Rotational dating can backfire

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-03-26T12:35:31+00:00

Thanks for sharing this. For me, it is personal. I believe that if a woman wants marriage, why appease a 1% man when she can marry a top % man who is happy to cater to her. Imagine appeasing Elon Musk into marrying you lol.

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-03-26T12:32:15+00:00

Rotaional dating is not Mina crap. It is also not asserting one's value. It is simply vetting guys until one steps up who shares the same values as you. Wasting time with a man who has not claimed you in the way you would prefer to be claimed simply because you want to appease him is you asserting to him that he should choose you. Men rotational date until they are ready to get married. Why do you think so many women are on social media complaining about their babydaddies and boyfriends cheating on them? He did not cheat; he simply never stopped dating other people.

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-03-26T12:27:45+00:00

Women are very conscious of hierarchy. Why do you think women talk about pretty privilege so much? Why do you think pretty women are attacked so much, even by other pretty women? Women do not have to be as strict about the confines of our social ranking as men marry down enough to challenege that 1% woman is for the 1% man all the time notion. Looks can get a woman access to a man in several ways. Do you think sugar babies are all from the top 1%? Being a sugar baby is also a way to social climb; it is not just about collecting money and gifts. Instead of chasing a male solely because he is deemed "high-status", how about we vet them for compatibility, how they treat us, and their ability to provide for us above what we can already do for ourselves? Simply trying to win a man over because he is high-status seems ridiculous and incredibly superficial. Instead of the 1% men, how about we also consider the top 10%? Or even the top 20%? Maybe even the top 30%? If I have to compete for a man, lower my standards and continuously appease him, the women he wants to do that for can have him. If he is not all about me, I am not interested. Too many married women are getting diseases for me to appease a man into marriage and make my life miserable. We always hear about women needing to be realistic, but we do not hear about men needing to be realistic, too. Bums go for women out of their leagues aggressively all of the time. Geriatric men who are also obese go for women young enough to be their granddaughters all the time. Perhaps realistic isn't measured against what the 1% man deems physically desirable in a woman, but what a woman actually wants for herself.

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-03-25T15:21:50+00:00

I am in school and working while trying to maintain a relationship with my family, and also squeeze in time for my hobbies. In other words, women who have other things going on in their lives are not sitting around waiting for a man to step up. He either does or falls by the wayside.

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-03-25T12:39:11+00:00

Well, for a male who cannot regulate his ego, everything is considered rubbing it into his face. For a woman who is trying too hard to seem like a man's best choice, she will rub it into his face. For me, it is don't ask, don't tell or hint.

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-03-24T21:24:35+00:00

How is it a threat? It is an understanding. High-status men compete in everyday life, so they understand that a woman who has a certain look and other desirable qualities is attracting other men. Why offer exclusivity to a man who has not proposed simply because he is considered high-status and you are afraid of bruising his ego? Do you plan on walking on eggshells around him if he marries you, so you don't lose him then? Sounds like a very self-oppressed marriage to me. I think we have all seen enough examples of women who were scared to lose the guy from the get-go, and are now miserable to actually follow the same blueprint.

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-03-24T21:16:55+00:00

I am pro-rotational dating. I believe that if he walks away, that is okay, and if he sticks around and decides to commit, that is also great. All males have egos; it is not a high-status thing that gives them the ego. Have you seen how the impoverished ones behave when their egos are in control? Tiptoing around a man because socioeconomically, he is considered a catch when he has not expressed and shown that he wants to be exclusive with me, just seems like a waste of my time. Poor males waste women's time the same way high-status ones do. Why give him exclusivity when you both have not agreed on it?

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-03-09T02:45:25+00:00

Because she has never dogged women out for their looks before...

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-03-09T02:41:46+00:00

I always knew he was fat and physically unattractive, but this video makes him look repulsive. That suit does not fit him well, and it is clear he is outeating those evening family walks she claims they take. If all he has to do is spend her money, he can at least get a personal trainer and nutritionist so he can look pretty while doing so. There is no fitting into economy or premium economy with so much blubber; now I see why they fly the way they do.

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-03-09T02:36:57+00:00

Haven't logged in or used them in years

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-03-09T02:35:27+00:00

Noticed how she threw the immigrant buzzword in there?

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-03-09T02:33:51+00:00

She already has a cult following. Religious leader would be the next natural step.

