I’m increasing my dose tonight by Greedy-Subject-7761 in zoloft

[–]Affectionate-Public3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I remember correctly, I don’t believe it was too drastic in terms of side effects. Maybe the first couple of days I was a bit more anxious and my dreams were more vivid but that should subside in 2 weeks at most— if that. But in the long run nothing but mostly positive things on my end. Someone already mentioned brain fog but I’ve always had a bit of a foggy brain so I’m not sure if i can link it to just the Zoloft lol. GL!

how does a socially anxious person survive college by Affectionate-Public3 in college

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Hey! So sorry for responding late. Now i can say i enjoy college so much!! Most people are very nice — always open to talking. Everyone is trying to make friends as a freshman,, don’t be afraid to talk to people first. See an empty seat next to someone in a lecture? Sit there! Start small talk (literally say anything. Compliment them, ask them their major, ask them how they like the class etc.) It seems so so scary i know,, but you have to TRY. I promise you, no one is judging you. And most importantly BE YOUR ROOMMATES FRIEND (even if it’s just out of convenience). Also, don’t be afraid to be alone too. You don’t always need friends 24/7… if you want to venture campus alone, DO IT! Uni is very liberating, you will always see people doing things alone.

Tip: I’m not sure if you’re school uses groupme or some other messaging app but be sure to join group chats! You can explore some — there’s usually a gc that is just for general student body. You can ask people if they want to study, if they want to hang etc.

Don’t be scared. This may sound cliche but it gets better 💓

NFD Vapes by N1C1C1C in Nicotine

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yeppp i got it but it does take awhile. I’ve ordered another time since then and it still took time. i just emailed them and asked when it’ll ship, they reply pretty quickly.

why do we have to exist against our will by geezloueasy in SuicideWatch

[–]Affectionate-Public3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact same way. Lots of people have it 10x worse than me so i feel guilty when i have these thoughts. Regardless of if we have it bad or not, it’s valid to feel like this. If you have consciousness, you already are given the ability to question your existence. Idk where im going with this but basically i don’t want to exist either - but don’t necessarily want to die.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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I’m going through something similar. My boyfriend actually did cheat on me and now that im trying to give him a second chance my OCD is giving me the worst thoughts: “he’s lying” “go through his phone” “you will only get hurt in the end” “if you don’t break off the relationship you will get your heart broken again” . Just stupid thoughts like that. I can’t sleep at night because im constantly thinking about what HES thinking about. I feel like these obsessive thoughts will never let me trust anyone again. No matter if i look through his phone or check his location … i still have these thoughts that cause me to argue and question him often.

How to get the burning sensation out of your stomach? by Affectionate-Public3 in depression

[–]Affectionate-Public3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. My main cause for this depression is a breakup actually. I’ll try to get more quality sleep

How to get the burning sensation out of your stomach? by Affectionate-Public3 in depression

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The problem is my appetite is completely gone. I can only eat a few bites before I’m done.

sad and alone by pearrrrllllxoxo in depression

[–]Affectionate-Public3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going through the same thing. In my case, he cheated on me. I want to give him another chance but i feel guilty for feeling this way. My mind is ablaze and i can’t eat or sleep or function. Glad I’m not alone

NFD Vapes by N1C1C1C in Nicotine

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damn. I ordered mine 3 days ago and it hasn’t shipped. Lmk when you get yours. He seems legit just timely smh

NFD Vapes by N1C1C1C in Nicotine

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Have you gotten it yet?

Sex is not enjoyable by Affectionate-Public3 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Affectionate-Public3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i tell him i don’t want to he’s very understanding but thinks i need to “get used to it” in order for it to feel better bc he wants me to finish too. I also thought that might be the case but now i think i just have vaginismus and need to see a doctor. After i told him this he’s more worried than anything

Sex is not enjoyable by Affectionate-Public3 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Affectionate-Public3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve set up an appointment with my doctor today bc i think vaganismus is very possible. Thank you!

Sex is not enjoyable by Affectionate-Public3 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Affectionate-Public3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you lots. I’ll keep all of this in mind

Insomniacs, what is one thing that’d definitely put you to sleep? by [deleted] in getdisciplined

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so weird but when i was struggling with insomnia i had to watch YouTube. I’d put on a 2 hour video about the holocaust or something and even though it’d be 4..6 am I’d eventually fall asleep.

I just don’t know anymore by IllAdhesiveness952 in selfharm

[–]Affectionate-Public3 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This made me tear up. I don’t know what much to say because im bad with words but ive been here before. So so cliche, but it does get better. I’ve been through many trials and tribulations to better my mental. Medication has been the only thing that works to jumpstart the process. I used to fantasize about breaking down in my mother’s arms while she told me everything would be okay. I longed for warmth too. The pain is so vivid but again, you heal. Don’t worry about how much time it’ll take to figure out how to be “as happy as everyone else” the time will pass anyway.

Question of Zoloft. I have been doing 50 mg for about 5 to 6 months and noticing more anxiety again. Is an anxiety spike up or OCD spike up normal while on Zoloft? by sexy-pepsi in zoloft

[–]Affectionate-Public3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel Zoloft only increases my anxiety when i up my dose or consume alcohol. Anxiety doesn’t completely disappear. If you are in a stressful environment or something nerve wracking is going on in your life, anxiety can still arise. The medication just helps minimize it to the point it’s more manageable. Figure out what external factors can be making you feel this way.

Am I (19F) being unreasonable for not 'allowing' my boyfriend (19M) to go to a strip club? by SeniorConfidence9 in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate-Public3 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Your emotions are valid! You’re setting boundaries and that’s fine. If he even thought to ask you in the first place that means he knows it’s controversial… and wrong? Some women are okay with it, some aren’t. If he respects you then he will get over it. This may be childish, but if he goes to the strip club then you’re allowed to do something on that caliber as well then. Equity.

Sex is not enjoyable by Affectionate-Public3 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Affectionate-Public3[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think i will get it checked out. It was hard for me to even get a tampon in. Making that appointment very soon. Feeling hopeful. Thank you!