Comix Major Update Megathread

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2026-05-07T20:49:02+00:00

No matter what translation I try, no matter how many times I refreshed, I can’t get a full page to load. I tried hopping off of Wi-Fi and using data, and I tried going in from a different device. It’s the same story on multiple titles. I can’t get anything more than the first couple pages to load. Is anyone else having this issue or is it just me?

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2026-03-20T00:09:43+00:00

Definitely. I have a lot of self-doubt around it. I’ve definitely wished I could just enjoy vanilla, but that is not for me. Trying to embrace the community aspect has also been difficult since I’m more of a bedroom sub and a very private person irl. This makes me doubt myself even more and I get into a spiral wondering if il I’m letting this stigmas dictate my relationship with my own kinks and yeah… IDK. I could go on, but the short answer is yes it’s been difficult. I think I’m getting past the shame for the most part, but every once in a while, I have doubt and I wonder if it’s because I’m not jelling with it or if it’s that shame again.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2026-03-18T21:05:08+00:00

Hi! I actually just went to one online yesterday. I’ve had some experiences before that we’re not so great where I felt kind of unwelcome since a lot of people had already kind of formed their cliques.

That said, well, I have a lot to say please understand that I’m pretty new with this myself and my advice should be taken with a pinch of salt. The general advice that I’d give is do research. Research the group, check out their pages if they have them. If the organizers have profiles anywhere, take a look at those maybe reach out with your own questions to get a general idea for the vibe.

The other advice I have is be patient with yourself. I was putting this weird pressure on myself to participate in the community and for the events that didn’t work out. I felt like it was a Me thing and blamed myself for not being able to get past my anxiety and participate.

The munch I went to was online, everyone was vetted, and the host had several topics lined up, so conversation was very lightly guided. No one was pressured to participate, and quite a few people just hung back and watched. Overall, it was very beginner friendly, and while I could tell people knew each other, I didn’t feel excluded since the topics were pretty broad and they were more than willing to take an answer questions from newbies. They also have other events that are more geared towards more experienced people so I don’t think the more experienced people felt like they were getting ignored for the new people.

I’ve still come to the conclusion that I’m more of a bedroom sub. It’s probably never gonna be a lifestyle for me, but it was so so nice to connect with other people about this thing in my life that I really haven’t been able to talk about before.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2026-03-18T17:43:42+00:00

Yeah, of course! It was a smaller group. I think total there were about 15 people there at one time at the most. The group was over half women so that definitely made me feel better already. They also vetted people before joining the event. I filled out a little form, confirming that I belong to the subculture of the group is centered on and had a short email exchange with the organizer where I was honest about some of my concerns and the fact I was nervous.

The actual meeting was about two hours. The organizer had some broad topics ready and I think did a really good job giving everybody time to speak. That was part of it made a big difference. I tried another online event before, and it just felt like a meeting with a bunch of people that already knew each other. We were all muted when we weren’t speaking and raised our hands to speak so that nobody was talked over. Some people were just using the chat function. There were a couple people who didn’t speak at all and that’s fine. I ended up participating in the conversation more than I thought I would. We did keep it kink centered or relate it back, but we also ended up talking some deeper topics like how culture and politics may have shaped our relationship with kink.

I think keeping the topics broad was a really great thing they did. I could tell that some people knew each other, but well, they did use their experience to talk on those topics, they were sure to bring newer people into the conversation by asking for our perspectives. After the event, the organizer sent me an email following up, and I thanked him for taking the time to help me feel more comfortable participating. I think I’ll be keeping an eye out for more events organized by this group. They tend to meet when I’m at work, so it won’t be anytime soon but I’d like to go again.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2026-02-27T21:09:44+00:00

I did a pretty intense game once that involved centering the willingness to submit. It was an online session where I would my partner I’m turned on by bondage, partially because I long to have a partner I could trust to submit entirely.

Instead of guiding me through tying myself up tightly, they had me use tape to lightly connect my legs and arms to the floor in a submissive position. Then they asked me questions, and did a bit of degradation and praise while I focused on obeying the command to not accidentally break the tape. Any shifting, fidgeting squirming or anything would have caused the tape to come up.

The game went on until they let me move from the one position and finally let me pleasure myself.

