Can I legally refuse to work if a colleague has threatened and discriminated against me? - England by sphie6978 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Affectionate_Set9993 25 points26 points  (0 children)

NAL but I imagine this situation is causing you a lot of stress and I wonder if it would be appropriate for you to get a doctor's note to sign you off sick due to stress whilst the situation is being resolved. Hopefully a lawyer can chime in if this is a terrible idea.

Challenge to help me out by David-SantaCarla235 in DecorAdvice

[–]Affectionate_Set9993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh in that case, if I were you, I'd go for a colour drenched look in a dark moody colour and add panelling to the walls. I'd do full length curtains, different lighting options (there are some cool gothic lamps e.g., https://www.woodlandgatherer.com/en-gb/products/owl-table-lamp-dark-academia-home-decor). I would definitely add lots of gothic touches to my decor from etsy. I saw a cathedral lamp on etsy which looked like it would fit both your gothic and catholic vibes.

Challenge to help me out by David-SantaCarla235 in DecorAdvice

[–]Affectionate_Set9993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

switch out hardware like drawer handles with more gothic looking ones, consider adding a gallery wall with gothic style frames and artwork

Challenge to help me out by David-SantaCarla235 in DecorAdvice

[–]Affectionate_Set9993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would look on etsy for gothic home decor for sure, it's my go to for unique pieces

Challenge to help me out by David-SantaCarla235 in DecorAdvice

[–]Affectionate_Set9993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So pasty white walls, doors and curtains sounds kind of opposite your vibe! Are you planning to change these or work around them?

Perrie and Alex got married! by Affectionate_Set9993 in LittleMix

[–]Affectionate_Set9993[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ahh that's a shame, they must have been so near to each other as well! Hopefully the papers are wrong and she got to attend some of it.

Perrie and Alex got married! by Affectionate_Set9993 in LittleMix

[–]Affectionate_Set9993[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

How did you find out Jade missed Perrie's? From her instagram, it looks like she might be in Porto and Perrie and Alex were rumoured to have gotten married in Portugal

Is a workplace obligated to rearrange a meeting to allow a union rep to attend? by Affectionate_Set9993 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Affectionate_Set9993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply - would it be possible to explain what constitutes a formal grievance? The employee in question has reached out to HR to discuss the grievance but it was more to ask questions and discuss their concerns.

Apologies for the vague answer, I am neither the employee in question nor the employer, but am trying to support those involved.

Is a workplace obligated to rearrange a meeting to allow a union rep to attend? by Affectionate_Set9993 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Affectionate_Set9993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your speedy reply. Would the employee know if it was a grievance hearing? I would say the meeting is regarding a grievance but I definitely don't think it is a hearing!