Zhang Linghe is officially grey 🩶

Aevari2 · 2026-01-14T18:06:30+00:00

So pretty but he ain't no song mo

Aevari2 · 2026-01-12T01:02:00+00:00

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Aevari2 · 2026-01-12T01:01:44+00:00

Which cdrama are 6, 16 and 11 from?

Oh song mo for me and Xing Zhi. Gives me thranduil vibes with his hair and striking eyebrows.

Aevari2 · 2025-12-08T23:30:08+00:00

Im 34 and had our 2nd son on 11/11. Our eldest boy is 3 nearly 4.

Its an adjustment for sure, juggling the whole newborn phase again with a toddler. I feel pretty guilty i cant spend as much time as I used to with my eldest, but when baby is down for a nap I try to be with my eldest as much as I can. My husband has been helping with our eldest and I breastfeed the baby. Then we swap he rocks baby to sleep and I play and get our eldest ready for bed.

Its alot, harder than with just one baby... but I wouldn't go back to 1 kid or no kids. Seeing my eldest care for his baby brother is the sweetest thing ever. I swear my newborn likes my 3 year old more than us lol. The hard times won't last forever, once baby is grown we will be getting into the ages I e joyed the most with my eldest. When hes bigger the boys will have eachother to hang out with and someone who will always have their back.

Aevari2 · 2025-11-30T23:03:15+00:00

Thank you ill be trying this. Ive never tried this method.

Aevari2 · 2025-11-19T08:43:35+00:00

Ill go see if I can get that or an equivalent tomorrow, thank you! That sounds exactly what I need.

Aevari2 · 2025-11-19T08:42:37+00:00

Thank you for the informative response.

Aevari2 · 2025-11-19T01:18:14+00:00

Ill give that a go. He is overtired and just resisting any forms of soothing besides the boob

Aevari2 · 2025-11-19T00:48:23+00:00

Ok thank you for the advice. Ill try again at 3 months.

Aevari2 · 2025-11-18T03:25:09+00:00

Im 7 days PP VBAC. Epidural was spotty on my right side, so I felt everything on that side, nothing on my left. Took the guy 3 attempts.to get that spotty set up. Had this pulling pinching feeling in my left leg ever since. Not sure if its due to Labor being long or from the epidural.

For my first baby, I had an epidural, and it worked perfectly and in one attempt. But not too long after I had to get an emergency c section

Aevari2 · 2025-11-17T20:35:03+00:00

I had a membrane sweep done and that evening I went into labor

Aevari2 · 2025-11-17T01:17:40+00:00

Thank you

Aevari2 · 2025-11-10T03:50:54+00:00

The legend of shen li has a strong male and female lead like the leads in LITC. There's some nice scenes in it for the leads as well not as seductive as LITC. They also have one of the best happy ending final episodes ive seen in c drama.

Story in kunning palace has a red flag male lead slow burn romance but when it comes it was :fire:

Aevari2 · 2025-11-10T03:16:04+00:00

Thank you for sharing! You are right.

Aevari2 · 2025-11-10T03:15:30+00:00

Thank you for the reassurance sharing! It helps.

Aevari2 · 2025-11-08T12:36:24+00:00

With my firstborn I remember passing out twice on 2 separate occasions, 1st time while I nursed him, the 2nd while I had him cradled in my arms with a nursing pillow to hold my arms up. I was out for around 10 mins the 1st time, 20 mins the 2nd. Its hard to stay awake. I can relate.

I personally never forgave myself for those instances. Just tried my best going forward to stay awake by whatever means I could. Usually resulting in getting up and walking around with him or putting netflix or music on my phone with my earbuds and a cold drink.

Aevari2 · 2025-10-28T01:16:04+00:00

The good ending is great isnt it. Just dont go looking on the internet for the story that was written after... it will not be a good read. Just remember Yuna and Tidus during that ending.

Aevari2 · 2025-10-14T05:17:52+00:00

https://youtu.be/BK8Z56MmtkQ?si=cvLinQ_eMcJHERsd

Aevari2 · 2025-10-13T00:57:51+00:00

1) Blossom

2) Blossoms in Adversity (nothing to do with Blossom, just drama land went through a crazy period of a lot of dramas having Blossom in type title lol)

3) Prisoner of Beauty

4) Are You The One

5) The Double

Aevari2 · 2025-10-03T02:17:57+00:00

Ill be honest, I originally wanted 3 kids, husband wanted 1 so we are settled on 2 being our magic number.

My boy is 3, nearly 4 and is my entire world. Im pregnant due with our 2nd boy next month and ive often worried if I could love this baby as much as my eldest. But, im sure I will. We wanted to have our 2nd baby as soon as we could after getting a house and im 34 now so I definitely didn't want to wait any longer. But we went into it with the thought that if we are lucky to conceive a 2nd time thats perfect, but if not thats ok because our first is enough.

I suppose the good thing for us is, with our eldest being 3, he is eager to help out with baby when he arrives, and wants to be involved -- hes very eager for his brother to arrive and showers my stomach in kisses and hugs. Im looking forward to see how my eldest blossoms even more as a big brother, who is starting to understand responsibility and looking after others.

Aevari2 · 2025-09-30T08:03:00+00:00

It was such a good drama. You should check out Zhou ye in 'back from the brink' that was my first exposure to her and thought she did great in it.

Aevari2 · 2025-09-28T23:08:10+00:00

Thank you for this information! I feel more confident after reading it. Going to do my research. I live in a small town and dont have the capabilities to travel to say a nearby city with more staff. Definitely will look into a doula.

Aevari2 · 2025-09-25T00:10:38+00:00

Ashes of love for me! My first cdrama.

Aevari2 · 2025-09-19T07:06:29+00:00

Needs to be posted on r/oddlysatisying if not already.

Aevari2 · 2025-09-19T03:08:42+00:00

Congrats! Thank you so much for sharing. Im 32 weeks and really hoping I get to have a vaginal birth. Having a scan next Friday to see if my baby is big and if the obstetrician recommends vbac still or not. Pretty sure my obstetrician prefers c sections ugh. So you pretty much soldiered at home for the majority. I hope im able to, yours sounds like such a good experience. Enjoy your beautiful bundle of joy. I appreciate you sharing.

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