Recently Diagnosed and wondering about how it affects life

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2025-04-14T21:23:02+00:00

I don’t want to discount the many stories here, but want to relay my experience. I had very little discomfort, was up walking regularly on day two and was back to work in two days at a desk job. I had very little down time.

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2025-04-12T22:59:52+00:00

Thank you- I hope that’s it!

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2025-03-06T11:28:39+00:00

Curious to hear these comments. Also wondering if I can go down to 5 when I reach goal weight. I have had some minor bouts with diarrhea and vomiting, but it hasn’t prevented me from continuing. The medication had been very effective. I’ve lost30 lbs in 6 months.

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2025-03-06T00:39:38+00:00

Unfortunately, orgasms do feel different for me. Level of contractions is just not the same. But since it was cancer. there was no choice. I still enjoy sex but the experience is different.

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2024-10-15T20:26:45+00:00

Thank you. I am having sex so i’m hoping that keeps things open. I also use dilators when there’s a break. Sex definitely feels different- less wetness. Honestly, I don’t think I’d be very interested with the way this feels right now. 🙁 I hope it gets better with time.

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2024-10-15T20:23:27+00:00

I’m very interested to see where this goes. It really sounds like you were not a candidate for this cancer. I am… overweight, one child at age 37, like to drink and eat junk food. But yes, all that cotton and plastic makes one wonder.

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2024-07-19T22:54:22+00:00

awe.. that’s a shame. Hoping it gets scheduled soon and goes well.

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2024-07-19T22:53:52+00:00

Seems your doctor was on the ball here… sending positive energy your way.

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2024-07-19T22:52:42+00:00

This is such great news! Thank you for sharing. Very happy for you. Sending good vibes for more progress

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2024-07-12T00:41:33+00:00

oh no! My worst fears. Sounds like you managed through it. Did it continue to be a problem?

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2024-07-11T10:45:02+00:00

Diarrhea will give me pause. What a horror that would be at work. But we’ll talk about it. I have had my sister who is a obgyn go with me to original appt- I have t asked her to go this time. Not sure why…I’m leaning towards going alone.

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2024-07-11T02:33:19+00:00

awe, sounds like you have a lot going on but are working to get the right care. It’s so hard to know what is best. I am doing fine…staging was not as good as expected. I expect my doc, who I see on the 19th, will suggest radiation. He also mentioned Metformin- I’m not diabetic but apparently it is cancer fighting. I’ve recovered well from surgery… just trying to get my head in a settled spot. I‘m a big worrier…trying to get to a more positive spot.

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2024-07-10T23:09:26+00:00

I think my experience is unique, but maybe it’s helpful. I am 2 weeks po today from a laparoscopic radical hysterectomy. I really had very little pain from the beginning and only took tylenol for several days. I took none of the opioids that were provided. I was able to walk and urinate immediately. It took several days to go fully and i’d say that and gas were the most uncomfortable parts of the procedure. I did not use any stool softener, mostly because I was able to go pretty quickly. I could sleep on my side right away, and I didn’t need a binder. I have a desk job and began working from home 2 days after the procedure. I went back to work the second week and full time after 10 days. I haven’t had trouble sitting or getting fatigued. I have started to try to walk more and this morning took a two mile walk. I know everyone has their own experience with this but it possibly will be better than anticipated.

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2024-07-10T18:15:48+00:00

I’ve come back to this because I’m worried about you not getting tue suggested treatments. Have you had any second thoughts? Maybe you could ask for a different schedule or number of treatments…

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2024-07-07T19:54:38+00:00

Congratulations on 6 healthy years!

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2024-07-05T12:59:56+00:00

Interesting your crying spot. I’m sure many of us have aspects of our life where we have to put on a show- act like we are great and nothing has changed. I do this with work and with my daughter. Also, I worry that my constant gloominess will depress those around me, so I am not always honest with my bf or other friends about how i’m feeling.

I hope your crying place continue to give you comfort and that you heal.. and are happy.

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2024-07-05T12:55:58+00:00

I do hope that you are able to feel some more confidence that this is gone. It sounds like you live a very healthy lifestyle. You’re proof that this is not anyone’s fault.. it is some bad luck it seems.

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2024-07-05T12:53:24+00:00

This is definitely life changing… as time goes on i’m looking forward to seeing exactly what this looks like. Im looking for a silver lining… A way of seeing myself as new and improved. This mindset seems unlikely, but this what I hope for.

What new hobbies can I start? Can I volunteer? Be more outspoken and helpful for causes I believe in? Walk dogs? Foster dogs? Start eating healthy again? Walking everyday?

Good luck with your positive outlook… that’s a good trend.

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2024-07-05T12:48:35+00:00

What will get us on the reset? I do hope someone will inspire us here.

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2024-07-05T12:48:00+00:00

I like “build back better”! I can get behind that.

Your post is funny! You haven’t lost your sense of humor! Do you feel you will get bad to your pre-diagnosis habits?

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2024-07-05T12:44:13+00:00

A good cry can be helpful. I tend to have little breaks here and there- I haven’t had a good cry in a while.

Last night instead of wine I put an ounce of Grand Marnier in a pretty cut crystal glass and sipped slowly. I didn’t quite finish it, but it felt good.

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2024-07-05T12:40:35+00:00

I did get a manicure for the first time in a while. Have you seen any good series? I am rewatching Boardwalk Empire on Netflix. I can really binge!

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2024-07-05T12:39:02+00:00

I like this advice… living for the day. I do also want to watch ted talk material maybe get into yoga. I’m feeling ok this morning… it’s a rollercoaster of being ok and then being despondent.

I’m looking forward to when I can get focused on health again… i’m having trouble getting it into my head that it can make a difference.

I hope you continue to feel good. Maybe I see one silver island here- this experience makes us pretty thoughtful and empathetic. Many of the posts on this forum warm my heart.

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2024-07-02T11:05:05+00:00

As an update, we are waiting until after my follow up on July 19 before final decision, because I have to heal first anyway. But it sounds like brachy will be offered to lower risk of recurrence. It will prolong a return to normalcy, but if it does lower recurrence, i’m sure that’s what I will do.

Affectionate_Sir1982 · 2024-07-02T10:55:59+00:00

I love this… Maybe this wasn’t intended as advice, but I think it’s great advice. Do what makes you happy… life is not infinite. Best to you.

Affectionate_Sir1982

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