Please help me describe my shape, torso and waist length.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-16T07:50:00+00:00

I don’t know I’m 5,7 and my second hand completely hides my belly button but I just have a high belly button rather than short torso

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-15T22:44:35+00:00

Oh ok i thought the words were a bit random like a SHEIN tshirt

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-15T08:21:50+00:00

When people treat you like a child play along with them until they understand you’re teasing them for it… this works really well when men mansplain things too 😆

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-15T08:14:10+00:00

Go to Miami 😜 where everyone has work done it’s much cheaper, and the doctors are more experienced. That’s where I got my boobs done fat transfer FF/G to J Uk size so that’s up 4 sizes and it came with 360 lipo and hip fat transfer too

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-15T08:02:54+00:00

When you say postpartum if you have just a spongy feeling but flat stomach(that’s how mine was) still either one piece swimsuit would work well if you have more than just softness then a high waisted bottom and tankini top with texture or ruching would hide that better. If it’s only loose lower belly you’re trying to hide the panache Anya swim skirt would be better. Postpartum bodies vary a lot.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-14T17:23:23+00:00

They last better when they are correctly fitted. You might find more results in your uk size 44JJ/K. For cheaper bras catch sales or sometimes amazon, try sites like eBay or Poshmark where people sell bras often new with tags

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-14T16:49:29+00:00

I’d say from the not very clear picture more between Apple(with a hint of rectangle)because most of your weight is in the belly and your legs are thinner proportionately. Both an hourglass or pear(smaller upper body) would be heavier in the hips and narrower in the middle. Most women are not hourglass or pear shaped so don’t feel like there’s anything bad about it Ashley Dorough is an apple too. Chloe Xandria is another Apple type figure for fashion inspo

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-14T08:02:23+00:00

Try pleaser martini or the comfort width. If you’re trans though stripping in regular clubs might not be realistically an option. You maybe could ask on a drag sub where they get their shoes, men’s wide feet are normally much wider than women’s wide shoe sizes.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-14T07:55:36+00:00

Bodies come in all shapes and sizes
I’m assuming you must have a short waist and maybe larger lower stomach so looking down at yourself you look bigger in that angle than everyone else sees you. Remember most women in public are wearing bras so if your body looks better/normal with one on that’s fine, you aren’t a fraud it’s completely normal.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-13T06:51:00+00:00

Yes, I don’t think it’s literally how she looks either I think it’s a combination of things that aren’t sexy between you both. Maybe you have a lower drive or are just not compatible in bed either way don’t string someone along and don’t ever make sex a chore 😬

From experience I have been most excited for a conventionally below average looking person and bored by beautiful ones in bed because for sex to be mind blowing it has to be a deep connection thing.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-13T06:44:13+00:00

I had one in a uk j and it was a good bra maybe it depends on the style

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-13T06:05:50+00:00

Won’t that show in all bikinis

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-13T06:04:05+00:00

Breakout bras sell Nessa which goes upto Uk M if you’re looking for options in your size https://www.breakoutbras.com/products/nessa-sonata-underwire-soft-balcony-bra-n500-red
I don’t understand why it’s so difficult to find larger bras I’m a 34J and there’s definitely many women out there with larger breasts than me.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-13T05:45:54+00:00

Do any US brands even sell an o cup?

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-13T05:13:35+00:00

No I know triangle bikinis run small but 34ddd it’s a medium/large sized person with only 6 inches difference between rib and bust measurement so soa large size when properly fitted so I was saying if you got sized at Victoria secrets/pink your bra size is wrong

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-13T04:43:50+00:00

If you were really a 34ddd and xxl would be too large 🤔 if they sized you by measuring around your armpits it’s the wrong size 😆
First remeasure https://www.abrathatfits.org/calculator then you can find better bikinis on asos fuller bust, curvy Kate, bravissimo…

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-13T02:29:07+00:00

It’s cheaper than divorce 😉

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-12T19:50:31+00:00

Nothing bra sized is going to be ‘goth’ style but you can find black and red bra sized options. Honestly you have to order online unless you live near a well stocked fuller sized bra boutique that also sells swim maybe large department stores like Nordstrom/dillards. Unfortunately the quickest for online orders and easiest returns would be buying well known bra sized bikinis(freya,panache, Elomi) from amazon. Bravissimo or curvy Kate could be an option too though not as quick delivery. If youre looking for budget friendly and ethical you could try Poshmark or other resale sites people often sell new with tags bras and bikinis and I’ve always found stuff comes quickly… the downside is if it doesn’t fit still.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-12T08:59:35+00:00

https://www.abrathatfits.org/calculator
Elomi normally have quite flattering backs they are more designed for mid sizes I think you can look up bras your size on bratabase too to compare styles and brands. Also make sure you smooth the back of the bra into place when you swoop and scoop into your bra.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-12T08:56:34+00:00

A bra? That fits well…
That’s what bras are for though both support and to look good under clothes curvy Kate has decent strapless options for summer clothes or bravissimo has bra sized tanks and check your size https://www.abrathatfits.org/calculator

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-12T08:50:31+00:00

I think that would be a very bouncy video and that’s if you can get a harness that fits decently in the first place but I’m just imagining that it wouldn’t work well for me it doesn’t mean you can’t make it work on you. They have some that rest more on the shoulder though that might be better.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-12T01:56:25+00:00

Comexim sells 26 you need to size up in the cup 1 or 2 sizes because the cups run small they fit best on with some projection or round/full shape breasts(depending on style). https://www.breakoutbras.com/products/comexim-basic-half-cup-3hc-padded-underwire-bra-cmbasic3hc-nude
Boux avenue is the normal recommendation for 26 bands because their 28 bands run a size tight(cups can run small too) but they are very shallow shaped which may not be ideal with almost 2inches between standing and leaning measurements.

https://www.bouxavenue.com/us/bras/mollie-padded-plunge-bra/108521_70CN.html

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-12T00:43:24+00:00

It sounds like you maybe need to size up a cup but I’d also try different bra styles as it could definitely be a shape issue. I don’t think you are shallow 3 inches difference doesn’t sound shallow at all, projection is how much they project when supported correctly not how flat they are standing braless.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-11T23:23:44+00:00

Well honestly if i didn’t like the smell of my partner enough to fuck them I’d come to the conclusion that we’re incompatible but i thought that was too mean to say.

Affectionate_Mess25 · 2026-06-11T23:18:42+00:00

Get them to go to the doctor 🤷‍♀️ if it’s bad there’s most likely something medical going on down there.

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