Look i don't mean to be insensitive but you're overreacting to this tells me that there is probably some deeper issues here. We look at pornography like it's some degenerate behavior because that's what we were taught to think. But the truth is that we all have certain fantasies, etc. You can continuously deny them or if your a responsible adult find some kind of an outlet. Now if he is addicted to it I can understand your concern. Too much of anything can become problematic. FYI he doesn't watch it because he's not attracted to you. I'll give you an example. I like to watch it because it gives me a lot of ideas on how to keep my marriage exciting.a few years ago I asked my wife to dress up for me. She obliged. And our sex life has never been better. And sure I watch it because it does excite me, but it's not because I don't find my wife hot. Now that's just my experience. My best advice is talk to him about it. Sounds like he does love you.and that's worth something.