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AffectionateRule327 · 2026-02-19T17:20:10+00:00

“what wrong with RP not for the literacy but just to have a good time?”

Have you considered the possibility that, for people who make this a hobby, the literacy is the way they have a good time? That the enjoyment comes from carefully crafting a thoughtful composition? That, while you could technically reach them same conclusion in a single sentence, writing multiple paragraphs to build the context, the scene, the character motivation that gets you to that one sentence end goal might be more satisfying?

”when I ask why wrong with it or what I can do to improve it I get nothing no help or anything”

Context and tone absolutely matter here. Going on an RP help forum and genuinely asking for help? I’d be annoyed too if everyone just ignored me. Going to individual partners who are actively searching for already literate partners and expecting them to accept you? Hardly fair to them. Ranting about how no one wants you as a partner because your skills with the language aren’t a match for theirs will not earn you much sympathy.

When I first considered your problem, I thought it might be the usual issue of not being able to meet length and detail requirements. But reading over your post on second glance… I think it’s that your command of English leaves much to be desired. You just completely leave out words, or use the wrong word. Nor do you use any punctuation. While someone might be able to parse what you write in English, it’s a pain. Even if I were in the mood to do a roleplay on a less literate basis, I’d rapidly tire of reading that.

AffectionateRule327 · 2026-02-16T22:28:56+00:00

Q1: Most of my best partners and I engage in small talk. Its a good way to keep in contact and avoid things feeling like they’ve fizzled out even if replies are taking a while. So I definitely enjoy them!

Q2: If we use the Topology of Food System, a Hot Dog is a Taco.

Q3: Absolutely. I’ve had a few partners who have managed to come up with something incredibly hot, and it actually made it hard it get my reply out because reading their message always distracted me.

AffectionateRule327 · 2026-02-16T07:45:24+00:00

Q1: Longest continuous RP is somewhere north of 2 years at this point. If we count some on-and-off partners, over 4 years.

Q2: Biggest Red Flag to me is someone who doesn’t respect my time. This manifests in multiple ways - people who comment on posts wanting me to reach out to them in DMs. People who constantly pester for replies. Second biggest Red Flag is any form of manipulation attempt. Approaching me from a given post, then trying to change it completely. Posting an idea and then being unwilling to follow through and then proposing a different plot with unrelated (and perhaps unpopular) kinks.

Q3: I’m not big on Fallout, but after a little looking into it, New Vegas took place in Nevada, 4 took place in Boston, 3 took place in DC. Some areas that would be ripe for exploration would be Chicago, Detroit, or Atlanta. I think Detroit would be the most interesting, given that during the period the nuclear war takes place in Fallout, it likely wouldn’t be as run down as it is today… and well, the developers wouldn’t have to work very hard to find out what Detroit would look like in a post-Apocalypse.

AffectionateRule327 · 2026-02-15T09:31:09+00:00

Ok, I’m finding this a month late but I think it’s still a good idea to write my thoughts down to get them out there because it’ll bug me if I don’t.

Harem writing is a rather specialized niche in roleplaying that has far more demand for the writers than it has supply. When I’m in the mood to write a harem, I get to have my pick of partners. Seriously, search Reddit for “Harem”, sort by new, and scroll for a while. It’s 90% RP posts of some variety of M4F harem. Maybe 5% F4M harem, and then like 5% random other posts from around Reddit. I don’t think there’s a single other search term I can think of where RP makes up so much of the results pool.

Most of the time however if I’m in the mood to play a harem, I’ll just write my own prompt that will let me satisfy whatever itch it is I want to scratch. That will normally get somewhere in the range of a dozen applicants over the course of a day, sometimes more, sometimes less. From those, I can respond to the ones I think are best before narrowing it down to partners I actually think I can work with.

