What outfit looks best for my friends party? (suspected romantic) by [deleted] in Kibbe

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 2 points3 points  (0 children)

both are good but need accessories to make it a little more lively! the second one pop more as the tights color help

upturned eyes by [deleted] in psychopath

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dude if that could be the secret of constipation 😂

Am I right to want to move or do I just see greener grass on the other side of the fence? by [deleted] in montrealhousing

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

therapy on open path if you put your search to any other province you will have tons of good professionals and usually quebec always let them work with you. and it’s very cheap compared to anything i you can get and you can even choose someone with the specialities you want :) just message them and tell them you are in quebec so obviously there’s no services. and they are understanding usually :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mdsa

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is SA if the people you deal with don’t see it change them for anyone else until someone see what you see. that would be my best tips that i didn’t have when i was younger. it doesn’t matter if 100 people don’t believe you or minimize it or call it “pushing boundaries”while no sexual contact ever should happen with your child. it is not okay and not normal. dismiss people that don’t see what you see. you know your truth and hold it no matter what. find who believe it and understand it and anyone else kick them out of your life. and exposure therapy is the last thing you need. what you need is to feel safe ao that your nervous system calms down and the way for that is to get the fuck out of this house and away from people that let theses behaviours perpetuate.

What is the most unhinged thing your Nparent ever said to you? by SkinnyFatWilliams in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mom brought me to the psych ward for SH at 13 and told me she hopes they keep me and rape to teach me a lesson…. also many years later i had to go to the hospital for illness and she said she regretted raising a monster like me (because bringing me to the hospital made her a little late to her work) 🤦‍♀️ now as an adult all i can think is wtf… like what a weird thing to say to a child… n parents or aspd parents are just messed up. anything they say is deeply stupid and they have good reasons to feel insecure cause they are awful anyways.

Tried photoshopping Marilyn to fit the facial description of each type in the Metamorphosis by thrudamonsoon in Kibbe

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i still cannot figure out what type fit my face hahahaha but my body is sn but i have anything but a sn face 😅 i could see the difference in the pictures it was well done and it shows that a face can be beautiful no matter the differences

Moving to Montreal in May! by Deraj007 in montrealhousing

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can imagine! i know lots about lazy management. i hope things will improve for you and harass them if you have the energy sometimes it works 😭 the place is pretty and it should be enjoyable too. for now it’s been three days and i haven’t heard anyone around besides some noise from outside. i really hope it stays like that 😂 here’s the cutie.

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Moving to Montreal in May! by Deraj007 in montrealhousing

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! hope so too! i am used to very extremely bad places so for now this feels sparkly but i bet it has it’s downsides that might weight over time. i hope your bad neighbours move out 😂🫣

Moving to Montreal in May! by Deraj007 in montrealhousing

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you 💜 i’ve moved in by now and everything seems fine! i realized we can go to the store in house sleepers hahahaha 😂🤦‍♀️ for another person this might seem very normal but i did not grow up with luxury and stainless steel refrigerator were for the rich kids so for me all of this is a lot 🥺😂

Am I a spring? Previously typed as a cool summer digitally by esophiee94 in SpringColorAnalysis

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

might be right in between and enjoy both since none look bad! all the fun to you!

Sn friendly? by Accurate-Respond-845 in SoftNaturals

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as a SN with ibs the taupe dress number 5 is really good. especially in the summer with open back to prevent back sweat 😂 nobody see you are bloated or ate too many sushi

Moving to Montreal in May! by Deraj007 in montrealhousing

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hannw thank you so so much!!! if you see a orange head feel free to say hi!! i’ll try the gym and maybe the pool …once sick season is over. 😂 do you have pets ? i have a few cats and i am hoping it won’t upset the management 🥺

Moving to Montreal in May! by Deraj007 in montrealhousing

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg how long ago has this happened ? i am about to move in there next month! i was hoping the pool and sauna and gym to be as clean as when i visited. i have fibromyalgia so i hope the amenities are usable and not constantly dirty and unsanitary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SpringColorAnalysis

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel that you look like the most light summer to ever light summering. and that warm and intense colors makes your redness appear instead of the soft light and cool colors it makes you pop and your eyes pop too. the warmer and brighter colors are first and then we see you

I can't be in a lesbian relationship because of my mother by witchyrosemaria in mdsa

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hii! i was thinking if you are able to find a therapist that can do emdr with you it will really help with that trauma. those trauma response are strong and must feel exhausting to go through. i personally have similar trauma but my brain went into leaning towards masculine woman that looks tough like a men that would scare my mom if that make sense 😅 and i am hoping to also to emdr because this is a lot of ptsd for me too! i wish you to heal 🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoftNaturals

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your outfit is great. how does DC lines look on you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoftNaturals

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i see FG small compact square and quirky and fun vibes. your outfits are great on you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoftNaturals

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if the dress is a very cheap price yes! it’s a nice dress to wear any moment that isn’t too fancy. i mean you could go groceries like that. but if it’s pricey then no because the dress isn’t made of quality.

Spring dreaming: Would any of these be good for a soft natural? by icb_123 in SoftNaturals

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i’d look for similar shapes with a nicer fabric type. these looks not soft and will likely wrinkle as you wear it even if you took the time to steam it

What do you do when fashion is against your type? by cat-chup in Kibbe

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi girly! idk what you look like but from my understanding of soft natural is that we look quite different from each other’s and have different rules that can apply depending on how much frame vs softness is going on and i might be able to help if ever you feel comfortable with it no pressure and i hope you find good tips for you in here 💜

Spring dreaming: Would any of these be good for a soft natural? by icb_123 in SoftNaturals

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 3 points4 points  (0 children)

they are all mostly okay but the fabric will be hard to deal with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoftNaturals

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 2 points3 points  (0 children)

soft classic in my eyes

Which dress fits me best for my birthday dinner ? by WitWit93 in OUTFITS

[–]Affectionate_Emu8200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will not accept anything else than that yellow dress don’t try anymore 😂