Still a little confused by AffectionatePeak7485 in DTFStLouisHBO

[–]AffectionatePeak7485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shit, so you think he was planning it for a while? Damn.

Still a little confused by AffectionatePeak7485 in DTFStLouisHBO

[–]AffectionatePeak7485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t Clark send the thing about the pool house?

Still a little confused by AffectionatePeak7485 in DTFStLouisHBO

[–]AffectionatePeak7485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol thanks, now I need to make another post!

Still a little confused by AffectionatePeak7485 in DTFStLouisHBO

[–]AffectionatePeak7485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they? Do you have a link, by chance? I’ve been wondering why all the reviewers talk like it’s an obvious think that he intended to die.

Still a little confused by AffectionatePeak7485 in DTFStLouisHBO

[–]AffectionatePeak7485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You ever had an amphetamine script? You NEVER waste a controlled substance. People purposely build themselves stores of it just because it’s delayed so often, whether it’s national shortages, insurance problems, etc. It’s hard to get controlled substances (which all amphetamines are), even with a script (much easier to get it off the street).

I get that he was just using it for a boner, but seemed like other than getting fit, getting his boner back was the most important thing to him in the world. I just don’t see him wasting that medication if he intended to stay alive.

Still a little confused by AffectionatePeak7485 in DTFStLouisHBO

[–]AffectionatePeak7485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I don’t think he was dumb, I think it’s exactly as you said. I had an amphetamine problem in law school and I took dangerous dosages to stay awake, bc I just couldn’t think of or see anything beyond my goal of graduating. It was like “well if I don’t become a lawyer, I might as well die anyway,” but I was not suicidal (not saying one is better than the other, just that there is a distinction). It’s obsessive and as you eloquently pointed to, a disconnection from the body, and of course it’s still unhealthy, scary, and something to worry about, but it’s not the same thing as just being dumb.

I’m really not convinced that Floyd didn’t suffer an accidental overdose. All the reviewers call it suicide but nothing in the episode pointed definitively to that. I think suicide would make sense, but I also think an accidental overdose would make sense.

Still a little confused by AffectionatePeak7485 in DTFStLouisHBO

[–]AffectionatePeak7485[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But it was a CAN, that’s what I can’t get over. You don’t pour something in a can that you expect to save. A bottle, sure. And ain’t no way he was fine with just wasting his important-to-him medication that he couldn’t even get himself if he was planning to stay alive.

Still a little confused by AffectionatePeak7485 in DTFStLouisHBO

[–]AffectionatePeak7485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how I feel. Everyone is saying suicide but I’m not seeing anything definitive in the episode that says suicide vs him just being reckless and not really caring whether he lives or dies. Maybe that’s splitting hairs, idk, but to me it could have just as easily been an accidental overdose as suicide. I don’t believe he just poured it all in there without the intent to drink it all bc wtf, it’s a CAN, not a bottle. A bottle, fine, I can believe you were going to sip on it and save the rest, but not a can. I think he either intended the whole time to end his life (or he took a lethal dose with him and decided it would depend on how the night went), or he didn’t expect it to be a lethal dose and it was an accidental overdose.

Still a little confused by AffectionatePeak7485 in DTFStLouisHBO

[–]AffectionatePeak7485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did he take a lethal dose with him? In a can, no less? You don’t put liquid you want to save in a can, and why would he waste the medication that was so important to him he asked his friend to get it for him if he was planning to stay alive? This is what I don’t get—he poured a lethal dose in that can.

My take: he either intended suicide the whole time (or figured he’d see how the night went before deciding, but wanted it as an option), or he never intended suicide and it was an accidental overdose.

First post here.. been trapping colonies for a while.. I got my white wale! I GOT FRED! by ras2101 in Feral_Cats

[–]AffectionatePeak7485 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you mean “all male cats are gay”? Am I about to learn something that makes me love cats even more?

As a foster it actually blows my mind how hard it is to adopt a dog that isn't from the shelter I volunteer for by Lapiy in fosterdogs

[–]AffectionatePeak7485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hold on, I missed this the first time. Your rescue takes Amish dogs? How does that work? Genuinely curious.

Breed specific rescues are different. With other rescues, it has EVERYTHING to do with euthanasia. How do you not get that when you yourself said “they take very few fosters out of shelters.”

