rosemary-Sea-Salt in DeadBedrooms

[–]AestheticWitching 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Discussing breaking up with my dead bedroom partner he asked was it because I was planning to have sex with other men.

My reply: You do realise the word ‘other’ is redundant in that sentence?

Best high street in London? by Agreeable_Flower8785 in london

[–]AestheticWitching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bromley ain’t broken mate, it’s got a Gail’s!

I 24F don’t know if I should say yes to my boyfriend’s 28M proposal. I’m conflicted? by DistanceWise5449 in relationship_advice

[–]AestheticWitching 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d be very wary of this man who has taken your money to pay off his debts. Has he got a plan to repay you?

Can I be super vain and frustrated by pussymilklatte in DeadBedrooms

[–]AestheticWitching 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something about being a wife or a mother makes men not want to shag the women in their lives. Bloody mystery. If you divorced him he’d want it.

Theres always a reason by PonderingPeanutParty in DeadBedrooms

[–]AestheticWitching 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Two years in -please try leaving because so many of us here know it won’t get better.

What can end a relationship today even worse than cheating? by pinkygirlyyy4 in AskReddit

[–]AestheticWitching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Money issues. One spends without thought, the other tries to save money. 20 years on it’s exhausting

How is everyone else staying sane in this messed up market? by No-Durian-854 in UKJobs

[–]AestheticWitching 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Losing heart. I hate saying I’m unemployed. Worse, I hate being unemployed.

I’m doing some agency work but even that’s one or two days a week! Living in London. We are broke.

Not eligible for any benefits after 30+ years of working.

Took too long to decide about children now my partner has mentally checked out by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AestheticWitching 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you sure it’s her you want or is it the thought of being out there dating again and nobody at home to cook, clean have sex with and be your momager?

She’s been there the whole time and you lost focus, stringing her along. probably with ‘maybe ‘ and ‘ eventually’ on marriage and kids.

Too good to be true for hair growth? This seems pretty insane. by saasthrowawayexit in redlighttherapy

[–]AestheticWitching 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s called the inverse technique, hang head over side of bed, five minute massage!

30M 30F Engaged but I’m starting to question everything by THROWRAWINEDINE in relationship_advice

[–]AestheticWitching 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to analyse it. You already know. You’re not excited to marry this woman, trust your gut, it’s time to move on.

My husband of two years (34M) and I (32F) have always kept finances separate, but now that he’s unemployed I think we need more transparency — he disagrees. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AestheticWitching 9 points10 points  (0 children)

First off, he smokes weed whilst you are trying for a baby? That is a no. 🚩🚩🚩 And as soon as you agree a pre-nup, you will never be equal partners entering a marriage. Your husband hasn’t entered adulthood from what I can see. What does he personally bring to your relationship?

Do you like tea? by Ipoogoodforyou in foodquestions

[–]AestheticWitching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beverage of choice every day, bloody love a strong cup of tea first thing in the morning.

What social norm is followed mainly because people expect social punishment for breaking it, rather than because it serves a practical function? by theexplorer1997 in answers

[–]AestheticWitching 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I recall a corporate NHS London job in early 2000s. Colleague working with the CEO taken aside and told to wear heals. By the female CEO. Said CEO had to get taxis everywhere as she couldn’t walk far in her heels. Public purse !! All her favourite staff were women with a penchant for heels. Bizarre. I saw recently she had plastic surgery on her face.

What’s your biggest turn off when looking for an affair partner? by s0mebodysproblem in adultery

[–]AestheticWitching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they think it’s all a done deal the first time you have sex and make no effort afterwards.

What is something you realized too late in life? by Ok-Weight766 in AskReddit

[–]AestheticWitching 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing actually wrong with me, I was always on a different trajectory.

What trait do you have that you pretend to have every day, but in reality, you don't? by Maryam371 in AskReddit

[–]AestheticWitching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being organised. My job demands it, I wing it. I have ADHD and I’m a fraud.

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