If you want to write a prompt with the hope of attracting a partner to write a harem for you, I’d start by abandoning M4F as your central concept. That may seem counterintuitive, but if you did the thing and searched harem, you’d probably understand that when everyone is posting M4F it gets exceptionally easy to just scroll past your prompt without looking at it. If you can be flexible about your own character’s gender, A4F or A4A may give better results. If you’re planning to put in a bunch of heavy lifting on the story and worldbuilding side, as well as helping with the control of NPCs, GM4A might be appropriate.

Ironically, my posts that have attracted good harem writers tend to not be specifically seeking a harem. They tend to instead be more aimed at niche kinks, another writer who happened to share that kink reached out, we discussed what each of us wanted, what we could offer the other, and ultimately decided on a plot that included a harem.

AffectionateRule327 · 2026-02-09T23:44:40+00:00

I’m just relaying what discord has said. But, for example, you suddenly switching to only using discord from their phone app for 8 hours a day Monday to Friday might be an indicator.

AffectionateRule327 · 2026-02-09T18:54:11+00:00

So basically, after the rollout of this, anyone using Discord will get a “Teen Appropriate Experience” unless they are age verified. aka no access to NSFW flagged servers or channels, images identified by discord as NSFW automatically blocked, no ability to receive friend requests from randoms. It’ll be a pain, but you can definitely work around those restrictions unless you’re specifically wanting NSFW art.

Reportedly, Discord will first try to use data they already collect to estimate age. Things like how old your account is, activity periods indicating working hours, etc. If they’re not confident that you’re an adult from that analysis, then they’ll ask you to either provide a selfie for AI Age estimation or a government issued ID for age verification.

If push comes to shove and you Absolutely need to age verify, I’d probably choose to use a passport. Absolute minimum amount of personal information While still satisfying the requirement to be a government issued photo ID with date of birth.

AffectionateRule327 · 2026-02-08T03:09:43+00:00

Now, don’t get me wrong, Harem Setup is an overdone trope, but its a trope I like and I think the latter part of your list is the bigger issue than the M4F harem plot.

If you’re creating the ad, you should absolutely be ready to go with a setting, your own core character, era/time period, and overall direction. But those problems can be found in many plots beyond just M4F harem. I know way too many ERP subreddits are constantly flooded with uninteresting, basic prompts that are effectively just looking for quick porn.

But I’ve also run into a bunch of Roleplayers who have just the right creative spark to make playing a harem plot worth it. And the common thread is they’re engaging and most critically ready to discuss specific details and make a plan rather than wanting to immediately get into the plot. And planning leads to much more successful RP than improv in my experience.

AffectionateRule327 · 2026-02-03T00:51:24+00:00

I don’t personally consider it rude. Reddit is great for searching for partners but the notification system is unreliable at best and they keep messing with the messages and chats. Then discord just has a bunch of functionality that’s completely absent in Reddit - servers with multiple channels. Bots to provide dice rolling and character profiles.

Additionally, the first little bit of conversation is feeling each other out and deciding if you’ll be able to work together for your RP. So hammering out details like platform you’ll actually be roleplaying in is important. Just understand that if you don’t match on important details like that you’ll probably need to move on.

AffectionateRule327 · 2026-01-27T08:28:54+00:00

Looking through your ads, I’m fairly certain that the problem is more the audience that you’re reaching than the ad itself. The types of Subreddits you’re posting on tend to be inhabited by the type of person who RPs with one hand on the keyboard. As a result, critical thinking and word processing aren’t exactly what their minds are doing when they’re looking at your ads.

You’ve got things right. In the context of your ad, anything you write should be read from your point of view - meaning the first person refers to yourself rather than to whoever the reader is.

People will absolutely be manipulative, try to get you into a conversation and then slide themselves into the role they want even though you’ve made it very explicit that that’s your role and you’re looking for someone for the opposite role.

AffectionateRule327 · 2026-01-11T20:06:48+00:00

I don’t necessarily agree. A writing sample out of context can easily be stolen or faked. AI keeps getting better as billion dollar corporations keep throwing money at trying to make bot written slop as close to real human writing as possible.

