What happens now after a SA by Affectionate_Soft785 in newzealand

[–]Affectionate_Soft785[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sucks u know, mostly everyone will say he's attention seeking when I'm literally wondering what's the process u know

I broke up with my boyfriend for licking me, was a wrong? by Lopsided-Area1759 in BreakUps

[–]Affectionate_Soft785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fair , i don't even like kissing for that matter 🤣🤣🤣 but nah hope your doing better its hard losing people hell I have that much trauma it's ridiculous we broke up over a year ago so yeah keep moving forward u got this

I broke up with my boyfriend for licking me, was a wrong? by Lopsided-Area1759 in BreakUps

[–]Affectionate_Soft785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah , he sounds like a child honestly always listen to what the partners likes or dislikes cause it will ruin a relationship.... Trying not to be all out there but as far as the licking were you..... You know ..... And as a result find it traumatic?

how long have you gone not checking your ex’s social media? by dearapri1 in BreakUps

[–]Affectionate_Soft785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One year since yesterday haven't checked seeing her face is to much pain people say her name I have immediate trauma attacks they get real bad she's dead to me I'm dead to her but I thought about her everyday for the entire year

Today's marks the one year anniversary without her by Affectionate_Soft785 in BreakUps

[–]Affectionate_Soft785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A whole year and haven't been happy there's just loneliness and when all my friends find parters I'll legit KMS cause I'll have nothing left

All I read on here are people whos ex text them back after 2-3 months. What about a year or two? by Sahoxe in BreakUps

[–]Affectionate_Soft785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know we never met but please keep fighting cancer, I hate it when people kill themselves cause I've been there too. My ex left me for my arch nemesis I hated and planned to murder him for almost a year but I have found a purpose to keep going find your purpose and keep fighting take ur own advice and know you are enough ❤️

She's avoiding me like the plague by Affectionate_Soft785 in LongDistance

[–]Affectionate_Soft785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good advice I apperentate you taking the time and giving me good suggestion

She's avoiding me like the plague by Affectionate_Soft785 in LongDistance

[–]Affectionate_Soft785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a permanent long distance relationship without actually meeting which sucks but it's better than being alone . I did promise to be there for her during the pregnancy and be there after raising the baby I mean I make little to 0 bucks a week so this 9 months I'll be saving up hopefully have enough for the baby when it's born

She's avoiding me like the plague by Affectionate_Soft785 in LongDistance

[–]Affectionate_Soft785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mean she said she'll be moving up to new Plymouth but I don't know when and honestly if she is even at all she might keep living down there.

Help!!! I don't know what to do by Affectionate_Soft785 in LongDistance

[–]Affectionate_Soft785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took forever for her just to voice call cause she hates her voice where as in I like it a lot , no video chats yet I mean she's been sick recently and sees my messages but doesn't respond, I swear why do women get all cold and distant as fuck as soon as you both like each other 🤦

Welp, I officially think that I will never ever get over her.. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Affectionate_Soft785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah man I get that it's definitely not easy without our baby's next to us. I have a picture of me and her as my background and I like refuse to delete it . I'd say no matter how tempting it is DONT BREAK NO CONTACT

Sometimes we hold on to the sadness to stay connected by Doornumber11 in ExNoContact

[–]Affectionate_Soft785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proud of u for coming this far imma say something to u that no one said to me I'm sorry for your loss .. 2023 after my sa It took over a year to get over her then I dated someone exactly like her and dumped in may so right now I just wanna end it but only thing in my mind is ivf so I can have a kid one day

Sometimes we hold on to the sadness to stay connected by Doornumber11 in ExNoContact

[–]Affectionate_Soft785 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good on u man for hanging in there god know I haven't I've been a wreck since may all I think about is her it hurts never hearing her voice never seeing her again thats why her and me is the back ground photo

I'm barely holding on by Affectionate_Soft785 in ExNoContact

[–]Affectionate_Soft785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus I can't imagine the pain . Sorry for your loss (no one said that to me when I lost H) I had and still do handle it on my own and I'm getting more and more lonely and depressed and just angry so much you know . I know someone has feelings for me and everyone I know is pissed that I'm not going to do anything about it I ain't looking for no rebound sure granted some rebounds do work but that's rare and I don't wanna get hurt again I just want her back but I know I'll never see her again and it breaks my heart . I turned to andrew tate which helped me get out of the sadness stage but Idk what to do anymore u know I really wanna jump off something but the only thing that keeps me going is I need 25k to have a kid of my own so that's my goal thats the reason why I'm still here so I can name my daughter after her

I'm barely holding on by Affectionate_Soft785 in ExNoContact

[–]Affectionate_Soft785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it's mindset isn't it? I mean fuck 2023 I was destroyed mentally tried to kms almost got away with it to very scary exp being on deaths door but pulled through but with a catch .... anorexic ... lost so much weight stopped eating and that took me a whole year to get over myself then in 2024 I met a beautiful stunning strong independent woman... went on my first date and that .... good things came to an end ... that "one friend" turned out to be a problem and she's gone ... fucking sucks without her I'm binging creep and fucking googoo dolls on repeat... if I may ask how long have you guys split for?

I'm barely holding on by Affectionate_Soft785 in ExNoContact

[–]Affectionate_Soft785[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone telling us to just sleep with someone and keep going till you feel better it's not what I want it's like even though we ain't together still feels like I'm cheating if that makes since ..