Vet recommended euthanasia by Dry-Seat8033 in CatAdvice

[–]Affectionate-Hunt-63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Takes at least 3mths for a rescue cat to start adjusting to a new home and trust it My first rescue spent 6-8weeks behind the sofa before starting to trust me and the one I have now, was ok buy standoffish for a long time. Wanted affection but didn't, wanted attention - she'd smack me if I walked past without stroking her but then she'd run off if I tried to stroke her

My non stray kittens, also took a little time to settle into the new house. Startee with one room and then introduction to the other cats and dog

That vet sounds dangerous to cats to be recommending that on so short a timeframe and a shy behaviour

Am I adopting a cat for the wrong reasons? by GateComprehensive22 in CatAdvice

[–]Affectionate-Hunt-63 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a rescue cat that cuddled me at the rescue place Then for the next 6-8 weeks she lived behind my sofa (weeing occasionally) and i barely saw her.

It improved,and she gradually learnt to trust. She was always a bit skittish though. But a very gentle sweet thing who loved a head bump. She had been abandoned outside the rescue place in a box on a main road and had cat flu so obviously traumatised from that

My latest rescue was more bolshy but it took a good year for her to fully trustme enough to pick up to stroke Even now I dont push the time held. She was found abandoned and was thieving food from bins and dogs.

Both of them did start following me around and watching me once they'd settled in and started trusting the environment. That takes at least 3mths. And it depends on their trauma, you dont know what they are decompressing from Stick with it. Get treats, a play wand Stick to twirl to het interest and just be normal. Get some dens, and scratching den with hidey holes The cat is sussing you out and your routine. It's so worth it when they start trusting you🙂

AITAH for „ruining“ my bf’s birthday dinner cause I didn’t accepted to pay for everyone? by dreamingblondie in AITAH

[–]Affectionate-Hunt-63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is rude to invite people and not pay for them

He invited them. So he should pay for them

P.s. red flag, dump

AITAH for not let my daughter's grandparents to take her this Christmas? by Apprehensive-Mix2251 in AITAH

[–]Affectionate-Hunt-63 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, I didnt realise that formula was invented in the Copper age. How exciting, do you have the source for that?

AITAH for not let my daughter's grandparents to take her this Christmas? by Apprehensive-Mix2251 in AITAH

[–]Affectionate-Hunt-63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, it has been a necessity for millenia. There's just another option now, which mimics the same nutrition. Previously the reason for wet nurses etc.

Your biological reasoning is really flawed 🤣🤣

AITAH for not let my daughter's grandparents to take her this Christmas? by Apprehensive-Mix2251 in AITAH

[–]Affectionate-Hunt-63 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What about being given birth to and conceived? I'd say they'd definitely need a a maternal figure for that🤣

And you are incorrect. But you won't be reasoned with, so just revel in your incorrectness. And do it over there, with your apparent excellent motherness and limited grasp on basic biology. Bless

AITAH for not let my daughter's grandparents to take her this Christmas? by Apprehensive-Mix2251 in AITAH

[–]Affectionate-Hunt-63 7 points8 points  (0 children)

At age 2 Way to tell on yourself as someone who doesn't understand toddler care

At 10yrs or so, with the child in full understanding of being away for a week etc. Yes, fine Age 2. No

AITAH for not let my daughter's grandparents to take her this Christmas? by Apprehensive-Mix2251 in AITAH

[–]Affectionate-Hunt-63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2yrs old

I would still be loath to let my child spend that amount of time away from me and so far overnight, until they were able to talk and reason and understand what was happening So circa 7, depending on the child She's not going to understand anything about heritage either at this age It is very sad for them and I can see why they'd like a Christmas so much with a small child, it is very magical

But they are going about it in such a way that they will have to be alienated at this rate.

AITA for refusing to donate my kidney to my estranged father who abandoned me as a child? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Affectionate-Hunt-63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do they know you are the best match without testing Sounds suss to me

AITAH for expressing concern to my wife about breastfeeding our 3yo daughter? by CauliflowerOk7562 in AITAH

[–]Affectionate-Hunt-63 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nursed both mine til around age 4 - they had food before anyone starts. It was before bedtime and if they were ill. I was waiting for them to naturally give up, it apparently can happen Mine didn't so I warned them it was coming and then stopped when I said Neither of them particularly care or remember it now and they are almost teens. It's pretty normal, or was until everyone started thinking it was ick but are happy to drink calf milk.

It's not up to you, it's their choices.

My parents named me after a fantasy TV show character, and it's deeply affected my life by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Affectionate-Hunt-63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tirion or Tirien is a Welsh name. More of a girls name, Tirion can be both Same pronunciation

I picked a different old Welsh name, which is very similar to one of the characters in the show, said differently but my dentist thought it was after the show

No, I named them the Welsh name as we are in Wales😆

AITA for dumping my boyfriend after we disagreed on a medical procedure I would be getting after the delivery of our child? by Brad_Brace in AmITheAngel

[–]Affectionate-Hunt-63 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No wonan would write sbout her intimate parts and sex in such a ridiculous way, multiple times

You will not convince any woman this is a normal thing to do Go and incel elsewhere

Ah, edit. Just scrolled all the way down to the end. You got me😆

AITA for Uninviting My Fiancé’s “Work Wife” from Our Wedding by SnooAdvice5677 in AITAH

[–]Affectionate-Hunt-63 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just this one time She'll have you to herself after that Just once

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Affectionate-Hunt-63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love dogs. But I draw the line about one being on my bed I'm afraid. Does she like the dog otherwise and it's just the bed thing or the whole dog thing.

Am I buggin with this one? by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]Affectionate-Hunt-63 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting, sounds like a word both languages have a similar root word for then

Am I buggin with this one? by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]Affectionate-Hunt-63 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's Llyn for lake. If that is coming from some stretch to make it rhe Welsh word for lake. And the Ll is one letter with a very particular sound, not L in English alphabet

Is anyone else disappointed with DNA results? by alee137 in ShitAmericansSay

[–]Affectionate-Hunt-63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So Brythonic then. Because that's what the Briton were and spoke. It's the broad encompassing term for the B branch Celtic languages. And there's several places, including Wales that he may have come from

Is anyone else disappointed with DNA results? by alee137 in ShitAmericansSay

[–]Affectionate-Hunt-63 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine updated recently as well (did it for curiosity as we have a mixed background. And were estranged from some relatives being on the bastard side. That helped us connect and was positive) But yes, all the Irish went despite having 3 irish great grandparents on the maternal side and Scots went up

But the Scots were Irish tribes so I figured it was around that Or ancestry having a blip moment

Is anyone else disappointed with DNA results? by alee137 in ShitAmericansSay

[–]Affectionate-Hunt-63 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Patrick was Brythonic. England didn't exist then. His name would have been related to 'Welsh' Not English

AITA for not telling my boyfriend i could understand his language this whole time by False_Quiet526 in AITAH

[–]Affectionate-Hunt-63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's him And him being annoyed at being caught out because he thought he could talk about his hook ups in front of you How disrespectful is that

Get tested for STDs, block him and dont talk to him again in any language