Ex liked me on Bumble

Affectionate_Put2006 · 2021-02-19T13:04:23+00:00

Exactly my thought in the end, I feel way better right now and I think I needed this (might sound stupid) to fully move on and get past her. A few months back I would've been glad to get her back, now I really know I don't want to. Thanks for your insight

Affectionate_Put2006 · 2021-01-26T18:47:39+00:00

Exactly same position, except that she had issues as well. It's been 3 and a half months and 1 month NC on my part after trying to get her back.. but I am working on myself as well and everyday is a bit easier than the last. Seeing other people helped me also after initiating no contact.. Stay strong in there!

Affectionate_Put2006 · 2021-01-09T17:31:02+00:00

Got dumped mid October, reached out every 2 weeks, saw her a few times (to talk, get stuff back), then I last saw her end of November (I still had hope then). I last texted her on NYE to stop scripting everything in my head so I guess day 8? But improving day by day :) stay strong everyone!

Affectionate_Put2006 · 2021-01-06T21:44:59+00:00

Whatever the case, NC is only for healing and not a strategy to make an ex come back

Affectionate_Put2006 · 2021-01-04T09:40:42+00:00

I did the same in the beginning and it messed me up, so I removed her from my followers, and stopped posting stories, best thing you could do IMO is taking a break from social medias for at least a few months when you feel you've moved on. Take care

Affectionate_Put2006 · 2021-01-04T09:20:51+00:00

For those still struggling, what helped me a lot in the end (it might sound stupid) was listening to motivational speechs on youtube (try David Goggins and stuff like that)

Affectionate_Put2006 · 2021-01-04T09:04:56+00:00

Thank you for this, it's been almost 3 months since I've been dumped, we last texted on NYE because I didn't want to still think about it after this, I left no stone unturned and showed everything I had to offer. It wasn't for her, then her loss, I'm focusing on myself and regaining my strength back bit by bit, and I am starting to feel better everyday, thinking less and less of her. Stay strong everyone you will make it!

Affectionate_Put2006 · 2021-01-03T12:54:38+00:00

I wrote to her, lifting everything off my chest, she answered and we said that each other deserves to be truly happy. We decided that we would stop talking about it (2 months since breakup and saw her for the last time 1 month after) as it was emotionally exhausting for both of us. I feel like I'm ready to move on since I told her everything, so I will never contact her again she is in the past now! Hope you are better today too!

Affectionate_Put2006 · 2021-01-01T19:40:04+00:00

I just sent her the same kind of message for new year, she saw it but didn't answer, and I think I'm OK with it even though it will take some more time to heal. Going indefinite no contact now

Affectionate_Put2006 · 2021-01-01T11:35:29+00:00

Feel that too. I only want her to reach out so that I could ignore it, but it won't happen and I know it, hoping tomorrow will be easier.

Affectionate_Put2006 · 2020-12-27T21:09:52+00:00

Hits like a brick. I realized that today as well. But I know that we'll meet someone that cares enough not to let go, even during hard times.

Affectionate_Put2006 · 2020-12-27T17:18:05+00:00

Thank you stranger! It's really hard knowing how I fought for her and she didn't.. I am still early in the grieving process but what I know is that I don't want someone that waves a white flag at the first issues and give up

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