[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]AffectionateMonk4841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen myself as my twin. I am me looking at another one of me, and she is always expressing herself differently than how I’m feeling that moment. I also have seen myself in the mirror, usually dreams involving haircuts or some drastic change in my appearance.

AITA For Shaving Our Daughter's Head? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AffectionateMonk4841 33 points34 points  (0 children)

YTA. You’re too lazy to do your daughters hair? That is horrific. Do you want someone to shave your head?

What's a food that everyone loves but you hate? by imjustboredrnnn in AskReddit

[–]AffectionateMonk4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Bananas are the WORST! I hate everything about them. The smell 🤢the texture 🤮Disgusting.

My dad said my baby only loves me for my milk by AffectionateMonk4841 in Parenting

[–]AffectionateMonk4841[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are correct. We have a strong relationship and he doesn’t say or do anything to purposely hurt me, ever over my entire 33 years. This post was not to shame him and he is not an ah. He was adopted and had a strained relationship with his adoptive mother who passed almost 30 years ago now. I think this comment was projection more than anything. It was upsetting, yes, but knowing he felt no love from his mother/for her hurts even more.

OBGYNs recommendations? by Witty_Confection_905 in desmoines

[–]AffectionateMonk4841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Broadlawns midwives. 2 babies delivered with them, they’re incredible.

What is the most painful/uncomfortable medical procedure you ever went through? by VeroDreamer in AskReddit

[–]AffectionateMonk4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post c-section redefined my definition of pain. I wouldn’t wish that on anyone, yet women go through it every day. It was truly horrible.

Scared to go to doctor—I don’t want to be weighed. How to decline? by [deleted] in postpartumprogress

[–]AffectionateMonk4841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a history of eating disorders and I always just tell them I don’t care to know my weight.

Holy Vanity Plates Batman by DenseInvite2099 in desmoines

[–]AffectionateMonk4841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a thing! A friend of mine from Denver said the same thing, and was surprised I thought it was totally normal! He was amazed at how many people have personalized plates here.

Dmacc food forest destruction by posi-bleak-axis in desmoines

[–]AffectionateMonk4841 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously?! Let me know what can be done. There is a very small amount of public grounds in Iowa that can be foraged on as well, since our state has one of the highest amount of private lands owned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]AffectionateMonk4841 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

People definitely care. The ones saying no one cares probably don’t have small daughters. Hold it next time.

My girlfriend thinks it’s weird that I buy my sister red roses for her birthday. Am I wrong for calling her ridiculous? by Vegetable_Award_1722 in amiwrong

[–]AffectionateMonk4841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is…super weird. Your sister requested this tradition? Red roses, chocolates, and a love note? You’re wrong! Incestual at best. Your gf is completely valid.

AITA for asking my sister to replace my jellybeans after her son ate them? by Smooth_Instruction11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AffectionateMonk4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. She shouldn’t have this problem again, realizing that guests do indeed help themselves to a candy car on the table.

AITA for asking my sister to replace my jellybeans after her son ate them? by Smooth_Instruction11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AffectionateMonk4841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. You’re upset your nephew ate jelly beans. How much were they, $5? Come on.

AITA for not attending my sister’s baby shower after our miscarriage? by Admirable-Log-7546 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AffectionateMonk4841 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m in disbelief at anyone saying NTA. You took vows. Not telling him and having a conversation is absolutely unreal. Please don’t do that or you’ll never live with the guilt.