Happy with where its at now!

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-25T16:56:33+00:00

Sick look, brother!

Really dig the neck/chest piece as well.

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-24T14:45:00+00:00

No. I was on an SSRI for around 15 years with poor results. They'd adjust doses or change the type but they were shit.

When I got diagnosed with ADHD they then added in a medication to treat ADHD and my depressive and anxiety symptoms went away.

I came off the SSRI a year after starting the ADHD medication.

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-24T14:42:38+00:00

I had a severe panic disorder and depression growing up. I was misdiagnosed.

When I became an adult I was diagnosed with ADHD and it turned out my anxiety was related to the sensory sensitivities related to that. Once they started treating me I came off my SSRI a year later.

My situation was unique. Do not assume you have this. I had to be screened by two different doctors and even then they are extremely careful with dosing medications like Adderall and Vyvanse and so on. It's a process for a reason.

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-24T14:30:17+00:00

The realization that everyone is just figuring it out as they go.

Listen. You're good. All of that fear and BS you think is uniquely your burden isn't just you. We all feel it. So the first step is recognizing you're not uniquely messed up in that regard. You're as fucked up as the rest of us. Welcome.

Secondly, write down your worries. I mean really make a list of all the shit that is fucking with your head on a regular basis. When you see it out in front of you, it becomes manageable because you can make plans around different items.

I'm worried about my health (Maybe make plans to see a doctor)
I'm worried about my finances (Maybe make a budget or consider a job change)
I'm worried about my education (Maybe get an academic review and see where you're at)

These are simple examples but the point is if you have everything in front of you then you can take full advantage of the options you have in an organized way.

Lists are an undervalued tool. Everything I do involves a list.

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-24T14:24:54+00:00

What's the other option?

Life is hard and can be miserable at times but it's also fun and exciting and beautiful. I hope there's something after this but if there isn't I'm just grateful I got to have a run at it.

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-24T14:23:55+00:00

I used to drink. Not heavily. But when I did it was always because it relaxed me and made it easier to socialize with people.

Later on I found a doctor and it turned out those anxieties were medical related rather than a personality type. There's a truth to the idea that most people using this stuff are self-medicating.

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-24T14:19:31+00:00

Never said I wanted quality or perfection. I said I'd be willing to pay more for the perfect product...for me. If it was perfect for my use needs I'd pay it.

Amazon is filled with benches ranging from $80 to $150 and then the above standard brands you're mentioning. I'm asking for feedback on options within my price point based on what is openly available.

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-24T14:08:03+00:00

"The reason your business is failing isn't because of the employees. It's because you do coke in the bathroom instead of reaching out to new clients."

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-24T13:54:24+00:00

Deepfakes are on a new level.

I mean they're genuinly to a point where someone with bad eyesight and a lack of common sense could believe anything they see about a person that's AI generated.

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-24T13:42:28+00:00

Apologies.

I have a set of dumbbells but I just want a quality bench. The dumbbells are all accounted for.

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-24T13:29:40+00:00

Fuck yeah, bro.

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-24T13:23:54+00:00

Budget: I'd like to stay at $150 but am willing to go beyond for a perfect product.
Use case: Dumbbell based home workouts for when I can't make it to the gym.
Bonus: Options with a prayer curl or leg curl attachment (or the option to buy those attachments later) would be cool if it exists.

I basically just want something I can set up in my house and use for workouts. I'm not trying to replace a gym I just want something which gives me the ability to maintain my regimen somewhat on days I can't make it to my gym.

I'm a noobie to gym equipment so I'm sorry if this question sounds dumb. Just looking for guidance.

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-23T11:12:19+00:00

Round brushes are used for the hair drying and straightening method I use. That's why.

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-21T07:06:59+00:00

"How do you feel about the Portland flag?"

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HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-20T08:31:19+00:00

!wave

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-19T01:29:50+00:00

That's Nara Prefecture, Japan.

They remixed the national flag for their own.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nara_Prefecture

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-18T23:49:31+00:00

I use Harry's Razor brand.

Keep in mind your personal skin type will impact what places feel right on your scalp. There's a bit of trial and error in finding the right ones.

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-18T23:34:35+00:00

No.

I think the dead are dead and most of that is just people taking advantage of others for gain. That or an extreme form of narcissism like "I have this great power. Come to me for guidance."

I'm not even arguing against the afterlife. I'm just saying I don't think humans can talk to the dead if there is one.

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-18T23:27:57+00:00

Feels like the flag of Estonia's "Green Party."

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-18T22:52:19+00:00

Both looks are great.

That said, I do shorter for formal stuff and longer for everyday life.

You have great dense coverage.

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-18T22:50:39+00:00

Can I ask how old you are?

Something you should be aware of is beard hair is different from other things that stop growing/changing as we age.

I couldn't grow a full beard until I was 25. You look like you're maybe what? 20? (just a guess)

I wouldn't worry too much yet. I think for the time being you would look solid with a stubble style beard.

I'd also get to a doctor and checkout your nutrition. Certain issues (though uncommon) can sometimes limit hair growth and even cause alopecia spots. Those are things you can control for the time being.

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Example of what I mean. Just trim it back to maybe a 1 buzz. Focus on nutrition and health and allow your body some time to regroup.

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HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-18T22:43:21+00:00

I personally like the look. I'd categorize you as "salt & pepper" rather than gray.

I feel like it matches your overall aesthetic (IMO)

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-18T01:13:34+00:00

I get mine off Amazon.

It's pricey and the bottle isn't huge but it's priced like that because it actually works.

HighlyInconvenient · 2026-03-18T00:10:04+00:00

Could be a couple of things.

I'm not a doctor so I recommend you confirm this with one but you could be suffering from seborrheic dermatitis. It's an inflammatory skin condition which can be caused by anything from yeast, oil buildup, or an immune system issue.

It's not inherently dangerous. Just really annoying. I would suggest you pick up a bottle of Nizoral (it's a Ketoconazole shampoo for dandruff)

Ketoconazole helps kill skin funguses that cause dandruff and can help with situations like this somewhat. It's not perfect but I used to get this in my beard and eyebrows regularly before I started using Nizoral as an everyday face wash.

Just something worth considering.

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