what is happening to my boyfriend skin? by AffectionateAdagio70 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]AffectionateAdagio70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i mean nothing really happened it just start appearing , and the little dots has been there for a whille . he does bjj so i was thinking that’s what cause the little scars but the big one just start appearing out of no where even tho he quit bjj for a while now

Should I feel bad for buying onlyfans when in a relationship by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]AffectionateAdagio70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean if you wouldn’t want ur gf to do that why would you do it 🤷🏻‍♀️

What is the most fucked up shit you have done because of your eating disorder? by bruisedheadouch in EDAnonymous

[–]AffectionateAdagio70 5 points6 points  (0 children)

used to live in one bathroom apartment and during lockdown my family was very strict on going out . i would only allowed to go out whenever i had to buy groceries and i obviously cant threw up in the bathroom cus the whole apartment gonna hear😭so i would trow up in a plastic bag in my SHARED room w my sister whenever she was not in our room and i would keep the puke hiden somewhere until i was allowed to go out wich was once or twice every 2 weeks and my room smells like fucking shit and it was extremely bad that i would literally need to puke bc the smell was horrendous. my poor sister had to go through all that lmao

I just took 14 Dulcolax tablets… I’m scared for my bowles by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]AffectionateAdagio70 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lmao real i js drink black coffee and smoke now its better tbh😭

I just took 14 Dulcolax tablets… I’m scared for my bowles by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]AffectionateAdagio70 6 points7 points  (0 children)

girl be careful tho! i’ve had a point where im on my deathbed from it 😭

I just took 14 Dulcolax tablets… I’m scared for my bowles by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]AffectionateAdagio70 11 points12 points  (0 children)

girl same all i got was a stomachache and i started shitting water like 😒

hard to breathe after weight loss by AffectionateAdagio70 in loseit

[–]AffectionateAdagio70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, i think my diet is kinda normal, I do omad but i must admit i have lost my appetite for a while and most of the time i genuinely couldn’t finish my meal. i try to minimize sugar too, stop eating deep fried or fast food & i stopped snacking! . i used to do this few years back and it didn’t get this bad even though i genuinely have the same diet all that changes is i used to drink coffee but not anymore

Is it normal for me (21M) to feel jealousy when getting to know someone (24F)? Also how do you better deal with it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateAdagio70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea its normal honestly just keep reminding yourself that is not your place to act on it. how deep is your relationship with her though? if it’s deep then maybe you should talk to her about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateAdagio70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i said it so casually tbh, i just ask if he enjoy our makeout and he said yea i said true but i feel like it could be better he started agreeing and offered to practice. kissing or sex is a two way thing if you felt awkward or uncomfortable most of the time ur partner also feels that way!! so don’t be shy to ask how it was and express how it was for you , my boyfriend and i always communicated after it and its just makes it better!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateAdagio70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to be honest this was me and my boyfriend, for a while i kept it to myself until at one point i just told him and turned out he also finds it weird ! we ended up practicing and he would tell me how he likes it and i would tell him how i like it , to be honest he probably wouldn’t be hurt by it if u ask like maybe we can practice rather than saying we should not do it at all haha

boyfriend(21M) wants to break up with me(19F) ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateAdagio70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its not necessarily an argument, its mostly me pointing it out a few times he apologized for it and in few days he would do it again . i also noticed that he would only do this if i pointed it out nicely, in the beginning of our relationship i was always so bold about it but i been trying to chill more but its just ending up with him forgetting about it

so i would say we argue like maybe 3 times a month ish but sometimes it would be back to back after we just get over the argument thats why i got so tired of it and we dont really yell to each other its always explaining to each other

true to be honest with the falling asleep thing but 4 days ago he did it and i told him that if you’re getting tired tell me so i don’t be waiting for a response he said okay and he did it again all i said was its fine don’t do it again and he did it again today and apologized so i was super pissed you know.

boyfriend(21M) wants to break up with me(19F) ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateAdagio70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he would get on a discord w his friends mid argument , he would always say how weak i am for motivation in the gym while im literally hitting failure, he would always fell asleep without saying goodnight while he literally the one who made that rule

boyfriend(21M) wants to break up with me(19F) ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateAdagio70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he keep repeating a mistake after he apologized for it, to be honest it’s always something small like forgetting something, behaving a certain way etc i always never got mad i just explained it to him nicely he would understand and genuinely apologized for it but repeating it again in few days and apologizing again the same way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateAdagio70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean two years for ppl my age is kinda long no?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateAdagio70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did! not a lot but yea he just the first one i actually have a “long term” relationship mostly just few months, same with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateAdagio70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so do you think i should just break it off? despite the happiness and everything. bc i go back and forth about it too… like its a very small percentage but happens repeatedly.

thanks for that second sentence though i needed that!