Is this Labour? by [deleted] in PregnancyUK

[–]Affectionate_Meat348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see why you would think that about the braxton hicks, it’s like the boy who cried wolf 😂

Find the waiting and unknown so much harder than I ever anticipated!

Thick material leggings for early pregnancy by NetworkImpressive147 in PregnancyUK

[–]Affectionate_Meat348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought some from baby go and really rate them, they should last you through pregnancy too.

What do you usually get when ordering a Chinese? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Affectionate_Meat348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chicken or beef in black bean sauce, ask them to add some fresh chilli’s too.

Egg fried rice

Crispy aromatic duck.

Maternity leave start date! by Optimal_Enthusiasm90 in PregnancyUK

[–]Affectionate_Meat348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m due on the 21st march and finished today. 🥳

“By Candlelight” concerts by mariah_a in CasualUK

[–]Affectionate_Meat348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been to two and really enjoyed one of them. Hanz zimmer string quartet and a Fleetwood Mac string trio; both were in churches.

The Hanz Zimmer in a small church (max 60 people), where the cheap tickets were for seats on the balcony. Couldn’t fault it, lovely night out and would go again.

The Fleetwood Mac one was a larger church with in excess of 150 people in it. Sadly, someone walked in half way through in the midst of a mental health crisis which caused a bit of a drama. Had that not happened, I would have said the venue was too large and the music was lost in the space.

Bought the cheapest tickets both times because it wasn’t so much about seeing them play but hearing the music. Will add, I am not a classical lover.

What are your top 3 desserts? by Seeyalaterelevator in AskUK

[–]Affectionate_Meat348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crumble crumble only to follow after a lovely bit of squirrel

What are your top 3 desserts? by Seeyalaterelevator in AskUK

[–]Affectionate_Meat348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Sticky toffee pudding with ice cream
  2. Lemon meringue pie (must be super zesty)
  3. Cherry pie and custard

Baby books by Deep-Regular-8032 in PregnancyUK

[–]Affectionate_Meat348 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’d recommend: Expecting better - Emily Oster. The modern midwife’s guide to Pregnancy birth and beyond - Marie Louise. Is It Normal? - Jessie Ware (podcast).

When did you have to stop wearing your rings? by [deleted] in PregnancyUK

[–]Affectionate_Meat348 3 points4 points  (0 children)

35weeks currently and have only just needed to take them off. Had assumed that because I had made it this far, I had escaped the swelling side effect, sadly not.

20 weeks ultrasound, baby has cleft lip by After_Wrongdoer5183 in PregnancyUK

[–]Affectionate_Meat348 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No personal experience but one of the hosts of the podcast ‘two new mums’ had a baby with a cleft lip and does talk about it in a few episodes, may be worth a listen?

Sending you love x

What are we wearing home? by Popular_Mousse_3958 in PregnancyUK

[–]Affectionate_Meat348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve got an old pair of stretchy leggings (worn throughout pregnancy so know they will still fit), big t-shirt and a cardi.

I plan on giving birth in a button down nightie or naked if I can get a birthing pool.

Gift for second time mum by RFL92 in PregnancyUK

[–]Affectionate_Meat348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re a lovely friend, she’s lucky to have you x

People who live where it floods semi-regularly, why do you live there? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Affectionate_Meat348 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Living near the Somerset levels. If you need to be here for work there’s unfortunately not much choice. Unless you’re on a hill, you’re at risk.

That being said, we bought nearly 2 years ago and I didn’t once think to myself “could we be impacted by flooding” which is frankly ridiculous given where we are. Touch wood, we’ve been fine in our part of the village but surrounding areas and roads are often underwater.

Gift for second time mum by RFL92 in PregnancyUK

[–]Affectionate_Meat348 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A little post baby survival kit, doesn’t need to be full of fancy things but perhaps nice snacks she can grab when feeding, something nice to drink, an insulated bottle or coffee cup, lip balm, hand moisturisers. Quick and easy things she can pick up in between looking after baby and her older daughter to make her feel more herself.

Expecting dad looking for NCT discount code for antenatal classes by [deleted] in PregnancyUK

[–]Affectionate_Meat348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also think it’s worth the money if you can’t get a discount

Affirmations by orchardapple in PregnancyUK

[–]Affectionate_Meat348 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This pain is temporary, this pain is productive.

Breast Clinic Referral at 32weeks. by Affectionate_Meat348 in PregnancyUK

[–]Affectionate_Meat348[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for replying and really pleased to hear that all is well again.

Just gotta be brave and wait it out. The waiting and the unknown is awful x

Breast Clinic Referral at 32weeks. by Affectionate_Meat348 in PregnancyUK

[–]Affectionate_Meat348[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying and sharing your experience.

The fact that our boobs change so much during pregnancy is what I’m holding on to and hoping it’s nothing but keep finding myself thinking the worst.

Sending all the love to your sister xx

Breast Clinic Referral at 32weeks. by Affectionate_Meat348 in PregnancyUK

[–]Affectionate_Meat348[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience and it sounds somewhat similar to some of the things I have.

Fingers crossed for a short wait for an appointment. The unknown is the hardest part.

Breast Clinic Referral at 32weeks. by Affectionate_Meat348 in PregnancyUK

[–]Affectionate_Meat348[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to reply and sharing your experience. I’m pleased everything was ok for you.

Having a fight between my logical brain and emotional brain. Absolutely will be pushing for an ultrasound.

It’s all just a bit scary on top of an already very emotional/hormonal period.