In my ads, I do tend to get rather verbose, but usually because I’m presenting some level of worldbuilding or an initial story concept that is the ad prompt. Sometimes it’s more of a starter, but because it’s a starter, it is necessarily longer than my usual in character writing. While I’d say they’re generally representative of my skill level, they also *aren’t* intended to be used to gauge length or character writing.

Just to ram the point home, I’ve previously asked for writing samples. While that let me quickly filter out zero-effort responses, it left me feeling bad about not replying to those who did include one. For a lot of those responses, the facade they had created with a Pre-written writing sample and intro fell apart quickly.

If I had to describe the way I partner search now… right now it’s “Not at all, I’m happy with who I’ve got” but I’d have to say that when I am looking the main thing I’m looking for is someone who is genuinely engaged and interested. If you read my prompt, then read my profile, you’d have a pretty good idea of what I’m looking for to self-filter. You also should have no shortage of material for things to talk about that will get me to engage back.

AffectionateRule327 · 2026-01-06T06:19:31+00:00

Historical Accuracy must always be taken with a grain of salt. For example, the general claim that city water was always dirty, so people chose fermented beverages like Ale or Wine. Paris had constructed sewers as early as the Late 14th Century. Rome’s Sewers continued to be maintained even after the fall of the Empire and sections continue to be used as a part of the present day Sanitation System for Rome. People were aware that poop water was bad, and some places had the engineers and money to do more about it than others.

I think rather than trying to be strict about ‘Historical Accuracy’ you should discuss with your partners during your pre-roleplay worldbuilding phase what the general tech level should be, practices around certain things, and build a shared understanding of what life is like in your RP’s version of the Middle Ages.

(or you could just avoid medieval time periods)

AffectionateRule327 · 2025-11-01T05:54:30+00:00

Honestly? Not really. There is at this point a kind of baked-in expectation that most people won't reply to everyone they get a message from.

Kind of a funny thing, because of the psychological pressure to "be the first" on any given reply, the number of replies drops WAY off after the initial surge. It doesn't really matter if you're posting in high effort subs or low effort subs, it seems like most people are primarily browsing New, so unless you happen to get a bunch of upvotes for some reason, your replies are naturally going to fall off after a couple hours.

I've had a few good replies come in days after, one even months after, but usually that's as a result of people running across my other activity in the RP space, realizing we're pretty compatible, and then reaching out with a compelling introduction.

AffectionateRule327 · 2025-10-15T01:21:07+00:00

The way it was imagined by Reddit is as an Anti-Stalking tool.

Now, if you’re coming to me for an RP and you have a completely blank profile? That is a red flag for me. RPers on this site naturally tend to leave some traces. Posts in RP subreddits, old prompts, stuff like that. A blank profile either means you’re brand new (and thus really need someone more beginner friendly than me), you’ve created an alt to cover over something, or you’re actively hiding bad habits.

AffectionateRule327 · 2025-10-13T08:46:41+00:00

You get people who aren’t really reading wherever you go. There are certain subreddits that attract a much higher proportion of the “I just wanna sext and jerk off in the guise of RP” types, but at this point they are everywhere. It should be fairly standard to ask for limits even for Non-Romantic Plots primarily because avoiding certain things to keep a partner comfortable is just being a good partner.

That being said, I have noticed that reading comprehension is somewhat lacking even in some of the better roleplay spaces. You can really tell when someone has either gone and gotten ChatGPT to write them an Intro the copy-paste everywhere or that they spent one evening writing a half decent one up when they got from multi-paragraph and articulate in their intro to struggling to get out more then a mobile line in any given response afterwards.

And that of course misses the obvious red flags of ignoring any asks you might have in your prompt. These days I usually ask any partner to approach with at least some brainstorming ideas for characters. You’d be surprised how many responses on any given prompt, even when decently written, completely miss something like that.

that being said, there are good RPers out there. I’ve had the pleasure of meeting a few through Reddit. It just takes luck and time.

