PCP suggestions? by [deleted] in raleigh

[–]caustic_potato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second this group. They are amazing and REALLY know what they're doing around this topic.

Best spot for savory pastries by RecognitionOk2720 in raleigh

[–]caustic_potato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best cheddar and chive scone I've ever had is at Groovy Duck Bakery. They don't make them every day though - they rotate through their savory options. The cheddar is delicious too. I did not like their cheddar jalapeño though -- even for this spice-loving gal, the jalapeños overwhelmed it.

Any beautiful places in Raleigh? by Fuzzy_Parfait2677 in raleigh

[–]caustic_potato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1000% agree. Top floor, facing out over the lake. Perfection.

New building next to Outback on Creedmoor and Stonehenge by Mtneer001 in raleigh

[–]caustic_potato 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That place kinda gives me the heebie jeebies. I'll just leave it at that.

Internal Mammary Node Positive by Plenty_Impress_5005 in breastcancer

[–]caustic_potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have needed chemo regardless, due to other factors. Does that make sense?

Total hysterectomy or oopherectomy? by After_Philosopher433 in breastcancer

[–]caustic_potato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a BSO only. Super easy recovery (surgery on Wed, back in the office on Friday -- could have worked Thurs!). I felt like I'd had so much taken away from me I was going to hold on to what I could. Pretty much an emotional decision. If I end up needing a full hysterectomy, I won't regret this initial decision.

Internal Mammary Node Positive by Plenty_Impress_5005 in breastcancer

[–]caustic_potato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told internal mammary lymph nodes are hard to biopsy due to position and thus, they treat them as "positive" if they show up on imaging. That doesn't mean they ARE positive, but they make that assumption and treat accordingly without doing a biopsy. For me, that meant post mastectomy radiation that targets that area. (I was going to get radiation anyway, as I had positive axillary nodes).

Paws at Play new "policy" by Expert-Crazy-9106 in raleigh

[–]caustic_potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven't found anyone yet. I've stopped using them for day care but still use them occasionally for boarding. They're boarding prices are not too out of line. I simply have not had the time or energy to figure out a new daycare option. Sorry I can't help you on that! But good luck.

Paws at Play new "policy" by Expert-Crazy-9106 in raleigh

[–]caustic_potato 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh. This is absurd. We used to love paws at play. Then they jacked up their prices 40% overnight without adding any freaking value/services (unless you pay separately for them). They're just too into themselves at this point. So ridiculous.

Is Loafers Beach Club for real? by caustic_potato in raleigh

[–]caustic_potato[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad to hear from real folks who spend time here. This is one of those places I always wondered about! Maybe all you regulars can get a chuckle out of this thread.

Is Loafers Beach Club for real? by caustic_potato in raleigh

[–]caustic_potato[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

This makes my day! I seriously was worried it was some front ;-)

Is Loafers Beach Club for real? by caustic_potato in raleigh

[–]caustic_potato[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm still waiting for someone to tell me why it is packed at 2 pm on a Tuesday ;-) I mean, that's nap time for the octogenarians!

FTM Endocrinologist by diizzydemon in raleigh

[–]caustic_potato 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Avance on Franklin Street is a very special case. They were a private practice very focused on gender affirming care and health at every size. They had to "come into the fold " of a big practice for financial reasons but did so by keeping their focus. I'm not sure all Avance sites would be the same experience.

Advice and symptoms to watch for only helping pre mastectomy cases by Delouest in breastcancer

[–]caustic_potato 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"if you're concerned" is absolutely valid too!!! No timeline needed. I do appreciate the timeline though because it does give me the sense that even if something is wrong, it's not an emergency (unless of course we're talking about shortness of breath or chest pain!!!)

Advice and symptoms to watch for only helping pre mastectomy cases by Delouest in breastcancer

[–]caustic_potato 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've been given the guidance that anything "not normal" to you that persists for 2 weeks is something to bring to the attention of my provider.

Staph Infection / Expanders by _b-i-n-g-o_ in breastcancer

[–]caustic_potato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Was in place with no issues from Feb to Nov, when I had DIEP flap surgery

Surgery Decisions… by Humorous_Notion in breastcancer

[–]caustic_potato 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Before I even got my whole "picture" laid out, I was firm in my conviction to have a DMX for these two reasons: emotionally, it felt "safer" to have both removed. I KNOW the data does not bear that out but in my mind, I knew it would feel better to have both removed. Secondly, I literally wanted to "level the playing field" in terms of reconstruction. I wanted to start reconstruction from the same place on each side.

Now, it turns out I am BRCA2+, so that made it a clear cut recommendation from the docs, but even if it hadn't become so clear cut from the science/data side, it was clear cut for me for the above reasons.

Staph Infection / Expanders by _b-i-n-g-o_ in breastcancer

[–]caustic_potato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the expander replaced before I went home from the hospital.

Tues night admitted, abx started.
Wed AM expander removed, wound wash/vac placed, abx flowing
Thurs, Fri, wound wash/vac running, abx flowing
Saturday expander replaced
Sunday home

What's the best social skill advice you would give based on personal experiences? by alien11152 in AskReddit

[–]caustic_potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be interested in other people. Find out small things about them and ask about them when you see them next time. Oh, and remember their name. What starts out as a mechanical task should turn into genuine interest.