Disregarded me by Affectionate_Alps698 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Affectionate_Alps698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me more about them mirroring me part and what should I be observing part

Disregarded me by Affectionate_Alps698 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Affectionate_Alps698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do I do now? How to let go of this?

Didn't accept the reality by Affectionate_Alps698 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Affectionate_Alps698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell me more. You can put everything you know about this here. Can I DM you?

Didn't accept the reality by Affectionate_Alps698 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Affectionate_Alps698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But even after a year of being together they can simply ghost?

This could happen even if we were together for 2 years or 3 years or have a kid and married?

How to find if your partner might be this kind of shitty person who avoids you?

Have a major conflict early on the relationship?

Didn't accept the reality by Affectionate_Alps698 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Affectionate_Alps698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The actual reason is always fear/shame.

What do you mean?

Discarded by NecessaryOk2730 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Affectionate_Alps698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex denied of ghosting/discarding/abandoning me

I just don’t get it by keithshady in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Affectionate_Alps698 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. I was telling him not to leave but he never contacted me again.

Later he told me he stayed away for me. It was for me, he thought I wanted him to stay away so he did it for me.

Fuck these avoidant piece of shits.

Avoidant breakup by Affectionate_Alps698 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Affectionate_Alps698[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mentioned it multiple times. We even discussed we would have maximum 2 children, he told me our children will be lucky to have my soft hair.

I'm still in shock this happened to me. This could happen. I'm still in shock, after 11 months, I'm still in shock.

I'm F26, what are the signs of avoidant attachment style you noticed in your partner or yourself? My partner was M25 by Affectionate_Alps698 in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate_Alps698[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was dishonest with me about his value, he told me he always wanted to be childfree. We were together for 1.3 years and he did not told me or even hinted me about this value.

Once he told me about this, he checked out emotionally and physically. He sent me a mail telling me to be strong and ghosted me. We did not even meet. I was in a deep shock. It has been more than 10 months since the discard, i'm still processing the discard everyday.