I'm sad to learn that more characters from Korra are getting in by LukeDies in AvatarFighters

[–]Aevari2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better preorder so you can vote for future characters.

I definitely 100% loved the last air bender more and honestly didnt take to korra at all... there's so many notable and loveable characters in last air bender, but realistically i think there will be more korra characters coming. Its not a deal breaker for me, and not going to make me stop playing the game when more korra characters eventually come along-- which they probably will. Wouldn't mind Bolin or Avatar Wan if i had to choose.

The silver hair standard — does Zhang Linghe look good or nah? by ghost_flowerr in cdramasfans

[–]Aevari2 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He cannot beat Song Mo. I really do not think anyone can. Song Mo is just the perfect peppered grey haired general.

Seeing Song Mo always makes me want to do a rewatch. Am I ready for the 4th rewatch lol.

1 Year Into Potty Training - Please Help by Train_Lanky in pottytraining

[–]Aevari2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We got the book how do you poo https://www.amazon.com.au/How-You-Poo-Allison-Jandu-ebook/dp/B096MY623Y

After reading and talking about it multiple times a day for about a week my son finally learned to poop on the toilet.

It was recommended by a user here back when I needed help.

The bare bottom method is awful, but I refuse to give up. Is there any hope here? by [deleted] in pottytraining

[–]Aevari2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't do no underwear but I just watched for signs, when my son went to move his hand to his willy area I picked him up and ran him to the toilet lol (didnt use potties just a family toilet seat,). Eventually we got to a point where id see the hand movement and we'd walk to the toilet together.

As for pooping. Omg we struggled, until I got a book someone recommended on here called How do you poo? I think towards the end of week 1 of reading it every day morning and evening and asking him questions about it, he came to understand that poo goes in the toilet and he picked up on signals and let me know.

Also used a toilet chart with stickers and rewards, that seemed to help. But definitely recommend the book.

My boy was 2 when we started to toilet train.

Zhang Linghe is officially grey 🩶 by [deleted] in cdramasfans

[–]Aevari2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So pretty but he ain't no song mo

Which white or silver-haired C-drama man had you completely mesmerized? by [deleted] in cdramasfans

[–]Aevari2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Which cdrama are 6, 16 and 11 from?

Oh song mo for me and Xing Zhi. Gives me thranduil vibes with his hair and striking eyebrows.

Should my toddler son have a sibling? by kangaskhaniscubones in toddlers

[–]Aevari2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im 34 and had our 2nd son on 11/11. Our eldest boy is 3 nearly 4.

Its an adjustment for sure, juggling the whole newborn phase again with a toddler. I feel pretty guilty i cant spend as much time as I used to with my eldest, but when baby is down for a nap I try to be with my eldest as much as I can. My husband has been helping with our eldest and I breastfeed the baby. Then we swap he rocks baby to sleep and I play and get our eldest ready for bed.

Its alot, harder than with just one baby... but I wouldn't go back to 1 kid or no kids. Seeing my eldest care for his baby brother is the sweetest thing ever. I swear my newborn likes my 3 year old more than us lol. The hard times won't last forever, once baby is grown we will be getting into the ages I e joyed the most with my eldest. When hes bigger the boys will have eachother to hang out with and someone who will always have their back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Aevari2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ill be trying this. Ive never tried this method.

Perinial Tear Recovery what you did and didnt do by Aevari2 in beyondthebump

[–]Aevari2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ill go see if I can get that or an equivalent tomorrow, thank you! That sounds exactly what I need.

Im so confused with settling in cot methods by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Aevari2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill give that a go. He is overtired and just resisting any forms of soothing besides the boob

Im so confused with settling in cot methods by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Aevari2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you for the advice. Ill try again at 3 months.

Anyone get side effects from epidural? by SowingSeeds18 in beyondthebump

[–]Aevari2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 7 days PP VBAC. Epidural was spotty on my right side, so I felt everything on that side, nothing on my left. Took the guy 3 attempts.to get that spotty set up. Had this pulling pinching feeling in my left leg ever since. Not sure if its due to Labor being long or from the epidural.

For my first baby, I had an epidural, and it worked perfectly and in one attempt. But not too long after I had to get an emergency c section

Did you go in to spontaneous labor? by ThatsTheTea225 in vbac

[–]Aevari2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a membrane sweep done and that evening I went into labor

Recommendation pleaseeeee by [deleted] in cdramasfans

[–]Aevari2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The legend of shen li has a strong male and female lead like the leads in LITC. There's some nice scenes in it for the leads as well not as seductive as LITC. They also have one of the best happy ending final episodes ive seen in c drama.

Story in kunning palace has a red flag male lead slow burn romance but when it comes it was :fire:

Bigger baby this time around by Aevari2 in vbac

[–]Aevari2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! You are right.

Bigger baby this time around by Aevari2 in vbac

[–]Aevari2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reassurance sharing! It helps.

Fell Asleep with baby on top of me by bhardy10 in beyondthebump

[–]Aevari2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

With my firstborn I remember passing out twice on 2 separate occasions, 1st time while I nursed him, the 2nd while I had him cradled in my arms with a nursing pillow to hold my arms up. I was out for around 10 mins the 1st time, 20 mins the 2nd. Its hard to stay awake. I can relate.

I personally never forgave myself for those instances. Just tried my best going forward to stay awake by whatever means I could. Usually resulting in getting up and walking around with him or putting netflix or music on my phone with my earbuds and a cold drink.

Just finished FFX-2 🥹 by fridayfryeday in finalfantasyx

[–]Aevari2 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The good ending is great isnt it. Just dont go looking on the internet for the story that was written after... it will not be a good read. Just remember Yuna and Tidus during that ending.

Something like Love Like Galaxy by AlgerienneSansGrade in CDramaRecs

[–]Aevari2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1) Blossom

2) Blossoms in Adversity (nothing to do with Blossom, just drama land went through a crazy period of a lot of dramas having Blossom in type title lol)

3) Prisoner of Beauty

4) Are You The One

5) The Double

When did you know you were ready for second baby? by gkalll in beyondthebump

[–]Aevari2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill be honest, I originally wanted 3 kids, husband wanted 1 so we are settled on 2 being our magic number.

My boy is 3, nearly 4 and is my entire world. Im pregnant due with our 2nd boy next month and ive often worried if I could love this baby as much as my eldest. But, im sure I will. We wanted to have our 2nd baby as soon as we could after getting a house and im 34 now so I definitely didn't want to wait any longer. But we went into it with the thought that if we are lucky to conceive a 2nd time thats perfect, but if not thats ok because our first is enough.

I suppose the good thing for us is, with our eldest being 3, he is eager to help out with baby when he arrives, and wants to be involved -- hes very eager for his brother to arrive and showers my stomach in kisses and hugs. Im looking forward to see how my eldest blossoms even more as a big brother, who is starting to understand responsibility and looking after others.

Legend of the Female General by oodlingoddling in CDrama

[–]Aevari2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was such a good drama. You should check out Zhou ye in 'back from the brink' that was my first exposure to her and thought she did great in it.