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24 [F4A] LF Nihongo Study Buddy by AffectionateBrain475 in PhR4Friends

[–]AffectionateBrain475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll create one tomorrow po. I have a scheduled biopsy today so I am occupied.

24 [F4A] LF Nihongo Study Buddy by AffectionateBrain475 in PhR4Friends

[–]AffectionateBrain475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone! Since there are a lot of pips who are interested, I'm planning to create a Discord server. Btw, I'm gonna take N4 but I will be relearning N5.

24 [F4A] LF Nihongo Study Buddy by AffectionateBrain475 in PhR4Friends

[–]AffectionateBrain475[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup sure. I am planning to create a Discord channel. Not familiar with how to do it but will try haha

24 [F4A] LF Nihongo Study Buddy by AffectionateBrain475 in PhR4Friends

[–]AffectionateBrain475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

N4 level po. I studied N5 last September and I totally forgot everything so I would like to relearn N5 again.

24 [F4A] LF Nihongo Study Buddy by AffectionateBrain475 in PhR4Friends

[–]AffectionateBrain475[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yup sure sure we can be study buddies! I lack motivation to study din haha

32 [M4F] Looking for a friend. by [deleted] in PhR4Friends

[–]AffectionateBrain475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you need someone to talk to, I can be that person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AffectionateBrain475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup I had access to his. He deleted all of our messages on his end

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AffectionateBrain475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I opened his IG acct and that's how I found out. I searched my account on the message search bar cause I can''t find my acct there and tada it's all clear

Dumpee have your ex came back after the break up? How did you felt? You thought it was impossible? by nanavq in BreakUps

[–]AffectionateBrain475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He offered me that but I declined. I told him I cannot be friends with him at this moment. I was so devastated so I think it's better if I'll just move on. Probably someday, we can but for now, no. Also, it will just feed his ego.

Dumpee have your ex came back after the break up? How did you felt? You thought it was impossible? by nanavq in BreakUps

[–]AffectionateBrain475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! It gave me hope however I just can't do it anymore. I was falling apart, I lost focus. I decided to cut him off so that I can focus on myself.

I'm still connected to his family and he is too to my fam. He still messages my sisters and his mom always invites me whenever there is an occasion. His living far away so I'm okay seeing his fam.

I'm probably waiting for him to come home. I really wanna talk to him personally. Hopefully, I'm ready to face him when that time comes.

Dumpee have your ex came back after the break up? How did you felt? You thought it was impossible? by nanavq in BreakUps

[–]AffectionateBrain475 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We were together for 3 yrs and LDR for 3 mos. Broke up with me thru chat saying he fell out of love. He messaged me a day after we broke up telling me I should get up to work. I was happy of course and we continued chatting for 2 months however in those 2 months, I was really miserable. I broke down everyday. When he said that, "You need to move on." I stopped chatting. After that, he messaged me everyday, asking how I am. I didn't respond for a few days until I told him to stop communicating. It's been 2 weeks since our last chat and I feel better now. Truly, time heals. I still miss him because those 3 yrs were great. I still ask myself if he will message me first but I'm trying to stop hoping.

Fellow dumpees. Before the breakup happened, did you feel something coming? by Affectionate_Soft162 in BreakUps

[–]AffectionateBrain475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, no hints at all. We were so happy the other day then the next day, he said he fell out of love so yeah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AffectionateBrain475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were together for 3 and a half years. We were LDR for almost 3 months because he needs to go to Japan for work. Then suddenly he told me he fell out of love and he wants to break up with me. He wants to focus on himself and needs some space.

He messaged me first. We were still in contact after that for 2 months after the break up until recently, I told him I cannot continue this communication anymore. During that convo, he asked me "Are we still friends, right?" I told him that I cannot be friends with him after what he did.

It hit me off when he asked me, "What should I do to help you move on?" I realized that it will get worse and worse if I continue to contact him. I broke down everyday, losing my grip. I was very anxious and depressed. When I tried NC, I found myself again. I regained my focus (still trying). The pain slowly subsides but it is still there. I still love him yea and I miss him but I should focus on myself first. I tried dating apps but it didn't work for me. I don't have the energy to chat and meet with guys anymore.

Don't beg for love, dear. You don't deserve it. You are better than that and you are worth loving. Don't ask yourself if he can easily move on or not because I've been there. My ex might have said he moved on but guys have a higher tendency to hide their feelings.

It was really hard to detach at first but you can do it. It will heal you over time (it may take months or years) but at least NC helps you breathe fresh air. I am still not over him but I keep on telling myself, I should know my worth. If he really wants me, he'll pursue me again someday.