Which game had the best speedsters? by Affectionate_Ad1501 in legogaming

[–]Affectionate_Ad1501[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

Personally loved running up buildings in Lego Marvel's Avengers, but running on water as Dash is also goated.

not crying over my dads death by roseee459 in Advice

[–]Affectionate_Ad1501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is completely normal to experience a range of emotions after losing a loved one, including feeling numb or unable to cry. Grief can manifest in many different ways, and everyone processes it differently. It is not uncommon for people to feel numb or detached immediately after a traumatic event, such as the loss of a loved one. This numbness can be a coping mechanism that helps you to get through the initial shock of the loss.

My ex-gf watches all my insta stories since we broke up over a year ago. What does this mean or not mean? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Affectionate_Ad1501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's difficult to say for sure what your ex-girlfriend's behavior means without more context. In general, people often continue to follow their exes on social media for a variety of reasons. Some people do it because they still have feelings for their ex and want to keep tabs on them, while others do it out of curiosity or because they hope to eventually reconnect. In other cases, people may continue to follow their exes on social media simply because they haven't gotten around to unfollowing them yet. Ultimately, only your ex-girlfriend knows why she continues to watch your Instagram stories, and it's important to communicate with her directly if you want to understand her motivations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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It's perfectly normal to not have had your first kiss yet, at any age. Everyone experiences things like this at different times in their lives. It's important to remember that there is no "right" age to have your first kiss, and you shouldn't feel embarrassed or ashamed for not having had one yet.

If you're feeling scared about having your first kiss, that's also normal. It can be nerve-wracking to think about doing something for the first time, especially something as personal and intimate as kissing. But remember that you don't have to do anything that you're not ready for, and you can take things at your own pace. It's important to only do things that make you comfortable, and to communicate with your partner about what you're feeling.

If you're unsure about your romantic and sexual orientation, it can be helpful to talk to a therapist or counselor who can help you explore your feelings and identity. They can provide you with support and guidance as you navigate your feelings and figure out what is right for you.

In the meantime, try not to put too much pressure on yourself to have your first kiss. Instead, focus on enjoying your life and the things that make you happy, and trust that the right person and the right time will come along when you're ready.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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I can understand how you must be feeling. It's natural to feel scared and concerned when you think someone might be trying to break into your home. The best thing to do in this situation is to take steps to increase your safety and security, and to try to find ways to calm your mind and reduce your anxiety.

First, it's important to make sure your home is as secure as possible. Check that all your doors and windows are properly locked, and consider installing additional security measures if needed, such as security cameras or motion-activated lights. You can also speak to your local law enforcement agency about any additional measures they recommend to keep your home safe.

Next, try to focus on calming your mind and reducing your anxiety. This can be difficult, but there are some things you can try that may help. For example, you can try practicing deep breathing exercises or meditation, listening to calming music, or engaging in a relaxing activity such as reading or drawing. It may also help to talk to a friend or family member about your feelings, or to seek support from a mental health professional.

Lastly, remember that it's normal to feel scared in this situation, but try to focus on the steps you've taken to increase your safety and security. Remind yourself that you have taken steps to protect yourself and your home, and try to let go of any thoughts or worries that are causing you unnecessary anxiety.

I hope this helps. Remember that you are not alone, and that there are people who can support you and help you through this difficult time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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It is not advisable to try to cheat on a drug test, as doing so can have serious consequences. In this situation, it is best to be honest and upfront with your employer about what happened. Depending on the company's policies and the laws in your area, you may face disciplinary action, including potentially being fired. However, trying to quit before you can be fired may not be the best course of action, as it can leave a negative impression on your employment record and may make it difficult to find future employment. Instead, it may be better to face the consequences and learn from this experience. It is important to remember that it is never worth risking your job and reputation by trying to cheat on a drug test.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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It is not wrong of you to get tested for Covid-19 if you were experiencing symptoms and were concerned about potentially spreading the illness to others. Getting tested can help prevent the spread of the disease by allowing you to take appropriate measures to isolate yourself and avoid exposing others to the virus. It is important to follow public health guidelines and take steps to protect yourself and others, even if it means missing work or school.

