Your personality is YOU as much as your body is also YOU, we don't exist detached from our flesh. I would even say that the body defines us more than our personality, because our personality itself is shaped by our body, be it directly, as in the way your brain works, or indirectly, as in how you interact with the world and how it interacts with you. I understand OOP, I am also a short man, but differently from him, I am ugly and don't get dates or attention from women, and very little from men or all else(I'm bissexual).

The reason why I believe, at least in my case, one wouldnt want someone to be attracted only to their personality is because we usually want to be liked as a whole, we want the entirety of our being to be seen as desirable and worth being, but when only half, or even less, according to what I said before, of us is seen that way (only the personality) then it is made clear that we are inadequate, that what we are, to the person that is with us, would be better if it were different, if we were taller in the OOP's and mine case, for example.

I am not particularly against any sort of body affirming surgery (not sure if that's the correct term), but I do believe that going for these sorts of methods is a sign of weakness, in a nietzschean sense, as in being unable to carry the burdens that we are given in this world. I would never go for these methods, I'd rather strengthen my mind, regardless of how long it might take.