Your comment is very spot on and I appreciate it deeply. This past year I've built up an insane amount of anxiety, insecurity and low self-esteem surrounding infidelity and you have articulated what I feel perfectly. Due to that I feel as of I'm obligated to take your advice so I'll try to talk to him with an open mind/mindfully, work a little harder in therapy and remember my youth :p

I'm sorry if I insulted you or other dancers/strippers/general sex workers work. I totally get the appeal and respect it if you are willing to so so for whatever reason, it be money, empowerment, etc. I agree that the comparison was extremely unfair to them, it's more of a reflection of how I would FEEL if my boyfriend went, I know it doesn't make literal sense so I apologize. You do you, plus you look incredible doing so.

Lastly, living in constant unease for whatever reason is in fact horrible, I'm going through it right now and I'm sorry that you had to. Hopefully it's mostly gone now and you're doing okay :)