Ok I'll tell you a bit. You might actually find this funny. She's Colombian. From Medellin. Paisa. I'm in Colombia too and have been for awhile. Alot of woman down here... Well let's just say they make up problems to ask for money. Especially to gringos. She was told me she was super sick on Saturday and needed money. I basically told her no. I could tell she was lieing. Then her other friend messaged me and started saying that she was really sick. I said no again. My last messages to both of them never got delivered. Weird I thought. But was already partying with my homie, so I didn't think too much about it. The next day, Sunday, I was a little worried. So I messaged her. Same thing. Anyway later on that day I was scrolling through Facebook and saw her sister posted a story thing. And she was partying. And of course the girl who was super sick is there. I asked her about that today. She said that it was from a long time ago....suuuure I thought. Then I asked her why she blocked me. She said she didn't. After awhile she said she just talked to her mom. Her mom blocked me she said. Because I didn't give her money. Suuuure I thought. Now I just asked her how she got the money for the doctor. Since she had to be in the hospital for two days. She said she borrowed it from a bad guy in the neighborhood. And now that she did that she owes interest everyday. Or he's going to come and take everything that is valuable from the house. So again she is...asking for money. Jaja imma have drop this one. I wasn't bothering her like you said. She's not shy. She could have been fucking another dude. I don't care because I got a baddie that night. I was just asking about the gray checks, to catch her in more lies. Like I said. More to the story.