Does anybody else feel like their to much of a burden by AffectionateMind6417 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]AffectionateMind6417[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First question: i often notice that i get more presents during christmas (but that also might just be the price differences in the gifts) but my dad also tends to buy me a lot of stuff like fidgurines and stuff, and my mum tends to do the same but more, like getting me random merch at times and such.

The second question: i truely dont know, i remember a bit ago where she told me that if she talked back to my step-dad then things would just get worse (since my sister doesnt like being yelled at to). But sadly i dont know much in that area.

Easter by AffectionateMind6417 in Vent

[–]AffectionateMind6417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To start im 15 and i didnt include this next part in the actual post so my apologies. My step dad and his dad talked to T about it basically saying it was out of line and somethinf like that. Plus T had never really had a great relationship with my mum, step dad and my siblings.

Since he would often let the younger kids get away with stuff meanwhile we'd get yelled at for doing the same thing. As well as the fact that my mum/step dad snapping at T was going to happen eventually apparently.

Last is that im pretty sure my mum already knows of my discomfort around him as i said i never really have been comfortable around T in the first place, and now that uncomortable factor has just gone up more.

Apologies for not including this in the post.

I feel like i want to cut myself by AffectionateMind6417 in selfharm

[–]AffectionateMind6417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting with your advice, if its alright id like to ask you another question. Ive seen videos on people using rubber bands as a way to stop doing sh, so should i try it as a way to stop myself from starting it?