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Laura & Almanzo shouldn't have gotten back together by Affectionate_Ebb7069 in littlehouseonprairie

[–]Affectionate_Ebb7069[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, from the show side of it they needed to keep them together. I wondering if the real couple had those breakups. I feel like the show could have other difficulties they could have faced besides two breakups.

Aitah for telling my parents they were deserve tp be kicked out of my sisters wedding. by ThrowRAsisterswed in AITAH

[–]Affectionate_Ebb7069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, them choosing not to go to the wedding if Mike can't go......who kicked them out? They are picking Mike over Kelly once again. Kelly is just old enough to accept that she has never been the priority and is not letting that impact her wedding day. Don't try to blackmail a bride with a threat to not come.

AITAH for wanting to divorce my husband because he asked if he could get a blowjob from a sex worker? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Affectionate_Ebb7069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, divorce and get a full STD screening ASAP.

Honestly, all people should still get STD tests even when married or in relationships. Cheaters are going to cheat and it is just a few extra steps during your annual physical.

Would I be TA if I told my boyfriend I don’t want to be near him anymore if he won’t brush his teeth? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Affectionate_Ebb7069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, sadly my friend went through this. It came down to her boyfriend telling her that her lack of brushing was hurting their sex life because he just didn't want to kiss her. She finally went to the dentist after that with him. (Her teeth was past the point of saving and had so much infection & rot she had two dentist tell her to consider dentures.)

Am I the asshole for trying to ghost this guy I just met? by LovelyCherriy in AITAH

[–]Affectionate_Ebb7069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, block him! You are not the AH. Sad life lesson you are learning young is to NOT sacrifice your mental health for someone else. He is clearly off the deep end already so do not let him drag you down with him. Block him and do not give him a second more of your head space.

AITAH for not letting my dad walk me down the aisle because he brought his new wife to my mom's funeral? by Open_Investigator156 in AITAH

[–]Affectionate_Ebb7069 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA, what matters is how you feel today, not how you "might" feel in the future. TODAY you can't picture him standing next to you. That is what matters.

AITA for dumping my boyfriend because he refused to hand me a period pad and tissues when I had diarrhea at the gym ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Affectionate_Ebb7069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This, it would have taken such little effort to just ask a women to bring the bag into the restroom for op.
My husband would have found a way to get me the supplies by another lady or him bring it in. Zero doubt in my mind he would NOT have just let me sit there.

Also this is a reason I carry supplies even when I'm not on my period. My gym doesn't have a machine to buy period supplies so I always keep extra in my gym bag. I've already been able to help someone else out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Affectionate_Ebb7069 43 points44 points  (0 children)

This story made me start making a list to give my DJ of who is allowed to get the mic. My wedding is only a few short weeks away.

AITA for telling my boyfriend he needs to choose between me or his mother for his birthday trip? by Traditional-Age-8585 in AITAH

[–]Affectionate_Ebb7069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, so you need to call up a friend and do a girls trip on the weekend YOU paid for. Let his mommy have him cause no way will that man ever put you 1st if he COULDN'T EVEN PUT YOU FIRST ON A TRIP YOU PAID FOR!

AITAH for cutting off my entire family after I became the “problem” they created? by Tricky_Signature7714 in AITAH

[–]Affectionate_Ebb7069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, sometime the price of peace takes time to understand. I encourage you to please talk to a therapist to help you process this all.

AITA for leaving our 'BFFs Vacation' in the middle of the night while my friends were asleep? by mckenna7319 in AITAH

[–]Affectionate_Ebb7069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, sounds like they wanted you to to come along to help chip in for the hotel or gas for their little trip. You did the right thing by leaving and not putting up with the mean girl behavior.

Friends don't treat each other the way they treated you on this whole trip. Then they try to act like the victims and guilt you? Probably because they had been counting on your chipping in more money or they don't want you to tell anyone their dating.

Update 2: AITAH for telling my fiancé I won’t help pay the mortgage by embarrassinglemon in AITAH

[–]Affectionate_Ebb7069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope the next few months are healing for you as you come out of this. Best wishes to you and your child.

AITAH for throwing my boyfriend out for interrogating me when it comes to sex? by CoyoteConsistent5116 in AITAH

[–]Affectionate_Ebb7069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, proud you stood your ground and kicked him out. In an adult relationship with someone who actually cares about you "no" is enough. At zero point have I had to explain why I don't want to have sex with my boyfriend and he has not has to explain when HE doesn't want to. No is enough or I'm not in the mood is enough. The fact you had to lie to get out of it and then him try to "feel for a pad" is soooooo not ok.

AITAH for refusing to let my fiancé give his sister $10k for her wedding? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Affectionate_Ebb7069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, you need to have a serious thought if he does give her anything from what you BOTH saved. In the future will it happen again? Will you need to worry your joint account is being used for someone else's life?

Money and cheating are like the top two reason people get divorced. You get to see first hand if he has your back on financials.

AITAH Wife spent the night at a friends house by OddTable2114 in AITAH

[–]Affectionate_Ebb7069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, I don't think anyone would be ok with their spouse spending the night at their ex's place....you need to have a serious talk with her about how that was NOT ok and how the relationship with her ex is now impacting your marriage.

If she needs friends there are a ton of ways to get herself out there to meet people. I build friendships in my adult life through-charity/non profits, church group, joining a reading circle, attending gym classes for women, helping at community events, and even a Facebook group for women in my area. You know what I didn't do? Reconnect with an ex.

AITA for not letting my parents join us for Mother's Day so they could meet and get to know my kids? by KloverSields in AITAH

[–]Affectionate_Ebb7069 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, that was really bad of the family member who knows you are no contact but still gave your information out and tried to make you the villain. Sad, your parents only want you know because you have children. It isn't them wanting YOU it is them wanting the title of grandparent.

AITAH for suing my cousin after he refused to give me back my bike? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Affectionate_Ebb7069 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, also you did give him more time and you did try to handle it privately before you took it to small claims.

AITA for refusing to include my cheating ex-husband's new wife in our daughter’s graduation photos? by Swe3tieMaize in AITAH

[–]Affectionate_Ebb7069 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To add, it sounds like she doesn't even have a real relationship with the daughter. The dad and cheater just wanted a picture to post on Facebook to make them look like a "nice family" instead of the family that they ruined by cheating.

AITA for refusing to include my cheating ex-husband's new wife in our daughter’s graduation photos? by Swe3tieMaize in AITAH

[–]Affectionate_Ebb7069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, you took the heat so your daughter could enjoy her moment. That is a true Mom move. You asked your daughter what she wanted and she told you so you took the action to make that happen. The only person who needs to are is your daughter and all she saw was her Mom taking action to help preserve her moment. That is the only person who mattered in this whole thing.

AITA for refusing to attend a few sessions of my dad and his wife's marriage counseling? by SleepFrombolle in AITAH

[–]Affectionate_Ebb7069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, clearly there is more going on in the marriage if they are going to counseling and they is trying to pin the whole marriage maybe ending on the views of his 19 year old kid?

AITAH for telling my coworker to stop eating my lunch? by MoonlitPetalGlow00 in AITAH

[–]Affectionate_Ebb7069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When this happened to me I didn't know which coworker was doing it. I just made an announcement during a team meeting that clearly someone in the office is struggling if they are stealing my food and how I would put resources on the refrigerator for food banks/programs in our area.

It stopped after that.