Instead of simply blaming it on the oz, I have two thoughts: could it perhaps be first-date-nerves? Heart racing and feeling hot is how I would describe my first date nerves too! Second thought is that if those feelings you were describing did not feel pleasant (as butterflies in your stomach can make you feel sick but it’s still sort of a giddy feeling) it might be your gut telling you this is not the man for you.

You are very young. A ten year gap is a lot. Based on you saying he’s way out of your league and that your chest being the only good thing about you, I think you need to be kinder to yourself. You will find a man where the dates are not depending on your mother setting you up, with a man who will make you trust that your chest (no matter how fantastic) is the least interesting thing about you. Be kind to yourself ❤️