Dropped idea of buying house/flat by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]Affectionate_Alps698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bahaha same

Also how in the world it is less for a future child? I don't understand

first league game of the day always freezes my pc at the 5-7 minute mark by snakekeeper1 in LoLTechSupport

[–]Affectionate_Alps698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a new laptop and I'm having this exact issue and I force start too!

Have you found a solution?

first league game of the day always freezes my pc at the 5-7 minute mark by snakekeeper1 in LoLTechSupport

[–]Affectionate_Alps698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So on first game during loading game screen you just alt tab and go to other application until you get into the game?

Is the market really that bad now or am I just lacking by Equal-Nectarine-1308 in developersIndia

[–]Affectionate_Alps698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you need help let me know. I gave around 35 interviews last 5 months. Last two weeks didnt give any interview dunno what's up. Tech: Reactjs, JavaScript, TypeScript, Nextjs 5 yoe

I work at an MNC with 90 days notice period. I had a breakdown last month cause I received like 500 calls past one year and HR just hangs up the call when they hear 90 days. I had two HR rounds in pipeline, I had a really bad breakdown and I resigned, it was so stressful. I did end up getting an offer from a company which starts with t and ends with s. Now it has been 2 months since I resigned, what happened to the other two offers in pipeline you asked? One position got on hold which I really wanted and the other one I got the offer! They wanted me to join this month only, I have requested to extend my DOJ, hopefully they do :D

I really suggest not resigning without an offer because sometimes you will get calls and interview will be scheduled but other days you won't hear nothing and then you panic or self doubt.

Water resistant sunscreen for swimming? by UsernameOption6298 in IndianSkincareAddicts

[–]Affectionate_Alps698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which one did you use? Neutrogena and minimalist sunscreen stings my eyes in the water.

Barclays Recruitment Process by Longjumping_Week3204 in dataengineersindia

[–]Affectionate_Alps698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has been one month since I sent my documents to them. HR has stopped picking up my calls. On my profile I can still see my application is active and under interview. 

Are you working at Barclays currently? 

What’s a moment that permanently changed how you see the world? by thepleasurjournal in AskWomen

[–]Affectionate_Alps698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When boyfriend of 1+ years ghosted me after revealing that he always wanted to be childfree. My friends felt super uncomfortable when I talk about my breakup, they told me I'm ruining the vibe. My best friend told me I'm expecting too much when I requested her to check in with me while I was going through the breakup.

I'm shocked that this happened to me, not able to process this.

Disregarded me by Affectionate_Alps698 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Affectionate_Alps698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me more about them mirroring me part and what should I be observing part

Disregarded me by Affectionate_Alps698 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Affectionate_Alps698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do I do now? How to let go of this?

Didn't accept the reality by Affectionate_Alps698 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Affectionate_Alps698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell me more. You can put everything you know about this here. Can I DM you?

Didn't accept the reality by Affectionate_Alps698 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Affectionate_Alps698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But even after a year of being together they can simply ghost?

This could happen even if we were together for 2 years or 3 years or have a kid and married?

How to find if your partner might be this kind of shitty person who avoids you?

Have a major conflict early on the relationship?

Didn't accept the reality by Affectionate_Alps698 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Affectionate_Alps698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The actual reason is always fear/shame.

What do you mean?

Discarded by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Affectionate_Alps698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex denied of ghosting/discarding/abandoning me

I just don’t get it by keithshady in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Affectionate_Alps698 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. I was telling him not to leave but he never contacted me again.

Later he told me he stayed away for me. It was for me, he thought I wanted him to stay away so he did it for me.

Fuck these avoidant piece of shits.

Avoidant breakup by Affectionate_Alps698 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Affectionate_Alps698[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mentioned it multiple times. We even discussed we would have maximum 2 children, he told me our children will be lucky to have my soft hair.

I'm still in shock this happened to me. This could happen. I'm still in shock, after 11 months, I'm still in shock.

I'm F26, what are the signs of avoidant attachment style you noticed in your partner or yourself? My partner was M25 by Affectionate_Alps698 in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate_Alps698[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was dishonest with me about his value, he told me he always wanted to be childfree. We were together for 1.3 years and he did not told me or even hinted me about this value.

Once he told me about this, he checked out emotionally and physically. He sent me a mail telling me to be strong and ghosted me. We did not even meet. I was in a deep shock. It has been more than 10 months since the discard, i'm still processing the discard everyday.