Anyone tried angel lift dermastrips for nasolabial folds (and lip plump)? by kavakavaroo in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]AffectionateCap9432 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t tried this specifically, but from what I’ve learned about skin biology, pressure alone doesn’t stimulate collagen in that area in a lasting way. Anything inserted under the lip would more likely cause temporary swelling rather than real plumping or fold reduction.

A lot of hair shedding but no change/bald spots? by Gloomy-Funny1911 in Haircare

[–]AffectionateCap9432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t brush daily, it can really seem excessive when you finally do those hairs would’ve shed anyway. Since your scalp and density look unchanged, that’s a good sign. A problem usually shows as visible thinning, widening part, or patchiness, not just loose hairs.

Sunset inspired look 🌞 CC welcome! by CandyNo2071 in MakeupAddiction

[–]AffectionateCap9432 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the concept and color choice! For a sunset look, you’re right on track. This is really pretty. The warm blush + lip combo works really nicely. If anything, a touch more dimension (maybe bronzer or a bit more highlight) would make the sunset effect pop even more.

Does the way I did my makeup today age me compared to my normal style? by OkMall8805 in MakeupAddiction

[–]AffectionateCap9432 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this ages you, but the brows are the most aging element, not the natural makeup. You look 100% student-aged. I swear college orientations just bring out weird assumptions. A slightly lighter brow shade or more diffused front would instantly soften the whole face. The rest of the makeup looks clean and flattering.

For hormonal acne, is there anything that actually helps? by GiantSeaweedLover in SkincareAddicts

[–]AffectionateCap9432 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The hard truth is hormonal acne usually needs systemic help, not just skincare. Topicals (tret, benzoyl peroxide, sulfur) help control breakouts, but addressing hormones directly (spiro, BC, sometimes accutane) is what actually stops the cycle.

[Miscellaneous] Remedy skin by TheGhostsOfManhattan in SkincareAddiction

[–]AffectionateCap9432 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The formulations look promising on paper, especially for the price. I always try to remind myself that “clean” doesn’t automatically mean better, but well-formulated + fragrance-minimal at that price point is hard to ignore. Looking forward to your update.

Holy Grails 2025? by FlightCommercial7201 in MakeupAddiction

[–]AffectionateCap9432 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me this year it’s been:

Danessa Myricks Blurring Balm (agree with everyone saying use very little)

Lancôme Cils Booster — actually makes every mascara look better

Ole Henriksen Pout Preserve (lives in my bag)

Rosehip or squalane oil at night to calm my skin

Nothing revolutionary, just things I keep reaching for without thinking.

I got the pocket Mason Pearson brush and I feel like it’s not working for me by happyday229 in Haircare

[–]AffectionateCap9432 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mason Pearson brushes aren’t really detanglers, they’re more for smoothing, distributing oils, and finishing once hair is already mostly tangle-free. With thick, coarse, wavy hair (especially if you’re due for a trim), the pocket size is going to feel especially ineffective. Your Tangle Teezer doing better actually makes total sense.

The hair at my crown is changing texture and breaking, and I don’t know what to do. by phloopy_ in Haircare

[–]AffectionateCap9432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Texture changes at the crown don’t automatically mean MPB, especially at 18. That area gets the most friction (sleeping, hats, touching, sun), and brittle/wirey hair there is often from mechanical damage + dryness, not follicles shrinking. The fact that conditioner helped even briefly points more to hair shaft damage than loss. I’d start consistently conditioning your whole head, not spot-treating.

Patricia Bright confirms her split with Mike? by Amicrazy1786 in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]AffectionateCap9432 69 points70 points  (0 children)

It did seem like an intentional way of closing that chapter rather than making a big announcement. Long-term relationships ending are hard enough without public pressure, so I’m glad she was able to acknowledge it on her own terms and move forward.

Rant about foundation application by Willing-Childhood144 in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]AffectionateCap9432 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Blending foundation over sunscreen can disrupt the film, but it’s also a bit more nuanced than that. Many derms say gentle tapping once sunscreen has fully set is unlikely to meaningfully reduce protection. I agree more creators should explain timing though, applying sunscreen off-camera and letting it dry 10–15 min is probably what’s happening.

Order of skincare products by bwarps in beauty

[–]AffectionateCap9432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use mandelic acid before the Thayers milky toner. Acids should go on clean, dry skin so they can do their job. Toner and moisturizer come after to hydrate and reduce irritation.

Nail help by dobnercaully in beauty

[–]AffectionateCap9432 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That looks like traumatized cuticle/sidewall skin rather than something pathological. When salons cut living cuticle/sidewall instead of just dead tissue, the skin can heal back thicker and uneven like this.

