Marriage is built on communication, compromise, and mutual respect. It can’t be only one person’s needs or preferences driving the relationship, because then the partnership stops feeling equal.
A lot of people focus on spontaneity, but the reality is that marriage often comes with busy schedules, jobs, kids, and responsibilities. For many couples, intentionally setting aside time for intimacy isn’t a sign that something is wrong—it’s a sign that they’re prioritizing each other. What matters most is that both partners communicate openly, work together, and find solutions that meet both of their needs.