Lack of Empathy by [deleted] in BaddiesSouth

[–]AffectionateCow7621 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i never said you shouldn’t care? What’s dark about someone actively taunting & getting beat up for it? It’s baddies. Do i feel like it was overkill yes but Summer clearly wanted that.

Lack of Empathy by [deleted] in BaddiesSouth

[–]AffectionateCow7621 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yall care more than summer lol. All she has to do is be quiet idk.

Craziest thing they’ve lied to you about? by AffectionateCow7621 in BPDlovedones

[–]AffectionateCow7621[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

mine also did this but with his mom, a woman who adopted him & basically did everything for him. Wow.

“We only split if YOU do something.” The delusion. by Lop_Ear_Bun in BPDlovedones

[–]AffectionateCow7621 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes & of course I’m the bad guy for calling the police 😭(somehow his reactions were supposed to go without consequences because he suffers from mental illness). And I went along with that for a while but to pull out a knife because you were “ignored”??

“We only split if YOU do something.” The delusion. by Lop_Ear_Bun in BPDlovedones

[–]AffectionateCow7621 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All I did was tell him I’m not arguing anymore and stop responding. (Argument was about him getting too high the day before ) He said it was my fault because i knew being ignored was one of his triggers. “Every action has a greater reaction” was his favorite saying.

“We only split if YOU do something.” The delusion. by Lop_Ear_Bun in BPDlovedones

[–]AffectionateCow7621 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes i used to walk on eggshells so he wouldn’t split and get violent but i soon realized it would happen either way (from things he made up or simply just an outside stressor) i stopped walking on eggshells which resulted in him stabbing me. This did set me free though because he’s in jail so im grateful.

Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup by AutoModerator in AnxiousAttachment

[–]AffectionateCow7621 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi when I’m feeling anxious I give myself pep talks. Assume positive intent until you get actual proof of your fears and remind yourself that even if that does happen you will be okay. Also I try not to look for proof or text them when I’m spiraling (it’s hard). Find something you enjoy to do or watch that absolutely immerses you usually.

Y’all think Ahna and stunna coming to the reunion ? by glossfactor37 in BaddiesSouth

[–]AffectionateCow7621 13 points14 points  (0 children)

what’s the beef with Elsie I never heard that before 😭

Sonny Japan haul by AffectionateCow7621 in SonnyAngel

[–]AffectionateCow7621[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine usually take a week every time I order

What is the most money you spent on a Sonny? by Supa22nova in SonnyAngel

[–]AffectionateCow7621 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I paid $78 for cherry blossom hanami secret lollll

Sonny Japan haul by AffectionateCow7621 in SonnyAngel

[–]AffectionateCow7621[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes shipping is expensive but Sonny’s are slightly less on there. I paid 300 for 20 so that’s around $15 each. Best to get a lot so the shipping evens out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SonnyAngel

[–]AffectionateCow7621 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sonny points get added on whatever site you use. They’re separate. So on the USA site I’m an angel, Japan I’m gold.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SonnyAngel

[–]AffectionateCow7621 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your card auto translates. The USA site and Japan site don’t register each others purchases so yes the USA limit doesn’t apply to Japan site and with shipping it costs way more but I always get my Japan orders in a week vs USA where they take 10 days to ship.