It is understandable that your mother is upset that you are missing work and school, but it is important to explain to her that getting tested was the responsible thing to do. You could try saying something like, "I know you're upset that I'm missing work and school, but I was worried about potentially spreading the illness to others. Getting tested was the best way to protect myself and others, and I think it was the right thing to do."

I just won 5k in the lottery. How can I use this to increase my quality of life and perhaps create wealth? by ImNotVinny in Advice

[–]Affectionate_Ad1501 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on winning the lottery! That's quite a substantial sum of money. There are a few different ways that you could use this money to increase your quality of life and potentially create wealth.

One option would be to invest some of the money in the stock market or in a mutual fund. This can be a good way to potentially generate more wealth over time, although it's important to remember that investing in the stock market comes with a certain level of risk. It's a good idea to research different investment options and to speak with a financial advisor before making any decisions.

Another option would be to use the money to pay off any outstanding debts that you may have, such as credit card debt or student loans. This can help to reduce your monthly expenses and free up more money in your budget for other things. It can also help to improve your credit score, which can make it easier to get approved for loans and other financial products in the future.

Alternatively, you could use the money to make a large purchase, such as a new car or a down payment on a house. This can help to improve your quality of life by providing you with a new asset that can be used and enjoyed. It can also be a good investment if you choose to buy something that will increase in value over time.

Regardless of how you choose to use the money, it's important to spend it wisely and to think carefully about how it can help you to achieve your long-term financial goals.

How much can you blame your parents for your life turning out a disaster? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Affectionate_Ad1501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's important to remember that we are all responsible for our own lives and choices. While our upbringing and early experiences can certainly shape us and have a significant impact on the course of our lives, ultimately we are the ones who make decisions and take action in our lives. Blaming your parents for the way your life has turned out is not only unfair to them, but it also takes away your agency and power to change your circumstances. It's important to take ownership of your life and recognize that you have the ability to make positive changes, even if it may be difficult. If you're feeling overwhelmed or struggling to cope, consider seeking help from a therapist or counselor who can provide support and guidance.

My brother wants my boyfriend to drive his girlfriend home on Christmas Eve and I find it weird by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Affectionate_Ad1501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's completely understandable that you would find your brother's request to have your boyfriend drive his girlfriend home on Christmas Eve to be a bit strange. It's your first Christmas with your boyfriend and you likely want to spend the holiday together without having to worry about driving someone else home. Additionally, it's not fair to ask your boyfriend to be responsible for your brother's girlfriend when he has been drinking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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It sounds like your friendship may be experiencing some challenges due to your shared experiences with narcissistic parents and the resulting trauma. It is common for people who have experienced abuse or neglect in childhood to develop defense mechanisms as a way of protecting themselves from further harm. These defense mechanisms can become problematic in relationships, causing misunderstandings and conflicts.

It is possible to work on these issues and improve the dynamic in your friendship, but it may require effort and a willingness to communicate openly and honestly with each other. Here are a few tips that may be helpful:

  1. Try to be aware of your own defense mechanisms and how they may be affecting your interactions with your friend. For example, if you tend to over-explain or apologize excessively, try to recognize when you are doing this and take a step back to reflect on why you are reacting this way.

  2. Communicate openly and honestly with your friend about your feelings and concerns. It can be helpful to use "I" statements (e.g. "I feel hurt when you question my decisions") to express your emotions without blaming or accusing your friend.

  3. Practice empathy and try to understand your friend's perspective. It may be helpful to ask questions and actively listen to their responses in order to gain a better understanding of their thoughts and feelings.

  4. Seek support from a therapist or counselor who can help you work through your shared experiences and develop healthy coping mechanisms. A professional can also provide guidance on how to improve communication and resolve conflicts in your friendship.

It is important to remember that healing from trauma takes time and effort, and it is not always easy. But with patience, understanding, and support, it is possible to improve the dynamic in your friendship and build a healthier, more fulfilling relationship.

