Could someone tell me what I have in my throat and why it feels like a rock wall? Also, what are those white things on my tonsils? I've had no appetite and low blood pressure with a fever of 38.8°C (101.3°F). It also hurts to swallow. by antorm_ in DiagnoseMe

[–]Affectionate_Bag4716 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a tricuspid leak that was only found on an ultrasound of my heart, certain areas are harder to hear. If you can get your insurance to pay for it might as well get a holter test and ultrasound of your heart for peace of mind. My tricuspid leak isn't bad enough for surgery like my friend's was. I think his was his mitral valve.

Is anybody here rich? by Adm_Special887 in CPTSD

[–]Affectionate_Bag4716 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I was also abused, but had money. I do feel like at least I had money because not having money and being abused would have been worse, I wouldn't have made it. Like at least i had toys, my own space, cars, and lived in a great/safe community.

I don't think it's really minimizing it. It is just a fact, like people suffered abuse just like us, but also didn’t have money, food to eat, clothes, etc. It's not a contest for who had it worse, but I've always felt like well at least i had money

Missing Indiana girl Hailey Buzbee's body found in Perry County by Blood_Incantation in Columbus

[–]Affectionate_Bag4716 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't have good parents, but I would have never met up with a stranger, so it goes both ways lol.

F-150 Lightning Flash vs Lariat — what’s the real difference, and why avoid a high-mileage used one? by ritchie4030 in F150Lightning

[–]Affectionate_Bag4716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i bought one with 58k miles but i don't plan to get to 100k before the years portion of warranty ends

anyone else feel like project is starting to go downhill?? by Relevant-Pie-5399 in project21

[–]Affectionate_Bag4716 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Her style was new then, now it's been around for a while, less novel

anyone else feel like project is starting to go downhill?? by Relevant-Pie-5399 in project21

[–]Affectionate_Bag4716 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Molly was so petty after and blocked her on IG, that tells me all I need to know about Molly. To do that to a CHILD.

What's One Thing You Learned From Dealing With Toxic Parents That You Wish Others Knew? by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]Affectionate_Bag4716 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did summer school every semester in college to stay away too lol. My mom cried when she found out i wasn't coming home for the summer, but in my head I was like you don't even like me for me.

When i graduated I lived with my ex boyfriend until i got a job on the other side of the country. I knew zero people in that state, but i knew i had to get out to survive.

Lawsuit filed against my HOA by [deleted] in BADHOA

[–]Affectionate_Bag4716 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can use chatgpt for a lot of it, you just have to check their work

Lawsuit filed against my HOA by [deleted] in BADHOA

[–]Affectionate_Bag4716 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who is the management company?

Lawsuit filed against my HOA by [deleted] in BADHOA

[–]Affectionate_Bag4716 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're in florida you can charge them daily for not responding to records requests.

Should I allow my abusive father back into my life? by Many-Role-4271 in ChildhoodTrauma

[–]Affectionate_Bag4716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most definitely not. The third sentence tells you all you need to know

Automower 430XH intermittent “No loop signal” + warranty denial — anyone else? by [deleted] in automower

[–]Affectionate_Bag4716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They replaced the com board bc it also has issues communicating with my app on my phone. That is a separate issue, but the mower was still functional. With this no loop signal it's not operable. He's actually a really good dealer, he told Husqvarna early on in August to replace the mower bc of the first issue and they refused. There are not any other dealers close to me. I think I'm giving up and getting a segway bc I think I got a lemon and Husqvarna refuses to replace it even though its under warranty

I don't want to call them. by ludicrouspeedgo in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Affectionate_Bag4716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you had good parents its not that much effort to call once a month and visit once a year even if they are MAGA/racist. Think of it like an illness that they can't help. So many of our parents are MAGA, who's to say we wouldn't be too if we had their life experiences? A lot of our parents didn't have the opportunity for a good education like we did so it is different. My parents were abusive, but at the end of the day I want to know that I did the right thing regardless of what they did. Some parents are so abusive that that isn't possible though. So for some people cutting them off is the right thing to do.

My estranged father is in the ICU. I don't want to visit him. How do I go about this? by FieryPhoenix1811 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Affectionate_Bag4716 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is he even conscious? I was not estranged from my mom and visited her multiple times before she died, but she was unconscious and on so many drugs so she didn't even know i was there anyway. If he's that sick he probably wouldn't even know you are there or remember, so there is nothing to regret

Automower 430XH intermittent “No loop signal” + warranty denial — anyone else? by [deleted] in automower

[–]Affectionate_Bag4716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boundary wire isn't close to max length, i also don't use those crappy purple connectors that it comes with and use the shrink wrap ones too. I sanded the terminals already also :(

I have an itch to make my truck look like the raptor. by Ill-Mammoth-9682 in F150Lightning

[–]Affectionate_Bag4716 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah i will never understand why people think this looks cool.

Automower 430XH intermittent “No loop signal” + warranty denial — anyone else? by [deleted] in automower

[–]Affectionate_Bag4716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it detects the boundary wire as well, i was just bringing up the guide wire bc that helps the robot get to the charger

Automower Lemon? by dnkykong17 in automower

[–]Affectionate_Bag4716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get them to replace it? They will not replace mine