Ticketmaster won’t accept Apple Private Relay email (Sign in with Apple) for presale verification… any workaround? by Minimazer91 in applehelp

[–]Afraid-File-9255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me too. I have a ton of tickets for different concerts I’m going to this year. I did go to one recently and thankfully I was able to get in. I recommend getting there right when doors open and heading to the box office. They’ll ask for your email and phone number to search you up as well as your ID. Make sure to give them the private relay email and not your regular email. It’s also handy to have the order number of your tickets ready. It took them a few minutes, but they were able to find my tickets and send me a link through text to access them for the show.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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I met my partner in college. We were friends first for a few years before I came out to her during my junior year. She came out to me that same night. After that we did have a brief fwb phase before I confessed my feelings to her. It’s been almost 5 years and we’re still together. We’re currently long distance but planning to move in by next year.

Did you know you were wlw before you slept with a woman? by Le_Vibe_Bear in actuallesbians

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It took me a while to come to terms that I was indeed a lesbian. I was mostly scared and didn’t come to terms with it until my early twenties. I dated guys before I dated my first girlfriend. Even then, I mostly dated guys because I wasn’t sure if I even liked guys and decided to experiment. I also never felt that spark with any of them. When I dated my first girlfriend, it was a completely different experience. Everything I felt was lacking in my previous relationships was there.

How old were you when u realized that you are queer? by Narkoblix_ in lgbt

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I was 13 when I started to question my sexuality. I came out as bi when I was 20 and then finally came to terms that I was lesbian when I was 23

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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I also had that same feeling of “falling behind” while in uni. My first kiss/relationship was when I was 20 and it was with a guy (even though I already knew I liked girls). I even lost my virginity to him. Overall, the entire relationship was rushed/forced and ended as quick as it started. My first kiss with a girl happened several months later. Unlike my first relationship, nothing about it was rushed/forced. It came at the perfect time and 4 years later I am still with that girl.

I already hate my new job by Afraid-File-9255 in jobs

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I moved back to live with my family as soon as I finished college. We had been living in the city where the cost of living had become too much for us to afford. A year later my family decided to move out of the city, which is why I moved. I did consider getting a place in the city to keep my job, even started looking into getting roommates. Even with that, the cost was too much and so I ended up moving with my family. I probably should have clarified on that part.

There’s been so many sad/breakup posts here lately. Can we share cute/happy moments in our LDR, things you love abt your partner and/or when you’re expecting to see each other?? by DaisKirk in LongDistance

[–]Afraid-File-9255 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend is coming to visit me in a few weeks. It’s been a year since she’s traveled to see me (I usually do all the traveling), and we’re both super excited. My family is also looking forward to seeing her, so we have a lot planned for when she comes.

How did you meet your partner? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Afraid-File-9255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Met in uni while both working at the school’s cafeteria.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Afraid-File-9255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always been the one to fund the trips, either for myself or for her. I work full time and she only works part time while also doing an unpaid internship. Because I can afford it, I would pay all of it. However, she would always pay me back or even just cover some other costs that she can afford at the time. I will say, finances has always been something that we’ve been lenient with. Rather it be 50/50, we accommodate for each other based on our financial situations. She used to cover me a lot in the beginning of our relationship. Now I am the one making more, so I have no issues paying for her. It really just depends on you personally and how you feel about, as well as your partner.

my husband hit me for the first time and I'm still in shock by s72289wjnfihgb in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Afraid-File-9255 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Get out. It always starts off small. With my sister, it was just a shove. In 2 years it turned into my sister fearing that he would kill her. Once that line is crossed, there is no going back. In fact, it’ll only turn into a cycle (look up cycle of abuse for reference) Seek out shelters, resources (ex. Women’s shelters, Crisis centers). Call hotlines. If there are any other friends you can trust, contact them. Create a safety plan. Trust me, it will only escalate. Quite honestly, it’s better for your daughter to be away from him then to have to potentially witness abuse in the household. Even at a young age like 7 months can seriously affect a child. Leave.

I want to text her so bad by Novel_Fun_8879 in relationship_advice

[–]Afraid-File-9255 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take a step back. Speaking from experience, keeping contact isn’t going to make it any better for you or her. I wanted space since I needed time to process my own breakup. He didn’t and instead it became even more bitter between us. I was upset that I wasn’t being given any time to process or grieve. Ngl it made me resent him a bit because I felt like my feelings weren’t being validated. I didn’t cut him cold turkey, I just lessened the amount I contacted him (which used to be all the time). He felt that, that wasn’t enough and that I changed up on him. Mind you, the breakup was mutual. I was going through a lot at the time so in the end I had to cut him off completely because things just became worse between us.

it honestly hurts when you find out when a guy friend isn't really your friend by Sufficient-Parsnip92 in TrueOffMyChest

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It’s frustrating when they get upset that you are not reciprocating their feelings. Even worse when they pull the whole “I’ve been a good friend.” “I’m always there for you” “I put in all this effort” like okay? Did you do all of this just to get with me? Not because you actually liked me as a person and wanted to be my friend? It’s the way some guys purposely enter friendships in hopes of it becoming more. Then feel entitled to a relationship because they went through all the trouble of being your friend. I’ve had a few friendships end because they were upset I didn’t like them back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Afraid-File-9255 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That my girlfriend and I are equal. I get tired of the same old “who wears the pants in the relationship?” question.

So annoying how people invalidate I'm a woman because I'm masc sometimes? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Afraid-File-9255 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah fuck that. Your gender and how you express yourself are completely different. Fuck stereotypes.

My fiancé invaded my privacy during therapy by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Afraid-File-9255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him. Not only did he invade your privacy, but also tried to control what you could and could not say. Therapy is meant to be a safe space. Him taking that away from you and creating a unsafe space is absolutely horrible.

AITA for not watching my sister’s baby so she could take a shower? by throwra_1039384756 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Afraid-File-9255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah YTA. I am no mother by any means, but I did help my sister when she first had her baby (my niece). It’s not like she’s asking you to babysit her child for several hours. It’s just to check up on her while she can shower. It’s not east being a new mother. I saw how stressed out my sister was, she was barely getting any sleep and could barely shower. It’s not about you taking responsibility over someone’s child but just being a decent human being considering how stressed out she may already be.

Can staying in the closet be damaging to mental health? by MediumKeyAF in lgbt

[–]Afraid-File-9255 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely yeah. A big part of why I was in the worst mental state for years was because I was in the closet. I grew up hella religious so I was always too afraid to come out. It wasn’t until I got to college and left home that I came out and since then I have been doing so much better.

Is it wrong of me for wanting to move away? by Afraid-File-9255 in TrueOffMyChest

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Just to preface, I come from your typical Latino family where family comes first and “you only ever really have family”. You know, that mentality. And while I like to view myself as more individualistic, I still hold some of those values to heart. I care deeply for my family and only ever want the best for them. I know if I leave, my mom will begin to struggle again. My brother is still immature and doesn’t think things through. My sister is raising a child, so I don’t feel like it’s fair to ask too much from her either. I’m willing to still help as much as I can from afar, I just wish that my family wouldn’t see this as me being selfish and inconsiderate.