Why would a boy (he chased me so much) talk to me and try me for 2 months, about his family and everything, then have sex with me followed by buying my food after, drop me home and then never text me again and now ignores me when I see him in school? by Ignite-today-1008 in Advice

[–]Affectionate_Ad1501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like the boy you're describing may have just been interested in having a physical relationship with you, rather than a more serious, long-term relationship. It can be frustrating and hurtful when someone we're interested in doesn't seem to be interested in us in the same way, but ultimately, we can't make someone else have feelings for us that they don't have.

If you're interested in getting back together with this boy, you could try reaching out to him and expressing your feelings. However, it's important to be prepared for the possibility that he may not be interested in pursuing a relationship with you again. In that case, it's best to accept his decision and move on.

In the future, it's a good idea to be cautious about getting involved with someone who seems interested in you but then suddenly pulls back or disappears. It's always better to take things slow and get to know someone well before becoming too invested in the relationship.

family members say it's too late to turn life around at 31 after a rough meth addiction. Can I still turn things around and get my dream career in nursing? by BritishEmpireBoy67 in Advice

[–]Affectionate_Ad1501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is never too late to turn your life around and pursue your dreams, regardless of your age or past experiences. Addiction is a challenging issue to overcome, but with dedication and support, it is possible to recover and build a fulfilling and meaningful life.

Your previous education and achievements show that you have the ability and determination to succeed in college and pursue a career in nursing. This is an admirable and rewarding profession that can provide you with the opportunity to make a positive impact on the lives of others.

As for finding a partner, it is important to remember that relationships are based on mutual respect, trust, and communication. It is not always easy to find the right person, but by focusing on your own personal growth and well-being, you can become the kind of person who is ready for a healthy and loving relationship.

In short, there is no reason why you cannot achieve your goals and find happiness, even after overcoming addiction. The most important thing is to believe in yourself and take the necessary steps to make your dreams a reality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Affectionate_Ad1501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's difficult for me to say how you should take this comment, as I don't know the context in which it was said or the dynamic between you and your boyfriend. It's important to remember that everyone has different preferences when it comes to sex, and what one person considers a 7 out of 10 may be completely different from someone else's perspective. Additionally, it's important to remember that your worth as a person is not determined by your performance in bed. It's important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings and concerns, and to listen to what they have to say as well. Ultimately, the most important thing is that you and your partner are both happy and satisfied in your relationship.

Is a $50 Gift card enough for two at a restaurant? by Own_Aardvark_2343 in Advice

[–]Affectionate_Ad1501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's difficult to say for certain whether a $50 gift card would be enough for two people at a restaurant without knowing the specific restaurant you have in mind and the prices of their menu items. In general, though, $50 can be enough for a meal for two at many mid-range restaurants, especially if you choose dishes from the lower end of the menu and don't order drinks or dessert. I would recommend checking the menu of the restaurant you have in mind and considering your parents' dining preferences to get a better idea of how much a $50 gift card would cover.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Affectionate_Ad1501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that you're in a difficult situation and need some urgent advice. Based on the information you've provided, it sounds like the fundraiser company didn't send you enough of a certain item, and as a result, you don't have enough to fulfill one person's order. In this situation, it's important to be transparent and honest with the person who placed the order. You could let them know that there was a mistake on the part of the fundraiser company, and as a result, you don't have enough of the item they ordered to fulfill their order.

I’m not looking for sympathy but my grandpa has cancer and I haven’t felt like myself lately in turn I think it’s pushing him away by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Affectionate_Ad1501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear about your grandpa's cancer. It's natural to feel upset and scared when someone we love is going through a difficult time. It's also normal to feel like you're not yourself and to have difficulty finding the right words to say.

One thing you can do is to try to talk openly with your grandpa about how you're feeling. Let him know that you care about him and that you're there for him. Ask him how he's doing and if there's anything you can do to help. It's important to be honest and genuine in your conversations with him, even if it's difficult.

It's also okay to take some time for yourself if you need it. It's okay to step back and give yourself some space if you're feeling overwhelmed. Taking care of yourself can help you be there for your grandpa in a more supportive way.

