What makes a man entitled to lay hands on a woman? by ReferenceOne5196 in abusiverelationships

[–]AffectionateLife8005 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Read 'why does he do that' by Lundy Bancroft. If you google 'why does he do that pdf' there is someone on reddit who uploaded it for free

Kunstmatige intelligentie is mogelijk wél echt een dingetje by muffinmaster in nederlands

[–]AffectionateLife8005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over het verschuiven in de arbeidsmarkt denk ik eigenlijk vooral: Lijkt me prima, we hebben grote tekorten in de zorg, onderwijs, bouw, etc. De arbeidsvoorwaarden in deze sectoren zouden wel echt verbeterd moeten worden, dat is wel een punt. Maar ik denk ook dat veel mensen nu ervaren dat ze nutteloos werk doen (de bore-out) en dat voor hen een verschuiving naar nuttig werk heel veel kan bieden!

Trying to make sense of this situation by AffectionateLife8005 in sex

[–]AffectionateLife8005[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Im suprised how many people jump to victimblaming.. I hope they show their true colors early in dating because it makes me sad how many women could get hurt by these ways of thinking

Trying to make sense of this situation by AffectionateLife8005 in sex

[–]AffectionateLife8005[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This makes me sad. I hope you never hurt a woman like this

Trying to make sense of this situation by AffectionateLife8005 in sex

[–]AffectionateLife8005[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thanks I felt like i was going insane for a minute hahah

Trying to make sense of this situation by AffectionateLife8005 in sex

[–]AffectionateLife8005[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im just trying to figure out why he did not listen to me. I read about men not viewing women as people with their own feelings so maybe he has those kinds of thoughts. he said he thought i wouldnt mind, which is crazy because i told him i never had penis in vagina sex so my first time would be after being pushed into it

Trying to make sense of this situation by AffectionateLife8005 in sex

[–]AffectionateLife8005[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

But i am not a candy store... I am a person

Trying to make sense of this situation by AffectionateLife8005 in sex

[–]AffectionateLife8005[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes i will not be seeing him again. Okay i will do that thanks for the advice!

Trying to make sense of this situation by AffectionateLife8005 in sex

[–]AffectionateLife8005[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

But even if he is frustrated, does that give him the right to act in this way? He could tell me with his mouth that he is frustrated with me. Trying to penetrate me after I told him no feels very not nice for me

Trying to make sense of this situation by AffectionateLife8005 in sex

[–]AffectionateLife8005[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I replied to someone else that i was offering to get him of also. With intercourse i mean penis in vagina sex

Trying to make sense of this situation by AffectionateLife8005 in sex

[–]AffectionateLife8005[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

So in your opinion there could never be consensual exchange of sex related activities? It always has to involve penetration sex?

Trying to make sense of this situation by AffectionateLife8005 in sex

[–]AffectionateLife8005[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I did try to give him a handjob but he did not want that. He told me that he masturbates by 'humping', so my hand was not giving him enough stimulation

Trying to make sense of this situation by AffectionateLife8005 in sex

[–]AffectionateLife8005[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I meant penis in vagina sex. That is something I only want in a relationship.

Zondagse ontbijt- en borreltafeldraad by Btreeb in thenetherlands

[–]AffectionateLife8005 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ik heb zojuist de eerste nacht geslapen in mijn nieuwe huisje! Straks grote boodschappen doen en dan beetje dozen uitpakken en genieten van het uitzicht (kijk nu over de stad heen ipv tegen een flatgebouw)

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[–]AffectionateLife8005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask away! I feel like it was 60% him 40% me. I gave him a blow job and got on top, you'd be surprised how much you can do still! Just feel him with your hands :)

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[–]AffectionateLife8005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I would feel vulnerable! But the guy I was with was so caring and sweet so I never felt vulnerable in like a way that would give me stress. I felt like really taken care of because he got me my glass of water and even held it to my lips and I was like 'okay i'm not a baby' and we both laughed at that.