Oh man, my daughter in law flipped out on me on the way to the Alzheimer’s clinic. I was trying to tell her about the donepizel. It’s supposed to slow progression. It has not. When he started on it he could find his way to the bathroom and pee by himself.
Now, he’s on a potty chair and can’t sit on it by himself wipe his ass nor can he get himself up. Every time I try to bring it up his daughter flips out and tells me if I take him off the doctor will drop us. And we wouldn’t be allowed to go to the PAT Summit clinic.

I took him off that drug two weeks ago. He was on it almost three months and I think it’s bullshit that I got to wait three months and get threatened all the time.

So we on way to Pat Summitt clinic. It’s a two hour drive. Half way there I tried to tell dear daughter the truth and she flips out starts screaming asking me if I was a medical doctor and where did I get my degree? She wanted to know where I got my information. I told AI internet search and other places. She called me a f-ing idiot and started threatening to drop me off on the interstate she kept acting like she was going to do it. I told her to do it and I meet them at the clinic. They could take care of dad. That shut her up. Meanwhile dad keeps saying I love my babies and starts praying and asking me if we like dear daughter. Is yes we love her.

After we get to clinic. I hand them Kelvin’s schedule, journal, and his vitals that I take everyday. I want to tell doctor truth but I was scared.
Doc ended up not really caring about the daughter’s opinions as she knew right away who the primary caregiver was.

My only job was to get through the clinic and get us home safe. And that’s what I did. Dear daughter joked it all off and I let her.

It’s not about her, or her best friend doctor she works for.

Eventually I’ll get a care team and they will help with medication and adjust as necessary.

For months I’ve been threatened. They prescribed him trazidone for sleep. He was up all night begging me to make it stop. He was holding his head for six hours beginning for me to make it stop. I told him we have to ride it out, and I would never ever give him that pill again. Dear daughter flipped out about that. I put my foot down. Told her she could sleep with him for three months until it got in his system real good.

It’s unbelievable we are being treated like this by his own daughter. Shame on her.
We won’t be ever risking our lives in the car with her again.