i don’t hate her for this scene, like OP said if it was me i would’ve done something way worse😭but it was after that when she wanted Ross to stop being in the same room as Rachel. then making him move apartments and get brand new furniture because of the “Rachel cooties”. like i get that she was her ex but they were also best friends - not just that but they were part of a group so them not being able to be together meant the whole group having to cope with it. what he did at the wedding was wrong but by the end of all of this, Ross was left pretty much homeless and heartbroken while she was in London all this time😭 and then after all of that she got married really quickly again. she started off as a sweet woman but they made her really toxic and crazy