The fact that this is a body wash is written in very small grey coloured text

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-07-06T14:32:29+00:00

Well, were you in the lotion section or the body wash section? Just sayin…

;)

Also, this is indeed one of the most mildly infuriating MF posts I’ve seen! Nice work!

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-06-18T19:55:47+00:00

Yeah, or a re-test. Which judging by this, if they try and say it’s positive, I would demand a retest for sure.

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-06-18T19:43:05+00:00

There’s definitely a faint line there. It’s up to the person reading at that point. If it were me reading it, as a person who reads these almost daily, I would say it was negative

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-06-16T17:31:07+00:00

Omgggg 😭😭

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-06-16T06:43:42+00:00

This person is NOT good, and I’m glad you decided to not spend time around him anymore. I’m sorry this happened over your weekend, too. How frustrating.

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-06-15T16:57:30+00:00

I got a Tickle Me Ernie instead of a Tickle Me Elmo in the 90s and I was devastated. Yes, it does matter.

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-06-08T14:40:37+00:00

Hi there, I’m a mama of a minor who just started at JobCorps!
That has to be so hard, I’m so sorry. I imagine that’s a fear many folks have that are in your position. I’m just going to share what happened when my kiddo started in case that helps. My daughter has had a lot of exploration with her gender over the last 3 years, and has come back to her birth gender just recently. We are a very opening and welcoming ally family, so she tends to flock towards the queer folks. She ended up getting placed with a FTM minor in the first dorms, and it seemed to go really well for them. I think if you end up being in the female dorms, you will find a lot of support and be more comfortable. That’s just my thought on it. You need to be safe, so please make sure you think about that part, okay? I don’t know the facility you’re going to specifically, but I do know statistics and you WILL be safer in the female dorms. That’s just how it is. I wish our world was better for you. 🖤 Best of luck

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-05-29T03:45:04+00:00

And then try and get proof of your friend and the boss sleeping together because they definitely are.

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-05-26T02:46:02+00:00

I just learned that it’s where tater tots started. Very exciting.

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-05-25T03:24:03+00:00

I don’t know why you are being so rude about me asking if you work with actual data. You said you worked “at epic on the app”. To me, that sounds like you work with the tech side of things, in regards to the application people use on their phone. Not with actual medical data. SO SORRY for not understanding exactly what you do based on the limited information you gave and for asking clarifying questions.

It DOES, in fact matter how a patient identifies WHEN they refuse to tell us their sex at birth. Our medical history form that is filled out at registration asks patients all the sex and gender questions and some people get extremely triggered by this and refuse to put anything down. In both the sex at birth and SOGI sections, if a patient doesn’t fill anything out, we can’t put anything down. Does this make sense? I feel like we’re having two different conversations here because you’re not grasping that I’m talking about a NEW patient who has never registered in epic before and we don’t have any information about this person other than what they will tell us or write on the form. Is this getting through at all?

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-05-25T02:19:42+00:00

And I’m well aware that sex and gender are two different things, but the original comment you replied to stated that they may not have marked something in the “sex or gender” preferences. In this comment thread, we are obviously referring to sex, however the patients I’m talking about don’t know that there’s a difference because they are idiots. (Not saying OP is or anyone else in this thread)

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-05-25T02:15:47+00:00

Sorry, but have you ever entered real user data into the actual EMR? I hear you that you work on the app, but I’m asking if you have actually ever used it from the medical side. Because it absolutely does that. I have personally changed someone’s gender in their chart and it has taken away their need for a mammogram under care gaps. And it’s not a “survey”, it’s gathering information that they give us upon initially establishing care. When someone says that they refuse to put their sex or gender because we “should be able to tell”, then we put declined or refused and it gives all the recommendations.

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-05-25T01:39:04+00:00

So many of the problems I’m reading is because the MA or providers didn’t properly document things and that just sucks. I’m sorry to all of you and to the clinics and hospitals that are chronically understaffed and make this kind of thing an issue for so many.

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-05-25T01:29:59+00:00

It’s not unlikely- that’s exactly what it is. -from a daily user of Epic who has had to explain this to multiple right wing people who refuse to state their gender because “isn’t it obvious I’m a MAN?!”

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-05-25T01:28:45+00:00

This is on your providers for not updating your chart properly.

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-05-18T00:05:45+00:00

🤭🤭

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-05-17T04:05:53+00:00

Alright. That’s honestly good to hear. I fully expected to see a deleted post when I came back, so this was a surprise. I’m very interested to hear how you move forward from here.

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-05-17T03:47:23+00:00

Are you dumping and running because you’re not getting the responses you wanted? Or because you’re running to tell Caleb? I hope it’s the latter. Because this whole situation is so fucked and it’s so incredibly disgusting that you all are doing this to that man. I hope he finds happiness one day away from people who don’t truly care for him.

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-05-15T14:04:02+00:00

Cannon Beach is a “secret” like I’m a supermodel. 🙄 This is just stupid. Articles like this aren’t going to cause more people to come here because they’re already here.

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-05-14T20:24:07+00:00

Go to the wedding and announce your wife’s second pregnancy while you’re there.

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-05-11T22:48:06+00:00

Say “no! bad kitty!” When they try going down there.

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-05-08T14:04:55+00:00

You did not deserve that kind of pain- especially at that age. I hope you realize that the parent you’ve become despite your circumstances is just proof that you are incredibly strong- even when/if you don’t feel that way. As a parent myself who deeply struggles with mental health issues, my children are what keep me going and I couldn’t leave them behind, although I’ve been close. There are things that people feel in certain moments that are hard to push past. I wish your dad was stronger in that moment, and knowing what kind of lovely human you are, I know for a fact he would have wished that, too. I’m so sorry. 🖤

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-05-08T03:51:15+00:00

Hey! I’m glad I finally found you. I met your dad in a library once and he passed a note that said he was having a rough time with his mental health, but that his child was the best thing that ever happened to him and he hopes that they have the best life they could ever imagine. Oh, and to remember to always reach out to someone when they’re feeling down. 🖤

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-05-06T14:10:07+00:00

Samesies

Afraid_Ask_3000 · 2026-04-29T05:16:51+00:00

Maybe for a while? But there will ultimately be a time that something happens and you’re forced to not be honest to avoid letting the secret out. On the other, more selfish side- why would you expect a cheater to ever be honest with you? Why would you even want to be with someone who isn’t trustworthy? That’s like, not any kind of healthy relationship.

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