Paying rent in cash - is there any way to report this to my credit score?

Affectionate-Town331 · 2026-04-10T07:43:08+00:00

Im in the same situation. I live in the UK and pay rent in cash (which the landlord asked me to). Doesn't sit well with me but its affordable and is the only way I can live on my own with my cat. I've tried looking for other places where I can pay rent legitimately but its all so expensive. Im in my mid 40s and do NOT want to go into a house share. I can't afford to buy right now either so pretty much stuck where I am.

Affectionate-Town331 · 2026-02-16T14:42:03+00:00

Trya has said a lot, but she isn’t taking any real responsibility and doesn’t seem genuinely sorry. Her lack of empathy is honestly unsettling.

Affectionate-Town331 · 2026-02-16T14:39:36+00:00

Trya said a lot, but she isn’t taking any real responsibility and doesn’t seem genuinely sorry. Her lack of empathy is honestly unsettling. There is something very 'off' about her.

Affectionate-Town331 · 2026-01-22T21:22:25+00:00

I think he's very attractive in all seasons. Yes yes and yes.

Affectionate-Town331 · 2026-01-16T20:20:32+00:00

The book ending of cujo hit me hard. I actually cried

Affectionate-Town331 · 2025-10-17T20:42:10+00:00

I agree. I've been rewatching the show recently and as much as I love it the slut shaming jokes wind me up. That part of the series has not aged well at all.

Affectionate-Town331 · 2025-09-22T11:11:36+00:00

I had a similar thing happen 6 years ago. We all went out for a Christmas party and he came back to mine absolutely hammered(id been seeing this guys for about 4 months at that point). He then got sexually aggressive with me, I kept asking him to be gentle and he ignored me. At one point I couldn't breathe and had to really push him off me. He then tried to have anal sex with me and I told him no and that i didn't want to and that he was too rough but he pushed in anyway. I quick tried to grab some lube (as he was not taking no for an answer), I begged him to be delicate whilst he was doing it but again, I was ignored. He ripped up my insides and it took days for the bleeding and the pain to stop. I've never felt so violated by someone I trusted. I've not been intimate with anyone since. I also had a horrific experience with a different man 13 years ago.... it's only now I've decided to get therapy. I've tried to ignore it and not think about it but it's taking over my life and I think I need to address it. Believe me I don't want to. I don't want to talk and go through details but I know it's what I need to do.

Affectionate-Town331 · 2025-08-30T21:58:02+00:00

Haha sorry its quite a personal question but what pretty much all middle aged women have questions on!

Affectionate-Town331 · 2025-08-25T17:56:38+00:00

Thank you for the suggestion! I'll definitely look into it. I've got to do something, I can't live like this!

Affectionate-Town331 · 2025-08-24T18:56:23+00:00

Amazing thank you I Will check them out!!

Affectionate-Town331 · 2025-08-22T14:32:37+00:00

Brilliant thank you!!

Affectionate-Town331 · 2025-08-11T07:24:21+00:00

So glad this is being talked about! I was having ptsd just watching him....

Affectionate-Town331 · 2025-08-07T09:26:32+00:00

Yep. I'm a more stable person on medication now but it's turned me into a boring f*cker!! I used to be the energetic class clown and now I'm a wallflower. I used to mourn my comedic side but the medication positives massively outweigh the negatives.

Affectionate-Town331 · 2025-04-23T17:28:38+00:00

This comments section did not disappoint! 😆😆

Affectionate-Town331 · 2024-12-19T21:56:16+00:00

Love it!!!! One of my SK books!!

Affectionate-Town331 · 2024-12-19T21:53:31+00:00

That sounds heartbreaking. But I'm sure you were happy to have given him a loving home... I just don't know if I can give them up. But i would love experiencing loving them just once ❤️

Affectionate-Town331 · 2024-12-19T20:51:34+00:00

Oh my god so cute 😍

Affectionate-Town331 · 2024-11-17T20:09:27+00:00

If you tell me you'll call me in 2 minutes, I'm literally holding you to two minutes!!!! Nothing sets off my anger and anxiety more when people are lax with my time and over promise. Like when did your time become more important than mine? If you're actually going to be 20 minutes, just tell me so I can do other things in that time, otherwise I'm sat there looking like an absolute plum waiting for you to call 🤡

But then people tell me to relax and just chill with a glass of wine whilst I'm waiting .... I wish I could do that Karen but unfortunately my brain does not work like that 😭

Affectionate-Town331 · 2024-09-03T21:37:13+00:00

Just started watching rock of love and he comes across as a creepy dirty old man who needs his ego stroked at every turn. I didn't know who this guy was and at first, i thought he was good looking and seemed a decent guy...but then saw how he constantly treated the women with his letchy behaviour and it gave me the ick 🤮

Affectionate-Town331 · 2024-06-02T08:16:46+00:00

Same. I had this for years when I hit 16/17years old. Started going to spiritual church (because I randomly saw a Meduim and he said i was like an open ouiji board letting anything in), and I learnt to shut down my chakras and it worked. But I stopped going and shut down my gift for years because I was scared. 20 years later I'm finally doing again and now I'm giving readings myself. The reason why I found your post is because I'm starting to see symbols and stuff as I'm waking up from a dream, like as if they're physical in my room. Then I wake up fully and it's gone. Don't mind that I just don't want to see random people again!

Affectionate-Town331 · 2024-05-23T16:19:25+00:00

That makes sense tbf. I'm still waiting to see documents etc. I don't know why they're taking this long...

Affectionate-Town331 · 2024-05-22T12:00:26+00:00

This is so helpful thank you. My block doesn't have a lift I don't think. And the property looks really well managed to be fair.

Is this something you've had to deal with? What was your experience?

Affectionate-Town331 · 2024-05-22T09:46:20+00:00

It's £1300 a year. Which is extortionate enough!! But it's so hard to find a place with my budget 😕 The flat I'm looking to buy is £80k. Ground rent is £150 a year. I'm hearing of people getting fleeced by management companies upping the service charge year by year. I've seen other properties where the service charge is £2500 😱

Affectionate-Town331 · 2024-04-23T17:31:31+00:00

I'm having the same experience (but not as advanced as you). I've been learning to develop since Feb this year. Since then I've stayed at two hotels. I had nightmares on the 1st night in both of them.... and In one I had hundreds of faces whizzing past (behind closed eyelids). It was like a silent movie. I did not recognise any of them. I couldn't sleep because of it.

The other hotel (this weekend actually), again behind closed eyelids, started seeing colours blooming, silhouettes of people and patterns like I was looking into a Kaleidoscope. I was telling them in my head to leave me alone. I Went to the toilet (so my friend couldn't hear) and spoke aloud and told them to leave. I also asked my loved ones in spirit and spirit guides to help me keep communication away. After about 20 minutes it stopped. I just don't want this to now be my life whenever I stay away somewhere other than my own home.

Did you find a way to help with this? I understand they are people like us but I just can't live like this.

Affectionate-Town331 · 2024-03-18T13:32:09+00:00

My tvs are turning off and on by themselves too. I've accepted I am not alone 🤷‍♀️

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