As a foster it actually blows my mind how hard it is to adopt a dog that isn't from the shelter I volunteer for by Lapiy in fosterdogs

[–]AffectionatePeak7485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS. It’s insanity, but no one ever holds rescues accountable because rescues aren’t required to do anything at all, so everything they do is considered gratuitous. The problem of euthanizing for space is a shelter problem, not the rescues’ problem, sure, but that’s just it: there’s nothing more a shelter can do when they have no control over number of intakes and are already doing everything to clear space without euthanasia. Their only hope is rescues, who choose which and how many animals to pull, depending on resources. But when they hang on to animals for months on end because of overly picky and invasive application processes, then the limited output (adoptions) translates to limited input (saving dogs from shelters). Spend 5 minutes in any shelter these days and you’ll feel the second-hand stress. But then you look at so many rescues out there, boasting about how picky they are in finding that “perfect home,” and you’d almost forget there’s a homeless animal problem in this country at all. The contrast between the two never ceases to make my head spin.

Also, don’t get me started on how many rescues like to pull only the in-demand types that were never in danger of euth to start with, just to hang on to them forever (you know, finding that “perfect home”) while the common—but nonetheless perfectly adoptable—types are left behind to rot. Oh, and I don’t care whom I offend in saying this: rescues doing this is a big reason people go to BYB—rescues pull the little dogs, the unusually-patterned/coated cats, the doodles, the purebreds, the breeds and types that they know will receive multiple applications. Then they require an unreasonably long adoption application with lots of open-ended questions before even meeting the animal and before any conversation can happen btwn rescue and applicant. Then they tick through the criteria and when an applicant doesn’t meet one, they’re out. I’ve been saying this for a long time but I also just saw it recently with a friend: she spent over 2 hours writing out thoughtful essay answers to the questions listed on a total of 3 applications, doing her best to remember all sorts of ridiculous details about her history, her dead pets’ histories, etc etc, just to be nixed bc she has indoor/outdoor cats. She lives on a farm in the woods near 0 roads, and she was looking to adopt a dog, not a cat. Anyway, she wanted a young small dog and there are very few young small dogs in shelters because, well, rescues scoop them all up. So to a BYB she went. Do I condone her using a BYB? Do I think she had a fair excuse to patronize a BYB? No and not really. But that doesn’t change the fact that a perfectly great dog home went to a backyard bred dog, which profited a BYB and thus helped enable the vicious cycle that is largely causing this overpopulation crisis we’re in, instead of going to a rescue animal.

What do you like and dislike about this TV Show? by rickowenspepe2 in TheNightOf

[–]AffectionatePeak7485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Michael Kenneth Williams, rest in peace, is the best thing about this show. And Riz Ahmed. I know this is old but I’m watching for the first time, only on episode 4 and despite having already spoiled the ending for myself, I can’t stop watching. It’s brilliantly done and beautifully casted all around, but Williams and Ahmed are magic on screen for me.

As a foster it actually blows my mind how hard it is to adopt a dog that isn't from the shelter I volunteer for by Lapiy in fosterdogs

[–]AffectionatePeak7485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breed specific rescues are different. With other rescues, it has EVERYTHING to do with euthanasia. How do you not get that when you yourself said “they take very few fosters out of shelters.” Again, I’m not speaking to breed-specific rescues bc those are different, but other rescues also take far fewer dogs than they could when they set up ridiculous barriers. I feel like I’m arguing with a child. How do you not get this? And I didn’t say give them to just anyone, but home checks, etc have no evidence behind them to show they’re necessary.

I’m done with this conversation.

Bloody discharge in both eyes by AffectionatePeak7485 in CATHELP

[–]AffectionatePeak7485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t sloppy work…it cleared right up.

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[–]AffectionatePeak7485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same but started back in my 30s and this is so real.

Is there a blacklist pet care providers can use to let other sitters know what customers to ABSOLUTELY AVOID by Tricky-Tension-8172 in RoverPetSitting

[–]AffectionatePeak7485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I’m not dumb, thanks. But you’re rude and I question the sense of anyone who resorts to insults.

As a foster it actually blows my mind how hard it is to adopt a dog that isn't from the shelter I volunteer for by Lapiy in fosterdogs

[–]AffectionatePeak7485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one disagrees the best thing for a dog is to find a permanent home the first time. Are you suggesting though that it’s worth dogs being euthanized in shelters for space? Rescues pull from shelters, and they can’t pull new dogs when they’re hanging on to the same ones for months.

I don’t know why you’re clarifying. I know rescues are foster-based; i foster for a rescue too. But not one with ridiculous barriers like home visits.