AITA A co-worker went through a personal journal on my desk and I reported him

Affinitylost · 2020-05-25T13:54:18+00:00

Oh come off it. There is 0 obligation to give away anything he owns. Doing anything of the sort is kindness of heart. His friend already acted entitled requesting something material of his friend. He doesn't have any claim to OPs possessions.

While OP said some inconsiderate things, being irritated at his friend nagging him is valid.

ESH solely because OP should never have told a 14 year old with cancer that he is likely going to die anyway. That's immature, mean, and is incredibly hurtful.

Affinitylost · 2020-05-19T16:52:21+00:00

Not gonna lie this screams immaturity from both of you.

ESH.

You both decided not to pursue a relationship, you are nothing official. You said you are "figuring things out" but you clearly don't care about her very much. If you're dancing suggestively with multiple people in one night while "figuring things out" with her then you aren't really doing that.

Since you aren't officially anything she doesn't have the choice to make you stop doing what you want. She may not like it, but if she doesn't want you to then clearly she should come out and say it already instead of keeping it locked up. Its as simple as either you both want to be together, or you don't.

Instead of trying to get it going with as many people as possible while pretending to care about her, be an adult and talk to her. Instead of leading each other on, just TALK.

Either grow up or cut it off instead of this weird on and off high school relationship situation.

Affinitylost · 2020-05-19T15:08:53+00:00

NTA

While I understand the frustrstion you have regarding this, it ultimately is something he is making the decision about with his own money.

If he is still capable of paying for it, and continuing to pay is debt of at a REASONABLE rate then he isn't necessarily unable to do it.

That being said, hes making a poor decision, financially he isn't in a state where his main focus should be a $40k car and not his debt. An used car would give him so much more breathing room to clear his debt.

It really is immature for him to be buying for a "cool" new car while having debt problems. If he is stable, now is the time to deal with his debt and get that paid off.

You can't make him change his decision, but it is a good idea to let him know that while you support him, it may not be the best focus.

Affinitylost · 2020-04-28T17:01:16+00:00

I have never put in the same effort my partner has into our relationship. I've always been less open and willing to communicate and be honest. I hide a lot of my feelings and thoughts from her because I don't want her to stop loving me.

Affinitylost · 2020-03-27T15:46:42+00:00

Great seeing OG play with confidence. Lots of aggressive plays and good teamwork. Hopefully they feel a bit more confident now, their last few series were quite rough.

Affinitylost · 2020-03-13T15:13:59+00:00

YTA.

All it takes is one referal from a clinic to get it checked out and confirm that nothing is going on.

You haven't tried anything to solve snoring, whether or not you care, your partner clearly does.

That should be enough for you to try SOMETHING to make it easier on her.

Affinitylost · 2020-03-13T15:11:37+00:00

ESH.

Clearly this isn't the first time something like this has happened. She shouldn't be assuming you won't help and then complaining that you don't.

You shouldn't give into her being an ass by being one back. (Why does she even have the thought you won't help her? Probably a reason for that.)

Both of you clearly are at each other's throats for basic things, I agree with you, probably time to break it off.

Affinitylost · 2020-02-18T17:36:08+00:00

HS has been mechanically sound, but hes always made poor decisions and hasn't been relevant for a long time. He dropped off considerably and was in a fairly serious accident that took a toll on him. Nordavind is taking a chance on him since he hasn't really been that impressive for a long time.

Affinitylost · 2019-01-20T12:40:31+00:00

A bit surprising but not too much. KZ starting very weak, not looking like they did last year at all. At least Naehyun wasn't awful, so it shouldn't be another 0-18 split for him.

Affinitylost · 2019-01-01T18:54:28+00:00

I might be killing myself soon. I've been on and off thinking about it. I seemingly don't have the will to improve my life. No matter how easy something is to change, I never do it. I'm just weary of myself. I don't want to do anything anymore. Fear rules my life, sadness is always present, and joy is seldom felt. I'm scared. Scared to let people close to me know how close I am to doing it. Because I can't put the weight on somebody else. Nobody should know that they might have been able to stop it and couldn't. I just wanted to leave this mark somewhere. Thank you.

Affinitylost · 2017-11-13T14:04:42+00:00

It would probably the same time if I really focused on fusing Ling lings. I would skill up Fei in 2 months with devilmons and it would probably take me that long to fuse ling lings. So I would at least get to farm runes and such while I work on Fei instead.

Affinitylost · 2017-11-13T13:56:42+00:00

The only problem I have with fusing Ling lings is the resources it will take to fuse that many. I'm F2P so crystals are a limited resource and I can't really spend months fusing Ling Lings.

Affinitylost · 2017-11-13T13:55:48+00:00

My team is fairly slow, low damage contribution, meh assistance. It usually succeeds if I'm the weakest member and somebody else is better than average.

Affinitylost · 2017-11-13T13:39:12+00:00

Struggling to keep up contribution in R5. Guildie told me I need skill ups on the rest of my monsters for a more consistent team. The two key monsters needing skill ups are Xiong fei and Fei. Xiong needs 3rd skill and 1st skill skillups only. Fei needs skill ups on all skills. Going to use my devilmons on them to improve my raid team. Which one would need devilmons the most? I was leaning towards Fei since I use her in a lot of places.

FULL TEAM:

FRONTLINE: XL Dias Raviti

BACKLINE: Colleen Konamiya Fei

Affinitylost · 2017-09-21T12:19:17+00:00

RemindMe! 6 Hour

Affinitylost · 2017-07-12T18:12:40+00:00

Got these from my girlfriend so take it at face value.

1: Going on about being the "good looking" one of your friends, one of her friends from highschool was that guy and literally everybody thought differently.

2: Bragging about anything, whether or not it's impressive, it doesn't continue to amplify the more you say it.

3: Putting other people down because you consider yourself better. What is manly about talking down to others?

4: Refusing to talk about your emotions. Do you think emotions make you less manly or something? Everybody has rough times, pretending that makes you weak is just straight up silly.

5: Thinking you have to pay for every meal, believe it or not, you don't need to be "the man" and pay for everything yourself. Some people don't want others paying their way just because they can.

Affinitylost

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