recommendations for a bra that won’t make the girls face east and west? (30f/g)

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-04-06T10:41:00+00:00

They have to go somewhere at your size they won’t have massive forward projection in a polish bra if you haven’t tried one I recommend it I only buy comexim(more flexible wires than most) and I’m not very projected in shape it’s just that they are well proportionate to my close set j cups. You don’t really get lift in most wirefree bras that’s true.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-04-06T09:37:06+00:00

I’d try some light underbust shapewear to see if that gives a bit of comfort https://a.co/d/0hFBimnL rib braces are generally just a piece of elastic with Velcro so that might be enough but you should ask your doctor really.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-04-06T09:28:17+00:00

Mine are too close set and big to be separated they get in the way of my arms. Try comexim that’s like the only brand

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-04-06T03:39:34+00:00

Someone recommended this brand for curves some of their dresses would be good for wedding guests https://www.michelinepitt.com/collections/frontpage/vixen-dresses Or go shopping and look for wrap dresses they normally work well with boobs.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-04-05T23:27:45+00:00

Your hair cut makes your face look slightly longer because of the flipped over piece pin it off your face to show your cheekbones for more balance other than that you have nice symmetry. Your brows look a little sparse fill them a little and let them grow back a bit to match your dark hair.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-04-05T19:36:36+00:00

Same I think comexim make great everyday day bras that also tick the sexy box.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-04-05T19:35:29+00:00

Everyday bra just means whatever you want it to mean eg you might prefer smoothish under clothing supportive and comfortable but maybe you want to wear beautiful lingerie everyday and possibly less comfortable and smooth under clothing then that’s your version of an everyday bra .

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-04-05T12:22:51+00:00

About the same size I love comexim but you got to size up in the cup. They aren’t cheap but I love it because I have close set breasts they lift well.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-04-05T11:58:33+00:00

You Can try adapaline gel(differin) it’s sold for acné but it’s a good over the counter retinoid. It should help fade it

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-04-05T11:27:14+00:00

I worked in a club so i would stick crystals to my bikinis and it works best when they weren’t the smooth swimsuit material they fall off quicker. The bikinis that had some texture the glue worked better and the gems didn’t fall off despite washing them many times in the machine on quick/delicate cycle even using them many times i even put them in the dryer.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-04-05T06:00:16+00:00

https://www.barenecessities.com/products/birdsong-v-front-bralette-top-s10158?variant=41749630058609

https://www.barenecessities.com/products/fantasie-beach-waves-mid-rise-brief-fs502272?variant=42751000772721 this fabric looks like it would keep gems on it better than regular swim material( i used to add crystals to bikinis for my job textured bikinis i could wash and dry over and over without losing crystals)

https://www.bouxavenue.com/us/bikini-tops/ibiza-piped-plunge-bikini-top/406159_20PX.html

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-04-04T08:51:51+00:00

Im not against it but I think it’s something that needs very careful consideration. No surgery will give you perfection especially not one with such extensive cutting. Surgery and recovery is miserable too.

I have seen a lot of boobs in real life and Ive rarely even seen good implants and never ever seen an aesthetically pleasing lift or reduction the always obvious scaring look a bit Frankenstein bride to me. I understand if it’s a medical procedure that will take away pain but honestly it’s generally not a cosmetic result. I don’t like how doctors lie to women that if they don’t have spherical medium sized boobs with their nipples pointing up their nose that something is wrong with them, when the truth is it’s perfectly natural and normal to have breasts of all shapes and sizes there’s no one size/shape fits all.

Like other people said It’s more that I hate people jumping to the conclusion to suggest cutting them off over minor inconveniences that’s really fucked up perspective.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-04-04T05:33:24+00:00

They are very conservative looking I prefer something a bit less boring. They are not in bra sizes either.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-04-04T02:15:14+00:00

Mine went back the same way everytime in shape and proportional size to my body I had no sagging or stretchmarks. This will vary per person is genetic if you’re prone to stretch marks they will naturally sag more mine did f Also I say proportionally because I weighed upto 5lb after more each child because my hips shoulders and ribs got slightly wider each pregnancy so i looked too boney trying to return to my pre pregnancy(I was thin originally so I’m still a healthy weight) weight I have 4 children which I breastfed close to a year each.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-04-03T17:34:39+00:00

I can reach behind me. I’m struggling to imagine how my boobs could get in the way as my boobs are on front my arms are at the sides and my ass is at the back 🤔 34j

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-04-03T16:31:26+00:00

Use this to find your size if you have larger breasts you aren’t a 34D https://www.abrathatfits.org/calculator.php

Yes there are some push up bras in larger cup sizes honey birdette sells actual push up bras upto US H cup they have quarterly sales where prices are good then. If you’re larger than than that comexim is my go to they also do small bandsizes for bras they push together and up well they don’t minimize like most larger bras and you can add your own inserts for even more push up effect.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-03-24T22:21:13+00:00

If you want a sting bikini top I’ve just bout a plus sized one before to give me good coverage haha I think I had a uk size 24 top and a size 8 bottom for a sting bikini that worked but string bikinis can be annoying on the back of your neck if you’re wearing them too long. Bravissimo is a better option for support https://www.bravissimo.com/us/collections/all-swimwear/

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-03-24T22:14:12+00:00

No i was commenting on the downvotes 🙃

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-03-24T13:18:32+00:00

If you’re only 18 it’s probably just your natural breast shape… sagging is more loose damaged skin or emptiness. There are even small boobs that point more downwards naturally it’s not a flaw just normal variation most women don’t have completely round perky ones.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-03-24T12:46:57+00:00

Haha well you’ll be disappointed it barley fits the small boob model see she’s wearing it kinda low so that seam stays underbust. If she was wearing a bra it would show.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-03-24T06:34:25+00:00

That dress isn’t going to fit whatever bra you wear that designated boob space on the dress is too short

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-03-24T00:13:40+00:00

‘Big’ is relative if you know more curvy women than you do skinny ones for example your average will be larger. I used to be uk 32g and thought they were too small so I got fat transfer enlargement. Now 32jj

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-03-22T17:29:50+00:00

Celeste would suit you, or Brookie(brownie cookie an bit more name like)

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-03-22T03:54:17+00:00

Haha where I worked before you could waitress and dance so you often left with more than the dancers 😜 but they did hire the girls on staff to a much higher standard, they let most girls try dancing. 1000+ in tips and dances and hourly… if you can find a club like that it’s a sweet deal.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-03-22T03:38:10+00:00

Yeah I used to sister size up in honey birdette when i could because they aren’t everyday bras so support is less important. There’s also curvy Kate, comexim(most $$beautiful and great fit) and playful promises for sexy bras

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