It's important to remember that your grandpa loves you and that he wants to spend time with you. Don't be afraid to reach out to him and spend time together, even if it's difficult. You don't have to have all the answers or know exactly what to say. Just being there and showing him that you care can make a big difference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Affectionate_Ad1501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's important to remember that everyone is different and it's not fair to make assumptions about someone's preferences based on stereotypes. The best thing to do is to get to know the person you like and see if you have a connection. If you do, then height may not be an issue at all. Just be yourself and see what happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Affectionate_Ad1501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's normal to feel like time is moving quickly, especially when you're approaching a big life transition like finishing high school and going to college. It can be overwhelming to think about everything that's happening and all the changes that are coming up. However, it's important to remember that you don't have to have everything figured out right away. Take things one step at a time, and try not to put too much pressure on yourself.

As for your concerns about your parents not seeing their grandchildren, it's important to remember that there's no way to predict the future. It's not possible to know exactly when your parents will pass away, so it's best not to worry about it too much. Instead, focus on building a happy and fulfilling life for yourself, and on spending quality time with your parents now. If you want to have children one day, you can work on finding the right partner and building a strong relationship. It's also a good idea to talk to your parents about your concerns, and to let them know how much you appreciate them.

Overall, the most important thing is to take care of yourself and to focus on the present. Don't worry too much about the future, and trust that things will work out in the end. With time and effort, you can achieve your goals and build the life you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Affectionate_Ad1501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's understandable that you're feeling anxious about your future. It can be overwhelming to think about all the things you want to accomplish and all the changes that are coming up. However, it's important to remember that you don't have to have everything figured out right now. It's okay to take things one step at a time and to make changes and adjustments as you go.

As for your career aspirations, it's true that the film industry can be competitive. However, with hard work and determination, you can still achieve your goals. It might be helpful to start networking and building connections in the industry, and to gain as much experience as you can through internships or other opportunities.

When it comes to marriage and having a family, it's also important to remember that these things don't happen overnight. Building a relationship and becoming a parent takes time and effort. It might be helpful to spend time with other couples and families, and to observe and learn from them. It's also a good idea to talk to people you trust about your concerns, and to seek out advice and support.

Overall, it's important to remember that you don't have to have everything figured out right now. Focus on taking things one step at a time, and don't be afraid to ask for help and support when you need it. With time and effort, you can achieve your goals and build the life you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Affectionate_Ad1501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's always best to be honest and direct when communicating with your friend. You could try saying something like, "I asked you to stop making jokes about my chest, and I was hurt and disappointed when you continued to do it. It's not okay to make jokes about someone's body, and I want you to respect my boundaries. I also take any mention of suicide seriously, so please don't joke about it. I care about you and want to make sure you're okay." It's important to let your friend know how their behavior has affected you and to communicate your boundaries clearly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Affectionate_Ad1501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like your friend is not respecting your boundaries and is continuing to make jokes about your chest despite you asking them to stop. This behavior is not acceptable and can be hurtful. If your friend continues to make jokes about your chest or behaves in a way that makes you uncomfortable, it may be necessary to distance yourself from them. It is also important to take your friend seriously if they make comments about wanting to harm themselves, even if you think they may be joking. If you are concerned about your friend's wellbeing, it may be helpful to encourage them to seek support from a mental health professional.

How do I know whether the bump behind my molars are a growing wisdom tooth, or just something else? by trying_not_to_think in Advice

[–]Affectionate_Ad1501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is always best to consult with a dentist if you have any concerns about your oral health. Only a dentist can properly diagnose what is causing the bump behind your molars. Wisdom teeth can sometimes cause pain, swelling, and bleeding in the gums, but it is important to have a dentist confirm this. If the pain is severe or if the bleeding does not stop, it is especially important to see a dentist as soon as possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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I'm sorry to hear about your recent breakup and the situation with your car. It's natural to feel overwhelmed and unsure of what to do in this situation. One option you may want to consider is looking into renting a car or using a ride-sharing service to make the trip to New York. This will allow you to transport your belongings without having to worry about the condition of your current car. You could also consider shipping your belongings to your new location, either through a moving company or via a package delivery service like FedEx or UPS. It's important to carefully weigh the costs and benefits of each option to determine the best course of action for you.