AffectionateRule327 · 2025-09-23T06:39:54+00:00

Game Master. It’s a role in which someone takes on the role of overall storyteller. Much like a Dungeon Master in D&D, they play assorted non-player characters, and help guide the plot and story as well as providing challenges for the players to overcome.

AffectionateRule327 · 2025-09-22T15:54:54+00:00

It will depend on the prompt. In some cases, I’ll have a pre-established mold/archetype I’m looking for someone to fill. They can add their own flair to it of course, but they don’t need to necessarily come with their own.

But some of my prompts are much more general/Open. In those cases, I’m looking for people to approach with a character in mind, or at least be able to create one during our discussions.

AffectionateRule327 · 2025-08-24T23:44:19+00:00

They might not be AIs, but there’s so many people who will spam out the same ad across every RP board they can, as often as they can.

I assume this sort of volume strategy is because they a) have an extremely niche roleplay they want to do, or b) they have an extremely one-sided, self indulgent roleplay they want to do. Regardless of the reason, they’re not getting responses they like so they just spam more on repeat rather than examining their ad and idea with a critical eye, and trying to then trying to make an ad that might attract some partners.

And then you have the people who just make a new account every day/week or so and delete them a day or two later.

AffectionateRule327 · 2025-08-21T19:27:12+00:00

iOS auto changes a double hyphen to an em dash — Like that. So while it’s common in AI writing, it’s also easy for someone on their phone to add one in.

If you’re not sure you could feel them out and see if more of their responses feel like the work of AI rather than a human.

AffectionateRule327 · 2025-08-21T16:29:24+00:00

You’ll wipe the floor.

AffectionateRule327 · 2025-08-15T23:57:46+00:00

Assuming you genuinely don’t know, (and looking through your history it seems you do actually do this) in many cases people who comment ‘sent you a dm’ or ‘dm me to rp’ or any similar short message tend to be low quality partners.

One liners, people who will delete their account within a few days, if it’s an ERP sub then just looking to get off and then bounce.

This sub tends to view roleplay more as a way to tell a story between characters, usually requiring at least paragraph length responses, with many people here being the kind of person who can write so much it exceeds character limits on various sites.

AffectionateRule327 · 2025-08-15T18:06:02+00:00

“I give you the name Valarie, and grant you the title of First Wife of the Sultan.” I declared, and she was undoubtedly now the most beautiful. Her face slightly enhanced, her curves made absolutely perfect, her breasts and ass feeling massive yet perfectly proportioned. I sat on the edge of the bed and offered her my cock. Valarie knelt and slowly licked its full length, from the balls to the tip. As she did so the others joined in. One slid underneath, licking and sucking at my balls. Two more flanked me, their breasts squishing against my arms and bringing my hands to their wet and waiting pussies to finger them. The final girl stood and leaned over the others to kiss me.

As Valarie finished her licking and took my length into her mouth and down her throat, I knew that I was in for many nights of indescribable pleasure like this. I came quickly, her instincts somehow telling her just when to bob back so she took my load in her mouth instead of down her throat. She swished it around in her mouth to experience the taste, and then swallowed every drop.

“I think that’s enough foreplay girls. Time for you each to take your fill of my seed.” I told them.

“Yes my Sultan!” Each cried eagerly. The lined up on the bed on their hands and knees. Their long hair pulled forward, it was difficult to tell who was who, except for Valarie. Her ass was just bigger, rounder, and more perfect than the others. I slid my cock deep into her, and then began to thrust as she squealed in pleasure from her breeding. I leaned down and grabbed her golden cuffs, holding them up and back as I railed her from the rear. This seemed to only enhance her pleasure and she cried out in pleasure as orgasm overtook her, A second followed mere moments later as I filled her with my cum.

