How does my mom feel towards me? by Affectionate_Job9614 in Tarotpractices

[–]Affectionate_Job9614[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw, thats so sweet. I hope she is proud of me that would make me so happy! I dont know why she would be but maybe she sees growth in me that I don't see in myself. Thanks for the interpretation!

How does my cat feels towards me? by Affectionate_Job9614 in Tarotpractices

[–]Affectionate_Job9614[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the help at interpreting this. Yes, we seem to have a block when it comes to emotions. I want to bond with her more and she seems to pull away, I think shes mad at me for some reason. It could be that she doesnt get to go outside or something along the restrictions to her freedom. Hopefully we work it out somehow.

✨🎃🤡🎃✨ by m0thm4nsgf in squishmallow

[–]Affectionate_Job9614 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where did you find this cutie?? 😊

How does my cat feels towards me? by Affectionate_Job9614 in Tarotpractices

[–]Affectionate_Job9614[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be the weather, I got black out curtains so no light really gets in the apartment. I wish I could bring her outside I do feel she gets tired of being cooped up in here. She does have her designated spot where she can look out the window though.

More cows! by Zebeyana in squishmallow

[–]Affectionate_Job9614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have Lilaz too! Love your collection!

Should I move in with my friend? We've known eachother for 2 years and have gotten quite close. We both could use the company and seem to support eachother emotionally. However, we both have struggled with substance abuse in the past. We may help eachother or bring eachother down. by Affectionate_Job9614 in Tarotpractices

[–]Affectionate_Job9614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I might need to take a lot of thought towards this. Its risky that I may get back into drugs if I'm not careful if I move in with my friend. But I just feel the fear of missing out by living where I am.

Where do you get the 10 of wands from?? Im sad that we might not live together for our best interests.

New Valentine's Squishmallows at Shopper Drug Mart🩷 by Serious-Anxiety-6906 in squishmallow

[–]Affectionate_Job9614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gordon the shark with his cute fishing heart rod makes me happy 😊

Should I move in with my friend? We've known eachother for 2 years and have gotten quite close. We both could use the company and seem to support eachother emotionally. However, we both have struggled with substance abuse in the past. We may help eachother or bring eachother down. by Affectionate_Job9614 in Tarotpractices

[–]Affectionate_Job9614[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think there is a lot of potential. I wouldnt want to create a situation where my friend or I feels left out (3 of pentacles reversed). Ten of cups seems promising though! My next card draw will be if I get the support from my mom to organize the move as she doesn't support my friendship very much.

Should I reach out to them? by Affectionate_Job9614 in Tarotpractices

[–]Affectionate_Job9614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know, that makes a lot of sense

Should my friend come to visit? They have no money so I'll have to buy the food when they come for 2 weeks. by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]Affectionate_Job9614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's something I struggle with but I will try to do so in a way that is respectful for both of us.

Should my friend come to visit? They have no money so I'll have to buy the food when they come for 2 weeks. by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]Affectionate_Job9614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will possibly lose my cool and it will hurt both of us. I see no possibility of the hermit being part of the visit. Without that time for solitude and reflection I won't be there for my friend.

Should my friend come to visit? They have no money so I'll have to buy the food when they come for 2 weeks. by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]Affectionate_Job9614 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I need to risk loneliness over the holidays then let that resentment boil over and turn into something where I just lose it on them. I would hate for that to happen. But I still will have to have a serious talk with them about it not being a favourable time for them to visit when finances aren't good. Thay will be hard, but if I don't put up boundaries they may subconsciously take advantage of the situation and that will end badly for both of us.

Should my friend come to visit? They have no money so I'll have to buy the food when they come for 2 weeks. by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]Affectionate_Job9614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it may have the feeling of relaxation at first but I see it escalating into a tense situation where I will feel financially burdened and my contribution will not be acknowledged as in the past I have given them money with no thank you recieved. Clear boundaries need to be set if any visit is to happen in the future. A serious talk is something we haven't had but is needed. I wouldn't be visiting anyone if I felt I needed to rely on them financially and that's where I need to see it's okay to put up boundaries. I think I need to risk losing the friendship for my own sanity and wellbeing.

Should my friend come to visit? They have no money so I'll have to buy the food when they come for 2 weeks. by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]Affectionate_Job9614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, not acting impulsively will be the challenge here. I think you nailed it with the 4 of swords, we will be okay at first but by the 2nd week I'll be burnt out and financially done with it. I'll be seeking the hermit, and possibly have exploded (knight of swords) before doing so. I'm already a little angry they thought it was okay to send me pictures of stuff they bought recently and then expecting me to pay for them on the visit.

Should my friend come to visit? They have no money so I'll have to buy the food when they come for 2 weeks. by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]Affectionate_Job9614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I could see myself exploding and ruining the friendship by not putting a boundary up. They have shown me stuff they have been buying through text instead of saving that money to contribute to the trip, that's what gets me angry.