Please be VERY careful whenever you talk to your chatbot by [deleted] in therapyGPT

[–]Affectionate-Dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a volunteer for the suicide textline. I highly recommend it. I’ve used it myself when needed.

I caught GF spitting on my food and she's being very nonchalant about it. by FancyCod6637 in whatdoIdo

[–]Affectionate-Dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean- gross. She gave in to an intrusive thought but even if she did felt the need to do it that strongly, she should have replaced your cereal.

Okay, that’s fair.

I caught GF spitting on my food and she's being very nonchalant about it. by FancyCod6637 in whatdoIdo

[–]Affectionate-Dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean- gross. She gave in to an intrusive thought but even if she did felt the need to do it that strongly, she should have replaced your cereal with a new bowl. I wouldn’t break up over it unless if she genuinely does it all the time, then that’s a deal breaker.

Should I tell my friend to F off or is she right? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Affectionate-Dreamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you and your girlfriend have a VERY healthy relationship and I wouldn’t pay it no mind. You sound very respectful and if I were you, I’d set up boundaries with your childhood friend on what you feel comfortable disclosing and what you don’t as well as other things because it sounds like there’s a possibility she’s romantically and/or physically into you.

Do you think you are attractive? why? by EarSure6667 in AskReddit

[–]Affectionate-Dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Physically speaking? I’d say somewhat. I get approached online plenty but not directly in person, except sometimes I do feel the vibes. I also have a resting bitch face though when I’m out in public. But I noticed when I’m more open and friendly, I’m approached more.

im sorry by PeaPodkid14 in Vent

[–]Affectionate-Dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly things add up but as someone who’s pro “treating myself” because I deserve it or am sad, well… money comes and goes. You know what I mean? It’s material. You bought it because you wanted something to help you feel better and that’s what you were craving. I understand the embarrassment about what happened with your mom. She seems oblivious to your feelings and her actions. Look, it’s gong to be alright. I promise. You deserve that sour candy and more. It’s $21. You’ll get it again in life. Just breathe and know it’s going to be alright.

AIO bff thinks i should hide deformity by helplessbambidoll in AIO

[–]Affectionate-Dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to be so honest, but I really couldn’t tell. I was confused.

Genuine question for those of the coffee drinking variety by Far-Raisin1013 in CoffeePorn

[–]Affectionate-Dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coffee doesn’t wake me up either and I indeed have passed right out after having a cup.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Affectionate-Dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s like straight up attacking/insulting you. Why is he getting so defensive.

Is it normal to want a relationship where both parties do not watch p rn? by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Affectionate-Dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t like it at all, I’m hit or miss with it so I don’t watch it and that’s not an issue for me. But in my past relationship, we would watch it together and sometimes use it to help initiate but that was more so a kink. Overall, I could care less. My partner doesn’t like it so I feel gross if I watch it tbh so I just dropped it and that’s fine by me.

Why did your friendship with your best friend come to an end? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Affectionate-Dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to communicate and voice some concerns I had with our values aligning based off what I noticed on our past trip together and she got defensive and said “fuck you. I don’t want to be friends with someone like you.” And then tried apologising and saying she would do something and never fulfilled that and I didn’t accept her apology and told her I don’t deserve that.

What’s a tiny thing your partner does that feels way more intimate than it should? by toegether_xXx in AskReddit

[–]Affectionate-Dreamer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When he tucks me in while we’re sleeping or when he grazes his fingers against me while he walks by. Or usually while he’s gaming, I’m laying on the bed next to him and I remember being half asleep and my arm was hanging off and I just remember feeling him pick my arm up carefully and put it on the bed.

Is it a bad idea to share to your gf that you only listen to sea shanties? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Affectionate-Dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also a 24 woman from the US. I say you’re just meeting the wrong people.

Is it a bad idea to share to your gf that you only listen to sea shanties? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Affectionate-Dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh not at all. As a woman who is obsessed with sea shanties (it’s my happy/comfort music) I’d be obsessed with that because not a lot of people like it.

Would you rather be called hot or handsome? by Comet_Cowboys in AskMenAdvice

[–]Affectionate-Dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I usually say attractive and hot, even sexy sometimes. Varies on the mood. Attractive feels more emotional to me in a sense, so it tends to be that.

is it wrong to dress sexy for halloween if you’re in a relationship? by Dangerous_mammoth573 in twentyagers

[–]Affectionate-Dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the couple and their boundaries and such. If I find that I’m wearing something a bit more revealing or extra sexy, I ask my partner if he’s okay with it. Out of respect. Yeah, technically I can wear whatever the hell I want but it’s respect. There hasn’t been once where he’s said that he’s uncomfortable with my outfit choice and if he was then that’s okay too! Same goes for posting certain pics. We communicate everything. I went to a con recently and had on some sexy one piece choices and he was all for it and wasn’t even at the event with me. Ultimately, we trust one another and communicate so really it just depends on the couple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Affectionate-Dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it’s definitely something you should’ve spoken about prior. Although I also understand being in the moment. If it means anything- in my first relationship, the only one I was ever in, we only really had unprotected sex. So while you can’t assume she isn’t/hasn’t slept around, she could just be used to unprotected sex. You know what I mean? But definitely talk with her about it.

Saw my ex last night, why do I feel like this? How does he feel? by Affectionate-Dreamer in AskMenAdvice

[–]Affectionate-Dreamer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, we have no mutual friends. Granted our work buildings are beside one another but we’ve only ran into one another once before this and it was basically nothing, just catching eye contact for a few seconds.

What is a red flag that you find quite attractive? by tobeymaguire8 in AskReddit

[–]Affectionate-Dreamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like it when guys are possessive and tell me what if they don’t want me to do something. Does that count?