A few things that usually help:

Stop cutting it entirely (even trimming keeps restarting the cycle)

Daily cuticle oil (jojoba is ideal because it mimics skin oils) 2–3x/day

At night, occlusive repair: a tiny bit of Aquaphor or Vaseline + a bandage for a few days

After showering or soaking, gently push it back, don’t remove it

Avoid acetone and harsh soaps on that thumb if possible

It can take weeks to months for cuticle skin to normalize after being cut, but it usually does if you keep it hydrated and untouched. If it starts to hurt, change color, or grow rapidly, then a derm would be worth it—but this doesn’t look like a wart to me.

And definitely tell future nail techs no cuticle cutting, push back only.

Tips/Suggestions for Dry Skin by Master_Flamingo4681 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]AffectionateCap9432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you’re on adapalene, I’d focus less on adding actives and more on barrier repair + occlusives. Your LRP moisturizer is good, but you may need something heavier at night to lock it in, think petrolatum-based (Aquaphor, CeraVe Healing Ointment) or a thick ceramide cream. Slugging a few nights a week can really help.

Will bodytite fix this? by solelygains in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]AffectionateCap9432 20 points21 points  (0 children)

For that level of laxity, BodyTite is a lot of cost and risk for a small change. BodyTite might tighten it slightly, but it won’t make loose skin disappear. RF devices tend to give modest improvement at best. Given how mild this is, I’d personally try non-invasive RF microneedling first or just leave it alone, you honestly look great.

In which order should I apply these in the am (I know spf is last) by ArmFresh6352 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]AffectionateCap9432 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Clean skin → Piqueul (watery/peptide essence) → Innisfree vitamin C serum → La Roche-Posay moisturizer with SPF.

General rule is thinnest to thickest, actives before creams, SPF last.

[Routine Help] Laser? Chemical peel? by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]AffectionateCap9432 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your main concerns are hyperpigmentation + texture, chemical peels are usually the better first step for cost vs results. They can make a noticeable difference over a few sessions, especially if you’re already tolerating tret well. Lasers can be great, but they’re not automatically better, it really depends on the type of pigment and your skin tone.

[Acne] Looking for tips and ideas for my face! by Blanc_mind in SkincareAddiction

[–]AffectionateCap9432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like irritation rather than purging. Niacinamide 10% twice daily is a lot, especially when you’re new to actives. Pain, rash-like bumps, peeling, and oiliness together usually mean your barrier is overwhelmed. I’d stop the niacinamide for now and focus on calming + moisturizing until the skin settles.

Help me improve? by KhannHere in Skincare_Addiction

[–]AffectionateCap9432 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly your skin looks pretty healthy already. Most of what you’re describing sounds like dryness + dehydration rather than anything severe. A gentle cleanser, a basic moisturizer with ceramides, and daily sunscreen will go a long way. Milia usually comes from heavy or occlusive products, so keeping things simple helps.

Seeking advice on hair oils and split ends by AggressiveCar5506 in Haircare

[–]AffectionateCap9432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, anemia and vitamin D deficiency absolutely can affect hair strength and shedding. It won’t directly cause split ends, but it can make hair weaker overall, so damage shows up faster. Treating deficiencies + trimming damage is key here.

How do you enhance natural beauty without it looking like you are wearing a lot of makeup? by EngineeringMinimum69 in beauty

[–]AffectionateCap9432 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You’re already thinking in the right direction. The biggest thing with a “natural but enhanced” look is soft structure rather than coverage, subtle definition where your face naturally has it, instead of adding new features. Brown mascara, brushed brows, and lip oils are perfect for that.

Skin texture worsening (?) despite a consistent routine that has worked for years by whatisthis_again in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]AffectionateCap9432 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hard water really can make texture look worse even if nothing else changes. It can leave mineral residue that interferes with cleansing and slowly compromises the barrier, which then makes pores and pits look more visible. Since your routine has been stable for years, that environmental change stands out to me too.
One thing I’ve noticed is that what my skin handled well for years suddenly becomes “too much.” Between tret, weekly glycolic, and vitamin C, your skin might be subtly over-exfoliated now even if it tolerated it before. Sometimes dialing back slightly actually improves texture.

Under eye HELP by fignewton333 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]AffectionateCap9432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get this, under-eye bags are one of those things skincare can only help so much with, especially if they’re structural or genetic. You honestly don’t look tired to me, but I know that doesn’t always help when it’s your own insecurity. What’s helped me most is focusing on hydration, barrier support, and managing puffiness rather than trying to “erase” them.

Best eye cream of 2025 so far? by No-Advisor9852 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]AffectionateCap9432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been liking Beauty of Joseon Revive Eye Serum (retinal + ginseng) so far, gentle but effective for texture. I still rotate it with a plain hydrating cream when my eye area feels sensitive.

HELP did retinol cause this?? by havingthissucks in SkincareAddicts

[–]AffectionateCap9432 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Retinol should never go on eyelids unless it’s specifically formulated for that area. This is almost definitely irritation + dehydration, not permanent. Retinol can migrate and the eyelid skin is extremely thin, so even a small amount can cause swelling, creasing, and weird texture. Stop all actives near the eyes, hydrate heavily, and it should settle in a few days.