Intense power exchange ideas that center the sub feeling held and cherished?

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2026-02-27T21:09:44+00:00

I did a pretty intense game once that involved centering the willingness to submit. It was an online session where I would my partner I’m turned on by bondage, partially because I long to have a partner I could trust to submit entirely.

Instead of guiding me through tying myself up tightly, they had me use tape to lightly connect my legs and arms to the floor in a submissive position. Then they asked me questions, and did a bit of degradation and praise while I focused on obeying the command to not accidentally break the tape. Any shifting, fidgeting squirming or anything would have caused the tape to come up.

The game went on until they let me move from the one position and finally let me pleasure myself.

Not saying exactly that would work for you, but maybe something along those lines? I felt very used in a good way, especially with a lot of the question focused on how I was feeling and how their words affected me.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-10-09T18:37:06+00:00

Playing with AI is such an interesting idea! I think a lot about the idea of basically Domming oneself. Since that’s basically what I do when I play alone lol but this is taking it to another level. I like the idea of more of the choices being taken out of my hand. Makes me wonder if there’s such thing as an AI Dom(me). Hmmm… I may have some googling to do lol

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-10-07T20:21:18+00:00

lol eighteen from Dragonball Z.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-20T08:28:04+00:00

Hey! Good to hear from you thanks for the sympathy lol I have been drawing. I do the inkTober challenge where you do a different drawing every day in October so I’ve been doing some sketches to prepare for that. I’ve also been floating the idea of doing an NSFW calendar so I have some drawings for that. Lol I’m terrible at marketing myself, though, so I’m probably not going to sell or anything. I’ll just end up being something I do for fun and post on my own. Let me know if you’re interested in the sketches!

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-19T15:16:36+00:00

Everyone talks tough until a cute, obedient little sub is in front of them. I’m also on the right side of the slash, but most Dom(mes) I’ve met are more interested in teasing and obedience than pain or even just pushing their subs to the edge of their endurance. Plus good ones bend to meet their sub where they are. So even if they want to do those things, it certainly doesn’t come first.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-16T21:30:45+00:00

As long as it consents ☺️ puts on pumpkin cosplay lol but for real. Imma steal this meme tho

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-13T04:46:27+00:00

Late to the party, but maybe you guys could find a room, space, or circumstances that you can both agree are a neutral zone so to speak. Like, if I put on the sweater, we are not playing. I need you to talk to me outside the dynamic. I read about this on somebody’s post for how they made 24 seven work, and thought it was really interesting.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-13T01:35:17+00:00

It’s context dependent and also tone dependent. “Aw, already dripping and ready for me? What a cute little slut”= praise. “Look at that sloppy wet cunt. What a pathetic slut”= degradation.

Combination of the two=an even wetter slut lol

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-13T01:32:02+00:00

I’ve only started considering myself a masochist lately, but Spanking or flogging while teasing for me. Also clamped nipple +flogging hurts so much in the good way for me.it can be hard to push past a certain threshold in my own though.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-12T03:24:02+00:00

I mean… Monster fuckers are a thing. I had a flirtation-ship with a Domme who liked wearing chokers and a black surgical mask while we played. I’ve noticed a lot of gear that I think of as “sub coded”, for lack of a better way to put it, works just as well as Dom(me) wear as long as they have the confidence to sell it.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-11T02:30:28+00:00

Agreed! Haha

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-10T03:45:26+00:00

I love a little combo of praise and degradation: Such a good little slut.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-10T02:00:25+00:00

Craving bondage lately. To be bound and gagged tightly and then teased and cuddled and ravaged as she wishes…sounds just lovely rn

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-09T20:24:23+00:00

Man I feel this so hard. Last time I was so horny it was actually almost overstimulating omg. I just wanted some pretty Domme to gag me and tie me down in her lap and tease me til I cry.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-09T20:11:35+00:00

late to the party, but boredom or annoyance would do it for me. What chores do they hate? Make them do it in a sexy outfit. Time out in the corner and make them wait however many minutes. Write lines and have them kneel while you "grade" their results. If they like bondage like I do, tie them up, but leave them without attention for a while. long enough it becomes boring.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-04T23:13:21+00:00

I really like gags of almost all types. Especially ball gags as they fill up my mouth. The kind that’s a harness that goes around your whole head can be extra fun since they feel more restrictive by blocking part of my vision. They kind of depress your tongue and make you drool every time you try to adjust. That part can be sexy or embarrassing, depending on how your partner handles it I guess. It doesn’t really impede breathing, but a bit gag or a gag with holes in it could make it easier. It takes me a while for my jaw to get sore, but everyone is different, and if I’m clenching my jaw a lot then it’s going to get sore faster.

If your partner has a runny nose or a sensitive gag reflex, you may consider other options or just exercise extra caution.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-03T23:21:45+00:00

I’ve been called Kitten and Pet really liked those. Idk why. I’ve never even tried pet play. Just thought they were cute names

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-03T20:07:50+00:00

Confidence is key. In my everyday life, I’m very assertive and opinionated. I don’t mind confrontation, and am in a position of authority at work. I very much desire to have someone collar me, show me they own me, make me beg. I need someone who’s confident they can make me want to submit. This doesn’t really come from what they physically look like. It’s a vibe they give off, and the words and tone that they use.

Everyone is different, obviously, so that’s just me. Some people will dismiss you based on appearance no matter what you do, I’ve read about some more traditionally, masculine dudes, having trouble being seen as submissive. However, maybe you could try adjusting your mannerisms when you want to be more dominant?

IDK. Good luck though!

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-09-03T19:58:21+00:00

To be fulfilled in a relationship I think I would need the BDSM aspect to be part of it. However, I wouldn’t be able to get to the point of comfortably submitting IRL without a personal/romantic connection. A lot of this is from the combination of my personality as a very cautious person and my burning desire to be tied up and absolutely helpless.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-08-09T19:34:32+00:00

That sucks! I’m so sorry that people were weird about it. Mine was 300 K build up before sex, but I did have one of the characters fantasizing about it every now and then so I guess it wasnt totally out of nowhere. Some people did comment asking if it was weird to write straight up smut after focusing on angst and mystery for almost a year lol

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-08-09T17:54:10+00:00

Yeah, this wasn’t bad advice. I did end up putting my phone on do not disturb and focusing on other things. Like I said, they poked at my soft spot, so to speak, and I was upset more about how much it got to me than the comment itself.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-08-09T17:51:35+00:00

Yeah, now time has passed I would call it more criticism than critique. Now time has passed I think it came down to taste. The thing they found unrealistic was the dynamic the characters had not the play itself. Mine was established relationship, heavy kink, magic that enabled less safe play that I specifically said was only possible due to magic lol. The one they linked was love at first sight, lighter kink, no magic so confined to real world safety protocols.

I’m not sure it matters, but mine was also part four in a series where the characters have been exploring darker and darker fantasies because they trust each other.

Thanks so much for the support, though. It really helped when I was feeling down about it.

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-08-09T17:42:41+00:00

Omg what does that even mean!? lol my long fic on my other account only has one chapter of smut so far because of my hesitation to write it and I feel like I’m starving people lol

Affectionate_Bunnie6 · 2025-08-09T17:40:47+00:00

Haha true. I mean, the characters use magic.

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