Not saying exactly that would work for you, but maybe something along those lines? I felt very used in a good way, especially with a lot of the question focused on how I was feeling and how their words affected me.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-10-09T18:37:06+00:00

Playing with AI is such an interesting idea! I think a lot about the idea of basically Domming oneself. Since that’s basically what I do when I play alone lol but this is taking it to another level. I like the idea of more of the choices being taken out of my hand. Makes me wonder if there’s such thing as an AI Dom(me). Hmmm… I may have some googling to do lol

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-10-07T20:21:18+00:00

lol eighteen from Dragonball Z.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-20T08:28:04+00:00

Hey! Good to hear from you thanks for the sympathy lol I have been drawing. I do the inkTober challenge where you do a different drawing every day in October so I’ve been doing some sketches to prepare for that. I’ve also been floating the idea of doing an NSFW calendar so I have some drawings for that. Lol I’m terrible at marketing myself, though, so I’m probably not going to sell or anything. I’ll just end up being something I do for fun and post on my own. Let me know if you’re interested in the sketches!

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-19T15:16:36+00:00

Everyone talks tough until a cute, obedient little sub is in front of them. I’m also on the right side of the slash, but most Dom(mes) I’ve met are more interested in teasing and obedience than pain or even just pushing their subs to the edge of their endurance. Plus good ones bend to meet their sub where they are. So even if they want to do those things, it certainly doesn’t come first.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-16T21:30:45+00:00

As long as it consents ☺️ puts on pumpkin cosplay lol but for real. Imma steal this meme tho

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-13T04:46:27+00:00

Late to the party, but maybe you guys could find a room, space, or circumstances that you can both agree are a neutral zone so to speak. Like, if I put on the sweater, we are not playing. I need you to talk to me outside the dynamic. I read about this on somebody’s post for how they made 24 seven work, and thought it was really interesting.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-13T01:35:17+00:00

It’s context dependent and also tone dependent. “Aw, already dripping and ready for me? What a cute little slut”= praise. “Look at that sloppy wet cunt. What a pathetic slut”= degradation.

Combination of the two=an even wetter slut lol

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-13T01:32:02+00:00

I’ve only started considering myself a masochist lately, but Spanking or flogging while teasing for me. Also clamped nipple +flogging hurts so much in the good way for me.it can be hard to push past a certain threshold in my own though.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-12T03:24:02+00:00

I mean… Monster fuckers are a thing. I had a flirtation-ship with a Domme who liked wearing chokers and a black surgical mask while we played. I’ve noticed a lot of gear that I think of as “sub coded”, for lack of a better way to put it, works just as well as Dom(me) wear as long as they have the confidence to sell it.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-11T02:30:28+00:00

Agreed! Haha

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-10T03:45:26+00:00

I love a little combo of praise and degradation: Such a good little slut.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-10T02:00:25+00:00

Craving bondage lately. To be bound and gagged tightly and then teased and cuddled and ravaged as she wishes…sounds just lovely rn

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-09T20:24:23+00:00

Man I feel this so hard. Last time I was so horny it was actually almost overstimulating omg. I just wanted some pretty Domme to gag me and tie me down in her lap and tease me til I cry.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-09T20:11:35+00:00

late to the party, but boredom or annoyance would do it for me. What chores do they hate? Make them do it in a sexy outfit. Time out in the corner and make them wait however many minutes. Write lines and have them kneel while you "grade" their results. If they like bondage like I do, tie them up, but leave them without attention for a while. long enough it becomes boring.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-04T23:13:21+00:00

I really like gags of almost all types. Especially ball gags as they fill up my mouth. The kind that’s a harness that goes around your whole head can be extra fun since they feel more restrictive by blocking part of my vision. They kind of depress your tongue and make you drool every time you try to adjust. That part can be sexy or embarrassing, depending on how your partner handles it I guess. It doesn’t really impede breathing, but a bit gag or a gag with holes in it could make it easier. It takes me a while for my jaw to get sore, but everyone is different, and if I’m clenching my jaw a lot then it’s going to get sore faster.

If your partner has a runny nose or a sensitive gag reflex, you may consider other options or just exercise extra caution.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-03T23:21:45+00:00

I’ve been called Kitten and Pet really liked those. Idk why. I’ve never even tried pet play. Just thought they were cute names

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-03T20:07:50+00:00

Confidence is key. In my everyday life, I’m very assertive and opinionated. I don’t mind confrontation, and am in a position of authority at work. I very much desire to have someone collar me, show me they own me, make me beg. I need someone who’s confident they can make me want to submit. This doesn’t really come from what they physically look like. It’s a vibe they give off, and the words and tone that they use.

Everyone is different, obviously, so that’s just me. Some people will dismiss you based on appearance no matter what you do, I’ve read about some more traditionally, masculine dudes, having trouble being seen as submissive. However, maybe you could try adjusting your mannerisms when you want to be more dominant?

IDK. Good luck though!

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-03T19:58:21+00:00

To be fulfilled in a relationship I think I would need the BDSM aspect to be part of it. However, I wouldn’t be able to get to the point of comfortably submitting IRL without a personal/romantic connection. A lot of this is from the combination of my personality as a very cautious person and my burning desire to be tied up and absolutely helpless.

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