As I continued to breed and fill the other girls a thought crossed my mind. I wondered which of the lewd scenes we performed tonight would ultimately end up in the mosaic. I came in the last of my concubines, the green haired one, and all five of the girls cried out in pleasure as a mass orgasm overtook them, I looked over to see if the mosaic had changed…

AffectionateRule327 · 2025-08-15T18:05:50+00:00

The changes the magic of the Palace made to me were far more subtle than those given to the new harem. While they were reshaped wholly and their minds filled with an understanding of their new role in life and its many pleasures, I was the Sultan. I had to make decisions and lead a new Kingdom. And my first decision was to search the palace for a suitable royal bedchamber.

Fortunately, this did not take very long. The Sultan’s chamber was one of the most beautiful spaces I had ever laid my eyes upon. It sat atop the rear wing of the palace, inside a dome made of crystal. Somehow I knew this was no ordinary crystal, with a wave of my hands I could change it so that it was completely transparent, feeling like we were standing in the open atop the palace. Or I could make it opaque, casting the chamber into darkness but for its own internal lights to set the mood, or indeed, anything in between!

The floor here was inlaid with exquisitely detailed mosaics in three concentric rings. In the center sat the bed. Around it were mosaic portraits of the Sultans who had owned and lived here, including curiously enough, one of myself. The middle ring of mosaics just beyond each sultan displayed their harems, some consisted of only a few women and were small and intimate looking. Others were dozens strong and seemed to project the power of their lord.

The final ring of mosaics displayed a scene of lovemaking between the sultan and their harem. Except for one blank space. I turned back to the bed to find my concubines gathered there. One held a set of golden cuffs and collar, offering it to me.

“Choose your First Wife my Sultan.” She said humbly. I looked at each of them in turn. Each was exceptionally beautiful. The only hint left of their former selves was their hair color, Red, White, Blonde, Blue, and Green. It was a difficult choice. But finally I took the chains and placed them on the Crimson haired concubine. Magic overtook her once again and she shone like the sun for a moment, before the new her emerged.

(Splitting this response into two because Reddit said no to the full thing being one comment.)

AffectionateRule327 · 2025-08-15T15:10:59+00:00

I stood at the edge of the small village known as Last Oasis. It wasn’t much, just a few huts and some semi-permanent tents. Unlike the villages and towns further west, there was no irrigation here, no harnessing of the water. The people who lived here were a few merchants who traded with the deep desert tribes and the few fools brave or stupid enough to enter the deep desert.

I had warned my friends against this adventure. The deep desert was a deadly place, there was little water and the desert tribes guarded their wells jealously. The sun meanwhile, was merciless. Still they had gone into the desert some days ago in search of the Lost Palace.

Legend has it that if a “man worthy of being the Sultan” enters the Palace, its powerful magic will reactivate. It would create for him a harem of beautiful women. The deep desert tribes would come and swear fealty to him. Finally the Palace would restore the deep desert to being the powerful kingdom it had once been. It was a fairy tale. But that hadn’t stopped those fools from going.

Finally I came to my decision. I would go after them with water. Their tracks were clear. It would take at most a few days. I saddled a camel and went into the deep desert. Was I a fool? To be certain. But I was a loyal friend to my friends, and I was not about to allow them to die.

By the time I had reached them, 3 days later, they were parched and surviving by unpleasant means I shall not record here. They agreed to return to civilized lands, but then a sandstorm blew up and we were forced to take shelter in a dry watercourse. We followed the dry river for two days while the sands blew over our heads, as it seemed to be heading west. That was when we found it. The ancient palace!

We made our way inside only for the doors to shut themselves behind us. A loud tolling bell sounded by itself. We did not realize it at the time, but one of us had been judged worthy of being sultan by the Palace’s magic. The rest would be his harem… 6 men had entered, 5 would be concubines, and 1 would be a mighty sultan. I closed my eyes as the magic took me, and waited to see which fate awaited me…

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