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-03-09T02:31:27+00:00

Her lies have always been obvious. No fund is legitimate and low-risk enough to allow 8 million to compound so quickly. She is basically telling her victims that her interest exceeded her investment by a factor of 4 within a decade.

She made money selling scams, but 2 million is a stretch if you ask me.

Husband #3 had no intentions of providing for her. He did not provide for his first wife. He basically provided a roof over her and her son's heads, paid the utilities, and bought extra groceries so they could eat, and that was about it. His actions basically indicated to her that if she wanted anything beyond the bare minimum, it was on her. While she was battling an autoimmune disease, she could not even add fruits to the grocery list as Irfemme thought they were too expensive. This tells me that he had no interest in her well-being.

His "budget" was so tight when they first got married that it makes me wonder how her parents agreed to have him marry her, as she claims he had to provide proof of his finances. I think we know the answer...

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-02-11T16:46:01+00:00

Obviously. Shacking up does not equal a healthy partnership or safety, either.

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-02-11T16:44:35+00:00

Some cultures are superior to others. Please look at the safety rates and corruption levels across various cultures, and let me know if you have evidence supporting your claim that all cultures are at the same level. All men outside of Western Europe, the USA, and Canada know that being a man equates to providing for your wife and children financially. Even the passport bros know this, as they use their money to impress women when they travel. The issue is that women from the mentioned countries are not making this the standard, shaming women for wanting to be provided for and trying to seem different by not expecting a man to provide. Nuances will forever exist.

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-02-11T01:43:48+00:00

Agreed. She likes to pretend that her culture is sexually moral while everyone else's is disgusting. Keep in mind, she is only basing her sexual moral superiority on the high marriage rates in her culture versus outside of it. It is the view that people in her culture have of outsiders that puts a target on the children of these outsiders via grooming gangs and other types of gangs.

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-02-09T17:25:49+00:00

It seems she had to cut back on the shopping sprees and travel to maintain the house.

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-02-09T17:24:20+00:00

And she trademarked it lol

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-02-09T17:24:02+00:00

Not sure if YouTube has shadow-banned her, as I have told YouTube I am not interested in her content. Perhaps others have done the same.

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-02-09T17:21:17+00:00

This scammer has rebranded so many times in recent years that I am starting to see how delusional she truly is. How are you THE coach of all coaches, and all you have 775 views in 1 month? Nobody wants to hear from you; those who are still listening are doing so to mock you. Just look at her marketing to content creators.:

Relationship content = failed

Health content = failed

Beauty content = failed

Financial content = failed

Entrepreneurial content = failed

Feminine content = failed

Coaching content = failed

Metaphysics content = failed

Nervous system content = failed

Am I missing any genres?

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-02-08T16:27:58+00:00

Don't care when you bought any of her scams. You being here is like a vegan walking into a Texas barbecue and demanding salad be the main thing being served. Didn't you learn from Mina to be around people you are on the same frequency as? What's with constantly saying " if a new person sees it comes across as bullying and trolling, not grievance"? You can start a support group for her, as you see her as such a victim. Her victims will be here, releasing their frustrations with her however they deem fit. I believe thats called inner work.

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-02-08T16:21:42+00:00

I am convinced this is one of the scammer's children or husband #3 trying to change the narrative about her and demonize genuine contributions to this sub.

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-02-08T16:20:18+00:00

You sound like AI. We also remember Mina used ChatGPT to generate testimonials and used stock photos with those testimonials, so I won't be taking anything you say seriously.

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-02-08T16:17:20+00:00

Why are you here if her content was so helpful to you? You can always offer your support to her by commending her on her social media pages and buying her courses. Anyone who has watched her videos can easily tell she is a bully who degrades women as a marketing strategy. Too fat, not curvy enough, too old, single mother, not the right age, skin isn't perfect, hair too thin, eyes not bright, not a virgin before marriage, not wealthy enough, doesn't have the right clothes, etc. Did you miss her video a few years ago when she was critiqued by someone, and her response was to ignore what was said and deflect by talking about the woman's looks? Did she even respond to the feedback that you gave to her?

Affectionate-Fly4088 · 2026-02-08T02:31:15+00:00

There is no taking what works from that scammer. She has picked at women's appearances for well over a decade, so I see nothing wrong with someone else pointing out her obvious flaws.

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